The best way to be overcharged is to really overcharge. You are amazing and deserve a special partner. Give your crush some space by forgetting the phone for a while and letting him or her be the first to take the important steps. Balance it by giving him attention so he doesn't think you don't like him. Keep yourself busy with hobbies, grooming yourself, and dating other people if you're comfortable with that. Boost your confidence by enjoying time with friends and family who love you. You'll be happier and soon enough you'll be able to get his attention.
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Method 1 of 3: Balancing Distance and Attention
Step 1. Turn off the phone ringer or leave the phone at home
It's excruciating to have to figure out when to reply to someone you like. In theory, if you reply too quickly, you'll sound like you need him, and that's not a good impression if you're looking to sell high. However, it must be hard to resist the urge to reply to his message. To avoid the temptation, turn off the ringer so you don't hear any incoming messages.
Better yet, leave your phone at home when you're out with friends, or turn it off when you're watching a movie or working out at the gym. When you return, you'll likely see a message from him, at which point you can reply right away without forcing yourself to delay
Step 2. Invite him out casually
If you have feelings for a friend, it can be difficult to muster up the courage to ask her out. If you want to do this, don't spill your feelings all at once, let alone say, "I'm in love with you, do you love me too?" Most likely, the feelings hadn't gotten to that point yet, and the conversation would immediately stop.
- Better say, “Want to go out to eat this week?” You don't need to explicitly include the word “date”. Wait for him to say it, maybe after a few "outs".
- The same rule applies if you want to invite someone you admire from afar. Avoid words like, "I've been in love with you for a year." It's best to say, "Hey, do you want to see the new Spiderman movie this weekend?" This second question does not feel pressing.
Step 3. Let him kiss first
Show that you like him physically by teasing him, touching him "accidentally," and touching your lips when you talk. Even if you really want to be kissed, let him think it was his idea.
If he doesn't move, you can start cuddling. He would probably understand after that
Step 4. Say that you want to see each other again after the first date
Small gifts are very important in a high-end attitude. So he won't misunderstand and think you don't like him. After the first date, if you want to see him again, just let him know. Send a message saying, “I had a great time last night. Tell me if you want to go with me again!” This message clearly says that you want to spend more time with him, but don't say, "I couldn't sleep last night thinking about our wedding," which (even though it may be true) will frighten him.
Don't pretend you don't like him because he might just give up. On the other hand, selling high means signaling without giving yourself completely
Step 5. Let her be the first to say “I love you”
If the relationship is already established and you feel in love, do not express love first. You can signal your feelings, by saying, "I really like you" or "I love spending time with you," or "I'm crazy about you," but let him say the three magic words first.
That way, you can be sure that he's serious, and then you can say you love him back. Once he says, “I love you”, forget the high-end attitude. That's evil! If you love him too, say so
Method 2 of 3: Keeping yourself busy
Step 1. Do the things you love
It's probably obvious that you'll look a lot more attractive if you enjoy life and do fun activities instead of just sitting around waiting for messages from him. You will appear much happier, not a desperate and lonely woman.
Plan to meet friends and family every few days. The more fun and loving your friendship is, the less urgency you will have for a romantic relationship. So, you can look for a partner with more patience
Step 2. Get into a hobby
For example, if you like to draw, set aside time each week to practice drawing. Taking up a hobby will not only make you personally happy, it will also make you more attractive as a date.
Taking up a hobby also gives you something else to think about besides him, providing a therapeutic effect if you're a bit infatuated
Step 3. Spend at least 30 minutes every day exercising
Exercise will release endorphins that make you happy. Exercise also improves physical and mental health, and makes you more confident with a fit body.
Exercise is a powerful stress reliever. The next time you're heartbroken, try going to the gym instead of watching TV. You will be surprised by the difference you feel
Step 4. Try to get at least 8 hours of sleep every night
Sleep is a great way to feel happier and healthier, and can help you make smarter decisions in life and relationships. In order to get enough sleep, go to bed at the same time every night, and beforehand make sure you relax for about 1 hour without electronic devices.
Getting enough sleep is a form of self-love. Think of sleep as a reward each night, a reminder that you take care of yourself. The more you practice loving yourself, the more you will realize that you deserve love from others
Method 3 of 3: Building Confidence
Step 1. Boost your confidence by focusing on what makes you attractive
The best way to sell high is to realize that you are hard to come by. You are an extraordinary, unique person and deserve a partner who fits your personality, is kind to you, and who you are physically and emotionally attracted to.
Instead of dating thinking, "Does he like me?", think "Will I like him?". Assume he will like you because you are awesome. Now, it's up to you to decide if he deserves your time. This mindset makes dating feel like it's a perfect match auction, not a stressful test
Step 2. Try dating someone else if you feel comfortable
If there's no relationship commitment yet, boost your confidence by dating other people who are also interesting. Who knows, you may find someone better than the person you want right now. That way, he'll see that there are other people who like you too. It can also be used as practice so dating doesn't feel intimidating.
If you're already in love with him and don't want to date anyone else, make lots of plans with friends and family. He will see that you are loved by many people
Step 3. Have a love message party with friends
Invite your friends and invite them to write anonymous messages with qualities that they like in each other. It's a fun way to show your friends you love them, and you'll get lots of notes on all the attributes that make you great. Read that message whenever you feel low and need a reminder that you are special and loved.
