If you've been teased too many times, you might think about turning into a heartbreaker. Interested in learning more? Keep reading.
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Part 1 of 3: Get the Attitude
Step 1. Have fun
Simply put, people who appear to be having fun gives the impression that they seem more fun to be around. One of the quickest ways to attract attention is to present yourself in a fun and cheerful manner.
- This is easier to achieve with certain places or situations. So choose night spots in your city carefully. For example, a club, or any event that involves dancing is a great opportunity to show your fun side. In this setting, dance like you don't care who's watching. Doing this will accentuate your confidence and a certain carefree mood.
- Smile often even when you don't want to smile. Laugh at jokes, even if they aren't very funny.
- Control your laughter. A loud, flirtatious laugh will attract more positive attention than a loud, boisterous laugh.
Step 2. Set the speed
Be the one in the crowd who decides when and what to do next, and don't let your opinion be ignored.
- If the guy you're flirting with suggests moving elsewhere, keep the situation under control by playfully teasing that you'd rather dance/stay/do whatever at your current location longer, even if you secretly want to leave too. Then, when the time is right, show that you are ready to move. The key here is to show that the decision is yours, not someone else's.
- If asked where you want to go, say a place, even if you don't really want to go there. This is another way to keep the situation at your tempo and establish a certain control over the night.
Step 3. Play the crowd
When in a crowd of strangers, take the opportunity to flirt with some potential targets. Some may not be attracted to the idea that they have a rival, but others will either take up the challenge or find your confidence attractive.
- Another advantage this situation creates is that you display a certain courage, showing that you can be happy without a man standing by you because you will be the one. This may seem counter-intuitive at first, but you are in some ways, throwing challenges and giving the boys around you challenges.
- When approached by someone in particular, focus almost all of your attention on them. To be a heartbreaker, you will need to offer at least a little hope so the interaction might develop into something more.
Step 4. Only express feelings that benefit you
Keep your innermost thoughts and feelings a mystery and only reveal those that can help you on the task of becoming a heartbreaker.
- Keep the conversation light and away from serious topics. Also avoid conversations that would allow the other person to know more about you, or about him or her.
- If the mood is suddenly gloomy, refrain from expressing yourself too much. Stay calm, confident, and follow the situation until you can leave.
Part 2 of 3: Getting the Look
Step 1. Show some skin
The key part here is "a little". Choose clothes that subtly reveal a glimmer of skin without looking like you're asking for attention or trying to be cheesy. Show enough skin to stimulate the imagination while keeping it hidden enough to keep the imagination going.
- Low cut tops are the best fit, but also the most abused. Tops that show a little cleavage can be very effective, but if you think there's a risk of the top "falling off," it's probably more cheap than sexy.
- Mini skirts or mini dresses are your next best choice. This is especially effective if you have long, slender legs. As with low cut tops, some things go too far. If you can't sit down without showing your underwear to the world, the skirt is probably too short. Get a length where you can feel comfortable and confident.
- An open-back top is a bad choice, but it can be very attractive when worn correctly. In everyday wear, the back is almost always covered. As a result, exposing your back evokes a sense of intimacy without actually showing off the inappropriate parts. Also, open back tops and dresses are hard to abuse. Just make sure that your bra can't be seen from the exposed parts.
Step 2. Show off your best body parts
Wear clothes that flatter your figure and draw attention to your best body parts while covering up areas that you find less attractive.
- If you have a wide midsection or minimal curves, highlight your natural waist with a belt or choose a top that fits around the waist. It is also suitable if you are trying to shrink big hips. By drawing attention to your waist, you can accentuate your figure and balance your overall body shape.
- If you have a slim figure and you want to attract attention, wear tops, dresses and skirts with straight cuts. To prevent your look from becoming boxy, make sure you wear clothes that fit your size. Clothes that are too big will make you look unattractive.
- If you want to draw attention to your chest, wear a neckline that naturally draws the eye to your chest. V-necklines and halter tops may be considered. Also consider wearing tops and dresses with embellishments or decorations near the neckline or chest.
- If you want to draw attention to your hips or legs, wear a skirt with lots of detail. Try tassels, lace, and embellishments. On the other hand, a tight pencil skirt can also look attractive if you have legs that fit.
Step 3. Sprinkle some perfume
Use a long-lasting perfume with a scent that appeals to you. Note that, however, some scents will help you in your task of becoming a heartbreaker more quickly than others.
- Avoid floral, green, and ocean scents. While these scents are great for casual wear, they tend to be quite mild and may not have a strong effect.
- Use woody, musky and oriental notes when choosing the right scent for your heart-breaking charms. These scents tend to be richer and more appealing.
Step 4. The less the better
Simply spritz some perfume near your pulse points -- especially your wrists, the backs of your knees, and the front of the base of your neck. Spraying too much perfume can make it too difficult for those around you, let alone fall in love with you.
Step 5. Support yourself with the right shoes
For a night on the town, your best bet is high heels. Like anything else, knowing the right type to choose from can make or break your look.
- Choose a heel height that is comfortable for you. In the end if you end up tripping and falling on your face because you can't walk properly, you might break an ankle but won't break anyone's heart.
- Know that there is a limit to everything, even to this. If you have to stop and ask yourself if a pair of heels is sexy or cheesy, you can bet that this will probably be your second choice.
- Strap heels are feminine and go well with most dresses and skirts. On the other hand, right-handed bots can look a little more “trendy” but still attractive.
Step 6. Use makeup to highlight key areas
Don't use too much makeup. Instead, focus on highlighting your eyes and lips while keeping your face color visible.
- Use foundation and concealer to smooth facial skin. You can use a little powder, if desired, but keep this area of makeup looking smooth.
- Use eye makeup with care. If you really want to highlight your eyes, you'll need mascara, eyeliner, and eyeshadow. Only use enough mascara to lift your lashes, and never use too much so that your lashes look squishy. You can get a little creative with eyeshadow, especially if you're out at night, but keep in mind that dark colors and gem-rich colors tend to look better than light “clown-like” colors.
- Choose the right type for lip gloss or lipstick. If you have heavy eye makeup, a gloss may suffice. You can use lipstick if you want to make your eyes smaller. Strong pinks and reds work well, but richer colors may look better than bright neon colors.
Part 3 of 3: Keep Running the Action
Step 1. Take care of your body
Stay in shape and maintain your basic hygiene routine so you look perfect both in and out of heartbreak mode.
- Monitor body weight with a balanced diet and exercise. The easiest way to do this is to keep your calorie count under control. If you want to stay at your weight, make sure that the number of calories you consume through food is balanced with the number of calories you burn through exercise. To lose weight, burn more calories than you consume. To gain weight, consume more calories than you burn.
- Shower regularly. Bathing every two days can keep your skin glowing and your hair clean and healthy.
- Take care of your hair. If you have brittle, damaged hair, use conditioners and other hair products made to re-infuse moisture. For the look of limp and oily hair, use products that regulate the oil balance in your scalp.
- Take care of your skin. In addition to bathing, you also need to take care of your skin by using lotion after bathing. Keep it out of the sun and avoid products that can stain or damage your skin.
Step 2. Let them want more
Never go too far with someone you just want to hang out with. The occasional flirty touch or kiss is acceptable behavior for a broken heart, but never give the impression that you might be "easy" to get. Instead, you have to make yourself look like a challenge that never relents.
The song The Marina & The Diamonds describes it perfectly: “Gotta be looking pure. / Kiss him goodbye at the door and leave him wanting more.”
Step 3. Avoid personal ties
If you really want to avoid being "stuck" or bonded, you'll need to avoid giving special treatment or getting to know certain people too well.
Once you give your heart to someone, your heart breaking days are over. Of course this is not necessarily a bad thing, but something to keep in mind
Step 4. Move hearts
Avoid visiting the same place too often to avoid meeting the same crowd. As more and more people start to notice you in the crowd, you may begin to build a reputation as a heartbreaker, and even new people may stop chasing you.
Warning
- Know where to draw the line. A heartbreaker who flirts casually is one thing, but a heartbreaker who “controls” someone for a month just to be pampered with gifts, money, and attention is another. The former still retains little respect, while the latter is cruel and trouble-seeking.
- Remember the saying "What you reap is what you sow". A heartbroken appearance and demeanor can be a great way to protect yourself and attract attention from the opposite sex, but if you go out of your way to hurt someone's day in a deep and lasting way, you may find yourself on your own when all is said and done.
