Want to learn to capture the attraction of the woman you like? If so, the tips listed in this article are worth implementing!
Step
Step 1. Show that you appreciate it
Don't kiss him if he doesn't want to be kissed. Instead of trying to get something out of him, think about what you might be able to give him. Don't overdo it as if it's a glass that is prone to breaking; he probably didn't like it. Remember, most women like to be the center of attention, but don't do that all the time or you'll make her sick.
Step 2. Be honest
Don't play with her feelings; don't compliment her just because you want to seduce her. Do whatever you can to get his attention, but don't play with his heart. Remember, you can't get back the trust you've lost.
Step 3. Be honest about your passions and interests
Do you like reading comics? Even if you think the hobby is boring and won't attract women, the fact is that there will always be women who will be attracted to your "unique" attraction! If you're afraid to bore him with the same thing over and over again, try asking him what he's interested in and building a topic from that!
Step 4. Be confident
Believe me, women will not be attracted to men who have low self-esteem. But don't be too confident or you will look arrogant in his eyes.
Step 5. Don't be over-the-top
If you pretend that you're not attracted to them, they're likely to turn easily to other guys around them. So before playing any game, make sure you know the rules of the game and when to stop.
Step 6. Be a person who always smells good
Try wearing a perfume that smells nice and seductive. Remember, a man's scent is an important factor that can trap a woman's attraction. If your body smells bad, surely no woman will want to be near you. But also make sure you don't wear too much perfume because men with pungent smells are also avoided by women!
Step 7. Be funny and playful
Tell silly jokes, but don't push yourself too hard. First, try experimenting with standard jokes that often make your friends laugh. Even if he doesn't laugh, you're still one step ahead of understanding his sense of humor. But be careful, some women also laugh at jokes that they find offensive; Unfortunately, the laughter is directed at those of you who find such a lowly joke funny. Another possibility, they laugh because they feel uncomfortable. Watch the words that come out of your mouth! The majority of women hate jokes that are too harsh or vulgar; but sometimes they will still laugh just to keep your feelings. So even if they laugh, make sure you pay attention to their facial expressions too.
Step 8. Compliment her in a way that doesn't overdo it
Increase your sensitivity when around him; you will be able to observe his characteristics, such as how romantic and sentimental he is, or what things he likes. Romantics are usually open to compliments. But remember, don't praise him too much or you'll come across as weird, scary, and intimidating. Try giving an implied compliment about one characteristic he thinks you wouldn't notice.
Step 9. Smile
The best gift a man can give is a smile. Believe me, women like men who like to smile! A smile shows that you are a happy person and know how to have fun. Don't take life too seriously and show him that you are a nice person.
Step 10. Make sure you are always by his side whenever needed
Don't just be a listener and follow him wherever he goes, but be active by asking him how he's doing and helping him get back on his feet. Use some of the techniques listed in Step Three to make her smile again. Trust me, he'll like you even more if you don't hesitate to show him you care.
Step 11. Be adventurous, courageous, and spontaneous
Step 12. Be social
Don't give the impression that your world will end if he doesn't talk to you. Remember, your life doesn't just revolve around it. Get along with the other person and don't stick around by their side all the time. Don't let him think he's the only one on your mind, even if it's true.
Step 13. Show your romantic side
On Valentine's Day, try giving him a greeting card or simple gifts. Don't worry, he won't embarrass you even if he doesn't like you.
Step 14. Be yourself:
Be an open and fun man. Respond to his jokes, show that you are comfortable around him, and don't hesitate to make jokes spontaneously.
Step 15. Look back at him and smile
If he likes you, he's more likely to stare at you a lot (especially if you're both in the same location). If he's caught staring at you, look back at him and give him a short smile. After that, immediately take your eyes off him and resume your activities again.
Always remember that every woman wants to be loved. If you think of a romantic relationship as just a fun game, it's a sign that you're not the right person for him. Remember, men usually like what they see and get, while women prefer what they hear and realize. For example, if you are willing to be a good listener and always remember his words, he is more likely to pay more attention to you
Tips
- Be friendly; always remember the message of parents to respect and take good care of women.
- If he doesn't come up to you and talk to you, chances are he's just shy! So try "teasing" him by talking to the people around him first. Slowly, approach him and have a chat with him. Remember, there are only two possibilities if he doesn't approach you: he's embarrassed or you just don't look friendly in his eyes. Whatever the reason, sooner or later you will surely notice it.
- Don't be too fussy or seem too proud of yourself. If you appear narcissistic and arrogant, sooner or later people will turn away from you.
- Be a mysterious figure; make him want you even more.
- Make sure you always keep it clean. In addition, make sure your body always smells good and your fingers are always clean.
- If you run into her, make sure you greet her with a smile first; it will make him feel comfortable and accepted.
- Make sure you're always friendly and polite even when he's not around. Be careful, other people can always tell negative things about you to him.
- Women usually like surprises; therefore, try to plan a sweet and pleasant surprise for him every now and then (but don't buy him something too often!).
- Every single woman likes a manly man. Show that you are a manly figure and able to respect women, but don't do it too much because it will actually reduce your quality.
- Use humor to win women's hearts.
Warning
- Don't make dirty or rude jokes; some women find it funny, but more women find it inappropriate and annoying.
- Take care of your posture!
- Don't be a "many man". Most men show their interest by flirting or making fun of the women they like. Try not to be that kind of guy; instead, show that you value the woman you like. Show your maturity and why you are different from most of the men around you.
- For childish women, “love games” are indeed interesting. Unfortunately, sooner or later the game will end and after that, you are required to start the game with other people. Is that what you want?
- Don't keep praising yourself! You will be seen as narcissistic and attention-hungry.
- NEVER tell racist, homophobic, gendered or similar jokes that are intolerant. To you, such jokes may be ridiculous; but to him, it could be offensive. Even if you don't mean to offend him, he's more likely to label you as intolerant; believe me, the predicate will not make you look attractive in his eyes.
- Remember, there is a very clear difference between being "popular" and being "loved". Most people with popular predicate actually hate the predicate; they hate being used to make other people look popular. Don't try to be popular; Be a person who is easy to love.
- Understand that a serious romantic relationship is a complex and colorful situation. Do not be surprised if you will find a variety of relationship turmoil that occurs simultaneously.
- DON'T BE TOO BELIEVE. Too much praise and self-talk will only make women lazy to serve you.
