If men are from Mars and women are from Venus, it's no wonder the two have a hard time understanding each other. You may be the guy who is your partner feeling your life and feelings so he can understand you, but the same goes for the other way around, and you should also try to understand a little bit how men think. Once you understand how to think like a man, your communication and interactions with your male partner will improve.
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Step 1. Be blunt
Women tend to spin the topic around first rather than to get to the point, and often discuss the topic for too long or too long. On the other hand, men are more likely to express their thoughts in a direct and concise manner, and men rarely or have difficulty understanding what is really on the back of a woman's mind. To think like a man, say what goes through your head as soon as you think about it. Say it directly and without giving implicit statements that have hidden meanings.
Step 2. Don't be surprised
Men tend to be direct about what they want and are less sentimental about surprises. Surprising him every now and then will be appreciated, but of course, the guy who is your partner will likely not be so angry if you have to ask him directly what gift he wants for Christmas.
On the other hand, try to do the same. If your boyfriend or husband is having a hard time deciding what you want for your anniversary, give them some suggestions. Outside the context of romance, if you want to get a new position in the company and believe you deserve a higher position or more responsibility, say directly and clearly what you want to your boss, don't just expect people to notice
Step 3. Avoid obsessions or overthinking
Men and women love to worry. but women tend to worry continuously for a long time, while the man is not worried at all. This is true of problems in a relationship, family problems, and problems at work. Worry about things you can control. If you can't do anything about it at the time, don't worry about it until it's time to deal with it. Avoid worrying about anything unnecessarily.
Step 4. Show some independence
Most men like to be depended on, but most men also like to see the woman who becomes their partner can take care of and take care of themselves if necessary. Men are not as sentimental as women and do not seek and need as much emotional support as women do. By becoming more independent and showing that you can take care of and take care of yourself in your office and social life, you can gain a lot of knowledge and information about how men think about independence while showing the men around you that you value and have independence that deserves value and independence. valued.
Step 5. Let him know that you need him
While men value independence, they also need to feel needed. This desire to be needed is a character that is more attached to men than women. At a basic level, guys usually like to think that their skills and knowledge should be put to use, so don't be afraid to ask directions or ask for help fixing a punctured tire. On a more intimate level, he also needs to know that you trust him enough to want to tell him what's on your mind. But be careful not to let the guy offer practical help or want to solve your problem when you just want his support. That's normal and is the way a guy acts when he takes your problem seriously.
Step 6. Physical interaction
Touching is a great way to show your intentions to a guy. Contrary to what you might think, a nice guy is more interested in the emotional aspect of the interaction or physical contact as much as the physical aspect. Men may be able to separate these two aspects more easily than most women. But men are also more likely to show affection through touch or physical interaction and will understand the meaning of the interaction or physical touch that you do.
However, not all men can respond to touch. So you should know his personality before making physical contact. In addition, you also have to touch in a way that is appropriate and appropriate to the stage of your relationship at that time. If you have a guy friend that you're not going to be dating or something like that, for example, you can't just kiss him
Step 7. Don't worry too much about your appearance
Some men don't care about their appearance, and some even have problems with their appearance. But men rarely stand in front of the mirror and make a fuss about their appearance. Because of this, men sometimes don't understand when you stand in front of the mirror for a long time and grumble about your appearance. In order to think like a man, try to turn your attention to the part you like on your body or appearance every time you feel like standing in front of the mirror.
Step 8. Don't worry too much about casual relationships
Men will appreciate a close relationship with anyone close to him. But in work or casual relationships, men are less likely to worry about the interpersonal aspects of these relationships than women. Next time you get into a fight with a coworker or barista and it makes you feel down, ignore it and move on. Don't worry about what's causing you to fight, and avoid making things too personal or letting the tension spread to other things in your life (which may have nothing to do with it at all).
Step 9. Play some video games or strategy games
Not all men like to play video games or computer games. But female gamers are something very rare. To be able to think like a man, play some games that men might play. Rent or buy games that require strategy in moving around and achieving goals, such as MMORPGs or war simulations. If you're not into video games, try learning to play a strategy-based board game. The value and emphasis of strategy in board games remains the same as in strategy video games.
Step 10. Stay up-to-date with gadget news and science
By now, many people already know that men tend to prefer things related to science, math, and technology over something related to art. To better understand what attracts men, take a look at the latest developments in science and technology. That way you might be able to bring it up as a topic of conversation with the guy you like.
