You can increase your attractiveness in a woman's eyes by knowing your best qualities, and finding ways to make them stand out. The trick, have a passion for life, as well as by being kind and respecting others. You don't need to change yourself to be more attractive. You just have to try to be your best self.
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Method 1 of 3: Improving Appearance
Step 1. Maintain physical fitness
Many Adams think that they have to lift weights to have a fit body. That's not always true. You can still exercise without a membership in the fitness center. Push-ups will work your chest and triceps, while crunches will work your abs. You can also do cardio outside the home, such as by cycling, running, or swimming.
- Do sit ups by placing your calves / feet on the seat and back on the floor. Place your hands behind your head, then move your head toward the ceiling.
- Exercise not only tightens the body so it is more attractive to the eye, but also increases energy and self-confidence.
Step 2. Choose attractive clothes
The selection of age-appropriate clothing can reflect personality. Men wearing 16-year-old teenage clothes proved to be less attractive than men wearing adult clothes. You don't need to wear a suit, just tweak the style a bit. Buy good pants and jeans, don't keep wearing old jeans. Choose tops and bottoms with a slim cut. Try several colors and choose the one that brings out your best attributes (such as hair, skin, and eye color).
- Pay attention to the shoes. Discard any torn or perforated sneakers. Keep leather shoes in good condition with regular maintenance.
- Also, consider the taste of the clothes. When close together, women like fabrics that feel good against their skin, and you should also feel comfortable wearing clothes.
- One technique to attract women is to wear clothes that catch their attention.
- Scientifically, women tend to be more attracted to men who wear red. For that reason, the police stopped the red sedans more often than the blue ones. The red color is eye catching.
Step 3. Maintain personal hygiene
Take care of your body and make sure it smells good. Shower every day, use the shampoo and soap that suits you. Look for a pleasantly scented deodorant, such as musk. Consider wearing cologne for a special date, but no more than two sprays. Brush your teeth regularly, at least twice a day, and use oral hygiene products such as floss and mouthwash.
Consider using a lotion to keep your skin moisturized and healthy
Step 4. Practice good posture
Posture is simple, but it will improve the appearance. Correct posture is often overlooked because most jobs require a crouched position in front of the computer. A straight posture makes you appear taller, stronger, and more confident.
Imagine your torso tied to a hanger
Step 5. Eat healthy
Healthy eating habits not only support your body shape, but also help you in many ways. A better diet can increase energy, self-confidence, and overall health. These factors help to highlight other features that women find attractive. Start small, and make sure you're drinking enough every day (about eight glasses).
- Increase consumption of fruits and vegetables.
- Avoid high-carb foods such as rice, bread, potatoes, and pasta. You can enjoy carbohydrates as long as they are accompanied by other foods that are high in nutrients.
Method 2 of 3: Having a Good Personality
Step 1. Cultivate an interest
Women are attracted to men who have passion in life. Life that doesn't just revolve around eating, working, and sleeping is certainly more interesting. Have a hobby and turn it into a passion. Try playing a musical instrument, making crafts like pottery, cooking, writing, running, rock climbing, and more.
- When you express passion in an interest, women will respond positively.
- Life is too short to pass up without a passion for a particular interest. Don't be shy, try something. You have nothing to lose unless you try extreme sports with no experience.
Step 2. Try to talk to women more often
When chatting, you should relax. Women like straightforward men because they are not fortune tellers. Some people feel anxious when talking to strangers. You can approach someone without having to open up and be afraid of being judged. In the end, you will be confident enough to chat normally. Try the following methods:
- Asking for small favors, such as, "I'd like some coffee, could you look after my things for a minute?" This method creates an interest in the person who is helping.
- Ask. Take advantage of the situation or location. Ask relevant questions like, “Have you seen this band before?” or “Do you think Jogja could become the capital city?” Feel free to ask prank questions or speculate, if you think it's appropriate.
Step 3. Respect others and always be kind
Another way to prove yourself to a woman is to show that you value not only her, but all women. Usually, men perceive trying to attract women as competition, not a desire to get to know them. Show you appreciate him by listening when he talks, not breaking his personal boundaries, not interrupting, and avoiding statements like "You can't do it, that's a man's job."
- Never mock a woman when you flirt with her. A little joke is fine, but avoid anything that could offend him.
- Generosity is also very beneficial. No one likes a man who is stingy to spend money to enjoy pleasure, nor do people who are reluctant to give money.
Step 4. Take risks for fun
Be a fun person by being spontaneous. Spontaneity is very attractive, and many like people who are always ready to go on an adventure. It also shows women that you can be very attractive.
Being silly and fun also shows that you are confident and not afraid to take risks
Step 5. Have intellectual curiosity
Be careful not to come across as knowing or arrogant. Most women like men who like to read and are interested in the world around them. So, put down the video game console and grab a book. Get in the habit of reading the news every morning. You will talk more if you know the latest events.
Not all women care about this
Step 6. Take advantage of your sense of humor
The ability to make other people laugh is a plus and a charm in itself. A sense of humor is one of the most sought-after attributes in men. Don't modify humor to appeal to certain people. A natural sense of humor will captivate the right people and put you at ease.
Laughter affects other people on a chemical level. When you laugh, serotonin levels in the brain increase so that the brain functions more efficiently
Step 7. Be a confident person
Self-confidence doesn't always have to do with how you look, but how you see yourself. Believe that you can achieve your goals. Change mentality. If you think you are attractive, you will be. Positive thinking is the first step, a positive "attitude" which will then increase self-esteem. You can do this by speaking positively and focusing your energy on being confident.
- Have ambition. When you have serious determination, women will notice.
- Change one of the bad habits. Start by getting up early without pressing the snooze button two or three times, or drinking 2 liters of water a day. Start small, then slowly work your way up to improve yourself overall.
- Do something you've been putting off. There's no better time to do it other than right now. Even if it's just a small thing like cleaning the room, do it right away.
Method 3 of 3: Determining Who You Attract
Step 1. Look for seduction signals
There are several universal seduction signals that people often use. The classic seduction that women use is to smile, then quickly raise an eyebrow while staring. Don't just wait. Such a signal is not always shown. You should also make eye contact and smile first.
Don't be afraid to take the first step
Step 2. Look for women within your reach
Men and women are usually attracted to people who are in their “league”. When men and women from different leagues date, the relationship usually doesn't work out because of jealousy and differences in interests. Take a look in the mirror and think about how attractive you are. This question is difficult for some and most need help figuring out which league they are in. Physical appearance is not always decisive.
- Attractiveness also depends on personality (including sense of humor), dance moves, hobbies, friends, family life, and so on.
- Relationships can still work even though they are in different leagues. Consider this carefully and don't hit it flat so you don't get weighed down.
- In general, if you feel a connection to someone, you may have a chance. Chances are your league with a woman is also the same if there is a spark. Just try it.
Step 3. Don't miss the opportunity
Never limit yourself when you want to attract someone. You never know when a miracle will happen. Opportunities may arise when you come home late and sit on the train at night. If there is an opportunity to seduce a woman, don't pass it up.
- Approaching women in unusual places like the train or waiting room shows that you are confident. You'll never know if you don't try.
- Be careful not to sound scary. Moments do need to be used, but in a good way to keep him comfortable.
- Use active listening techniques when chatting. By listening to a woman speak, you are showing concern. You can also get information, understand it, enjoy chatting and learn something.
