"Hickey" is a slang term referring to the bruise marks caused by sucking or kissing someone's skin while making out. A hickey can be a reminder of a fun making out session, but it can also be an embarrassment, something a girl feels she should hide from her parents and teachers. If you want to hickey a girl, make sure she's willing to accept it. A hickey is a sign of ownership, and it probably won't go away for up to two weeks.
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Part 1 of 2: Getting Ready
Step 1. Know what a hickey is
A hickey is a bruise mark left on a part of a partner's body when making out. You create a hickey by gently rupturing blood vessels using suction from your lips against sensitive areas of skin. A hickey is a sign of love, and a visible sign that you have had an intimate relationship with someone. But, be careful with all the consequences!
Step 2. Give the hickey only if it is approved by the recipient
You'll be leaving a visible mark on someone's neck, so it's best to make sure they're willing to accept it before you do. Of course, you might spoil the mood if you ask, "Do you mind if I cheat on you?" Consider that he might be embarrassed by this love sign. There's a good chance she doesn't want her friends, family, or teachers to know that she loves making out, and she may feel like she has to cover up that mark with makeup or a scarf. There are those who will proudly flaunt the hickey they receive, while others will feel embarrassed.
- A hickey is a sign of ownership, a sign of intimacy. In general, an emotionally attached boyfriend or partner will be more willing to accept a hickey than someone you just met last night.
- Consider whether giving a hickey is the "goal" of your meeting this girl. It's fun to give and receive a hickey when making out, but you shouldn't focus on just signaling and "stamping" it. No need to rush, and let him feel happy!
Step 3. Give a hickey when making out
Do not directly suck the neck without warming up. Hickeys are best given during heated courtship sessions, in heightened arousal, at times that are felt most intimately. Kiss him first, at least for a few minutes. If you're making love, hickey markings are a great fit, and any pain you'll feel from the hickeys will also be an experience.
Be aware that for some people, pain can spoil the mood. Not everyone likes it
Step 4. Kiss her neck slowly downhill
Whether you're making love or making out, gently bite his neck and give him a light kiss. Most hickeys are applied to the neck, with light pressure from the lips on the sensitive skin. There is no "right" or "wrong" selection of a hickey on the neck. But she'll find it easier to hide it if it's low to her collarbone, or high up in the neck, where her hair can be covered.
The neck may be the most popular area for a hickey, but technically you can hickey anywhere on sensitive skin. For a less flashy but more intimate sign, try a hickey on the top of her chest or on the inside of her upper thigh
Part 2 of 2: Giving Signs
Step 1. Open your mouth slightly
While kissing his neck, form a circle using your lips on the part of your choice. Don't drool over it, but keep kissing it, and get ready for a hickey.
- Estimate how long it will take to warm up before the hickey. If the two of you have a very intimate relationship, then it won't be awkward to kiss his neck for a few moments.
- Don't kiss the same body part over and over for a few minutes! Kiss her all over her neck and face, and consider biting her skin gently. Do various variations so that the kiss is fun.
Step 2. Feed the hickey
Apply suction by inhaling lightly when kissing the area. Exhale through your nose and inhale through your mouth to further increase suction. Keep your mouth in the same place for up to thirty seconds to give the hickey.
- You can also try biting the neck with the tip of your teeth, very gently, which is like a light touch. Experiment with gently biting his neck, but be careful not to hurt him!
- Stop if he asks you to stop. Agreement is not a promise that lasts forever, but an agreement that is constantly changing. If he feels uncomfortable with his situation anymore, then as a good person, you must stop him and respect his wishes.
Step 3. Check the hickey
The part of the body you are sucking on should be red and slightly swollen. If the redness disappears after a few minutes, you can repeat. This time, suck a little harder, so that you break the blood vessels on the surface of the skin.
Step 4. Tell him about the hickey
Think carefully, because maybe he doesn't want everyone to know he's got a hickey. At least he may want to hide the sign in certain situations, for example when meeting his parents. For her sake, as well as yourself, tell her ahead of time so she can hide the hickey with makeup, a scarf, or a high-collared shirt.
Warning
- Be careful, herpes and other diseases that are transmitted through the mouth can be transmitted through hickeys. When you get a hickey, you break the blood vessels in your neck, and release the virus in your mouth into the girl's bloodstream. Be careful and think before you act!
- Not everyone likes to get a hickey. Some people like to experience and show off their intimacy, while there are certain people who refuse to be given a hickey. Don't be afraid to try it, but be aware that it's not always welcome.
