If you and your partner are making out and want to take your intimacy to the next level, you definitely don't want to spoil the atmosphere by being overwhelmed with your partner's bra latch for five minutes or until your partner takes pity on you and unhook his own bra. Learn to maintain momentum by practicing how to unhook your bra with one hand.
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Method 1 of 3: Understanding the Bra
Step 1. Find a bra that you can practice in
Ask yourself to do laundry at home. It may seem awkward at first, but it takes time to unlatch your bra, even with both hands, and it's one of the easiest ways to practice.
- You can buy cheap bras at thrift stores. Pretend you're buying the bra for your partner or a costume party.
- You can buy cloth bracelets online that go around your wrist with the same hook-and-hook holes as those on bras. You can use the bracelet to practice your ability to unhook the bra with your hands.
- If you are a woman, the situation is easier because you can practice in your own bra.
Step 2. Pay attention to the mechanism by which the bra is attached
Most bras have two wide straps (or bands) tied at the back. There are several hooks sewn to the end of the left strap (provided the person wearing the bra is facing you) and a hook hole sewn to the end of the right strap. If the person wearing the bra has their back to you, the latch is on the right, and the latch hole is on the left. There is a minimum of one hook and one eyelet, but the number varies from two to five rows and columns of hooks and eyelets.
Some front hook bras have one large hook that you have to slide down to release instead of sideways, or back and forth like a bra with hooks
Step 3. Practice removing the bra with one hand
You can place your bra on a bolster pillow or a rolled-up mattress. Anything the size of a human chest. This will tighten the bra straps so you can practice with a tight bra strap.
- First of all, it's a good idea to practice with the straps still loose so that you can get used to the mechanics of attaching and untying the bra.
- Practice with one hand, then switch hands so you know which hand is more reliable. This more reliable hand may not be your right hand (or left if you are left-handed).
Method 2 of 3: Removing Bra Back Hook
Step 1. Tuck your hands into the back of your partner's shirt until you reach his bra straps
Reach the center of her back and look for a slightly protruding part of the bra that is made of a thicker material, or a gap where the latch and hook holes of the bra connect. If the back of the bra is smooth, your partner may be wearing a front hook bra, or a bralette, or a sports bra that has to be removed by opening it through the top like taking off a t-shirt.
- This is a good time to confirm that your partner has your blessing. When your hand is on the hook, pause and ask your partner, "Are you okay?" Don't disrespect your partner by thinking he doesn't mind if you take off his bra.
- If your partner doesn't want to, stop what you're doing and go back to making out.
- Make sure your hands are warm before putting them on your partner's shirt. Your partner might be surprised if your cold hand touches his warm skin.
Step 2. Slide your middle and index fingers under the bra straps and pull the straps
Your two fingers should be right where the bra is attached or below where the hook meets the hook hole.
Step 3. Place your thumb on the other end of the rope
Pinch the fabric between your thumb and two fingers. This part of the fabric you pinch should be where the two ends of the rope overlap. If you only pinch one piece of fabric, nothing will happen when you try to remove the bra.
Step 4. Slide or push your thumbs towards your two fingers to unhook them
Make sure your fingers pinch the fabric firmly. It's the same gesture as when you snap your fingers, only this time you're using three fingers. Think of the movement like this. Squeeze or pinch the material between your fingers and thumb while sliding your thumb forward to release the latch.
Method 3 of 3: Removing the Front Latch Bra
Step 1. Move your hands towards your partner's chest and find the hook in the middle of her bra
The hooks are usually made of metal or plastic and are attached to the sternum. Most women wear back hook bras, so make sure your partner is wearing a back hook bra before trying to unhook the front bra.
- Even if it's clear what you want to do, make sure first that he's okay with what you're doing. Make sure his blessing, but do not need to overdo it, you can even ask for his blessing with a sexy. Stop for a moment and whisper to him, "It's okay, right?" If your partner agrees, you can continue to remove her bra.
- If he doesn't want to, don't force him. Put your hands away and go back to enjoying kissing your partner.
Step 2. Slide your middle and index fingers under the hook and pull
This will loosen the bra a bit. If the bra doesn't have latch holes, there's bound to be a plastic or metal plate that sticks and tightens when squeezed. If your partner's bra is like that, spread your fingers so they're on each side of the hook.
Step 3. Press the latch with your thumb
If the bra has a hook hole, do the same pinching and pulling action with a back hook bra. Otherwise, you will have to push one of the hooks up until it comes off the other. Pinch one hook and pull it up with your thumb and forefinger while sliding down the other hook with your middle finger.
The latch doesn't always go on the same side, so if this doesn't work, try pressing your thumb against your middle finger and pulling up while your index finger pulls down
Tips
No matter how happy you are when you succeed, don't show off your ability to take off your bra because that will make you unattractive in the eyes of your partner. Just concentrate on the next activity
Warning
- If your partner doesn't want to, don't push! Never force your partner to do something he or she doesn't want to do.
- Don't use this knowledge to do bad things. No woman will be happy if you suddenly walk up to her in public and unhook her bra.
