Based on a recent survey conducted by Saeclus, one of the users of the ROBLOX site, it was found that the number of people using online dating sites or applications is increasing from time to time. Are you interested in doing it too? Before scouring the internet to find a date, understand some simple mistakes that are prone to scorching your chances of getting the right person. For full tips, keep reading this article!
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Step 1. Evaluate yourself
Be honest with yourself about what kind of person you are really looking for. Also realize the truth of the phrase "don't judge someone by their appearance alone". If there are currently no profiles that interest you, understand that people are used to updating their profiles over time. Be patient.
Step 2. Promote yourself
Include several photos of yourself, both taken indoors and outdoors; also include close-up photos and full body photos taken from various locations and viewpoints. Do not include photos that are too standard or look glamorous. If you're reluctant to post your private photos online because you doubt their safety, try using a private photo-sharing service like www.protectedpix.com. Using the teaser image feature, you can modify your personal photos so that people can imagine your physical profile without actually identifying it in detail. After that, you can share real photos of yourself only with people who really interest you.
Step 3. Don't rush to commit
In other words, open the widest opportunity. Don't put all your focus on trying to date online; nor do you think of the internet as your only hope of finding that special someone. Remember, special people often appear from unexpected places, such as in the library, coffee shop, or even the market you frequent. Show a positive attitude and mind! Remember, someone who always looks desperate won't interest anyone.
Step 4. Go to your profile periodically
At the very least, go through your profile a few times a week to see if anyone has caught your interest.
Step 5. Don't be a stalker in cyberspace
Don't keep haunting someone's life and texting them regularly. If he doesn't respond to your efforts, step back and find someone else; chances are, he just isn't interested in you!
Step 6. Stay positive
When listing your profile information, make it clear what kind of date you are looking for. Feel free to show your humorous and extroverted side, and make sure your wishes are conveyed clearly and straightforwardly. If you are reluctant to date a smoker, affirm the information politely. But remember, including this information will not necessarily prevent smokers, drinkers, or other types of people you avoid from contacting you.
Step 7. Do your task
Some online dating sites have a more elegant and trusted appearance and work process; however, that doesn't mean you can 100% trust any of the information it contains. In other words, do some independent research through Google or a similar search page before dating anyone. Remember, just because the computer system thinks you're a good match for someone doesn't mean you'll necessarily be a match for them. Check the profile again; if necessary, email or call her several times before actually seeing her.
Step 8. Get to know him before you meet him
Before meeting anyone in person, make sure you call them first. Be on the lookout for people who refuse to call before the meeting, or repeatedly make up excuses for the meeting to be cancelled. If a similar situation occurs to you, immediately end the relationship with that person.
Step 9. Be careful about providing personal information
Never give anyone specific details about where you live or work.
Step 10. Try to detect the fraudster
Observe and be aware of discrepancies in the information provided by your interlocutor; usually, it indicates that he is leading you in the wrong direction.
Step 11. Make sure you always play it safe
In some early dating processes, always choose a location that is quite crowded and open; make sure you also always convey the identity of your date and date location to those closest to you. Never invite anyone to your home if you don't know them well. Don't drink alcohol, and don't allow anyone near your drink (except restaurant waiters).
Step 12. Always have backup protection
During a date, ask a friend or relative to call you occasionally, just to make sure you're okay.
Step 13. Remember, online scams are everywhere
Be on the lookout for negative symptoms such as someone constantly canceling appointments with you, asking you for money, or forcing you to provide personal and/or sex-related information (such as nude photos) at the beginning of your introduction. If this situation happens to you, cut ties with that person immediately!
Step 14. Be open-minded
Stay positive and optimistic, but be aware that even the most accurate profile and self-portrait do not guarantee a match between the two people you are interacting with. Sometimes, matches just happen; but there are times when, no matter how hard you try, a match between you and whoever you interact with just won't show up. Good luck!
Tips
- Do not include photos of your children. Doing so may be considered a form of exploitation and unfair to other parents; even mentioning that you have children will suffice.
- Don't include photos of your ex-partner; do not also post a picture of you with an ex-spouse whose head or body you intentionally removed. If you do, you'll look like someone who hasn't gotten over their ex, or someone who's too lazy to update their photos.
- Make sure you include a real and recent photo of yourself. Also include photos of one body and other photos that are relevant to your life such as your pets, cars, or vacation activities.
- To connect with people who have similar interests, try listing your personal interests on your profile page. Make sure you don't fake interest and attraction just to attract the attention of the opposite sex! If you like doing quirky activities like strolling through cemeteries, why pretend to like jogging in city parks like most of the people around you? Trust me, your lies will be exposed sooner or later.
- Make sure your online profile is able to reveal your identity gradually, so that no information will surprise your potential partner in the future.
- Be humble and open minded. Don't include a profile description like, “I'm a very picky guy. If your income doesn't reach X, your height is less than X, and your weight is more than X, etc.", if you don't want to be seen as a fake, unapproachable, childish man.
