Your dream figure will only be a dream if you don't express your feelings to him. If you're too shy to express your feelings directly, you can write him a note. Keep notes short, simple, and straightforward. Explain how you feel, but don't add too many unnecessary details. Be prepared for his reaction, and remember that even if he doesn't feel the same for you, at least you've had the courage to tell him how you feel, and this is definitely something you can be proud of.
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Part 1 of 2: Writing Messages
Step 1. Keep the message short and simple
Let him know that you like him and want to spend time with him. Don't beat around the bush, repeat the same thing, or overstate how awesome he is (or that you always think about him). If you seem insistent, he will actually feel uncomfortable with you.
Step 2. Tell him that you like him
Even though it feels terrible, it's good for you to be honest. Be honest about your feelings and say that you like them. Don't express your "undying" love or tell him that you're always thinking about him. Besides, you certainly don't want him to feel uncomfortable with you, do you?
- For example, you could write, “I like you. Would you like to spend some time with me sometime?”
- Don't write, "I can't stop thinking about you and I dream of you every night. I really love you."
Step 3. Give some reasons you like it
Think about what made you like him and attracted him. Is he a good person or funny? Is he a great dancer or a great guitarist? List one or two specific things that attracted you to him.
- For example, you might write, “I admire your courage to stand up for other kids,” or “I love your persistence in chemistry class.”
- Don't write things like "You're so hot," or "You're so popular." Such things are not a good reason to like someone, nor can they highlight their personality.
Step 4. Have confidence
Sharing your feelings with other people can be scary at times. However, you shouldn't lower yourself in a written note or assume that he won't reciprocate your feelings. Don't let him know that you are afraid of rejection. Instead, show your confidence.
- Don't write things like "I know you're not going to like me, but I wanted to let you know that I'm always thinking about you."
- Instead, you could write, “I want to get to know you better. Would you like to spend some time with me on the weekend?”
Step 5. Don't list things that other people don't need to know
There is a chance that your crush will show your notes to their friends. This is why you need to write simple, straightforward notes. There is no need to feel embarrassed when you express your feelings to him. However, if you include too many personal details, you will end up feeling uncomfortable when other people read your messages.
Don't say things like, “You were my first crush and I always think of me. I've never kissed before and I want you to be the first to kiss me."
Part 2 of 2: Taking the Next Step
Step 1. Organize your message
You don't need to buy cool stationery or take calligraphy classes, but use neat handwriting so your crush can read your message easily. If you make a few lines of errors in your notes, rewrite your message. He may know the things you crossed out, and of course you don't want that to happen.
Don't add hearts or lips to your notes. Save that affection for other notes you send when you're on a date
Step 2. Bookmark your notes
It is very important that you tag the note with your name. After all, you want him to know that YOU like him, and not just to show that he has a secret admirer. If there are several students with the same name in your class, include your last name or at least the initials of the last name to avoid confusion.
- For example, you could write, “I want to know the answer from you. From Via V."
- As another example, you could write, “See you later in class. Ridwan Dadu."
Step 3. Add recipients to the note
You can fold your notes in an interesting pattern, or put them in a glued envelope. Make sure you include the name of your idol on the outside of the note so that someone who sees it is not confused about finding the recipient of the note. In addition, include the initials of the last name (or last name in full) if there is more than one person with the same name in your school.
For example, you could write, "For Enzy S."
Step 4. Send him your message
You can give it directly or tuck it in the locker. You can also ask your friend to give him your note, but make sure he tells your crush that you sent it to avoid confusion. It's a good idea to wait until lunch break or after school before sending a message so you don't feel awkward during class.
- Wait until he is alone before giving your message so he can read it behind closed doors.
- Alternatively, you can send your message via email. However, you know when he will read your message (or whether your message will be read). Also, it's possible that he doesn't take digital messages seriously, as opposed to written ones.
Step 5. Ask him to reply to your notes
You can add a line asking him to reply to your message. You can also ask him to text you back when sending the note directly. For example, you could say, "I'm out of class if you want to talk to me after reading this message."
If you haven't gotten a response from him a few days after sending the note, you can ask him directly. Just ask, “Hey! Have you read my notes?” when you meet him
Step 6. Be prepared for the reaction
Hopefully, he likes you too and your record is the start of a memorable relationship. However, this is not always the case so you need to be prepared for rejection. Realize that he has already made his decision, and don't try to change it. It doesn't matter if you feel sad or disappointed. Give yourself time to accept the situation, let go of your desire to date her, and rise above it.
