The best way to attract the attention of other girls is to be the sweetest (and, perhaps, cutest) guy among the other guys. Even if you're not the most physically attractive person, girls can still be attracted to certain characters or aspects. The way you dress, behave, and date can make a difference. Even little things like playing with your hair or cutting your nails can catch the eye of the most attractive girl!
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Part 1 of 3: Changing Appearance
Step 1. Take a shower regularly
Use soap and washcloths to clean the entire body. Do this in the morning. This way, you will have a fragrant body when you leave the house. You also need to clean certain body parts, especially body parts that sweat a lot like the armpits, the back of the knees, and the groin.
Step 2. Wash well
While showering, wash your hair with shampoo and conditioner. Check the packaging label to make sure the product does not contain alcohol to prevent dry hair. Apply and blend shampoo and conditioner by hand for a minute or two. Make sure all the dandruff and dirt that sticks from the previous day is removed.
Step 3. Use face and skin cream
In order to look cute, you need to get rid of most of the pimples (if not all). There are many grooming products available, but don't use products that contain alcohol as they can cause dry and irritated skin. Use facial moisturizer every day so that your face looks smooth and shiny. Apply the cream on the face using a sponge or hands. Make sure you slightly moisten the sponge, hands, or face before applying the cream. Apply the product in a circular motion.
Step 4. Shave in the morning or evening
First, apply a shaving cream or lotion on your face. After that, prepare a razor and shave the annoying-looking mustache. You can also style your beard to make it look attractive, or shave it off completely. The advantage of shaving at night is that you don't have to show any cuts from shaving (if you accidentally cut your face). However, shaving in the morning can reduce the appearance of fine hairs (also known as the five o-clock shadow).
Step 5. Use deodorant or antiperspirant product (at least) once a day
This is done to maintain personal hygiene, and appear fragrant in front of others. Buy a stick deodorant and apply it to your underarms, once in the morning. This can prevent sweat stains from forming throughout the day and keep your body smelling good. Always carry deodorant in your car or bag in case you forget to use it in the morning.
Step 6. Spray perfume or body cologne
The added fragrance can attract the attention of girls, as well as get other people to notice you. Spray a small amount of product at the “pulse” point. You can spray it on your neck, wrists, or the back of your knees. The heat from these pulse points can spread the fragrance of the perfume used throughout the day. However, excessive use of perfume can actually make other people feel uncomfortable, not attract attention.
Step 7. Keep your fingernails short and neat
Although it may seem trivial, it is actually very important. Use nail clippers to trim fingernails and toenails so that the tips of the nails do not extend beyond the fingernails. You can also use a nail polisher to smooth out the sharp edges. This way, you not only show concern for your appearance, but also make your touch feel soft and comfortable when you touch other people.
Step 8. Create a new and interesting hairdo
Use styling gel or cream and style your hair in a spikey style. You can also buy creams/gels designed for more classic hairstyles (eg Don Draper hairstyles) or random hairstyles. Take a small amount of gel/cream and spread it all over your hair. After that, straighten your hair using your hands or a comb, according to the desired style. If you need to add gel/cream, reapply a small amount. You can also use the services of a professional hairdresser to comb, cut, and style your hair.
Step 9. Brush your teeth and clean between them (at least) twice a day
Yellow and dirty teeth are not attractive. Make sure you brush your teeth in circular motions to remove plaque and debris from previously consumed food. Always clean between your teeth using dental floss to remove dirt that is difficult for a toothbrush to reach between your teeth. Take 12 centimeters of dental floss and tie both ends to one finger on each hand. Make sure you also visit the dentist every 6 months to get dental cleaning services from an expert.
Step 10. Try on new clothes
Remember to always change the clothes in your closet every 6 months or a year. The same clothes tend to look boring and the colors fade easily. In summer or hot weather, you can wear a tank top and flip-flops. Meanwhile, in cold weather or winter, you can wear tight jeans combined with a pair of boat shoes or sneakers (eg Converse). Everyone has a different style of dress, but you can still ask for opinions or advice from friends, lovers, or trend experts who work in clothing stores.
Step 11. Buy sunglasses
Sunglasses with a square frame or aviator glasses are a trend right now. Buy a pair of sunglasses to wear when you drive. Keep the glasses in the dashboard so you don't forget to bring them. Or, you can also wear it indoors to make it look more “bold” and cool.
Part 2 of 3: Changing the Way
Step 1. Stand up straight
Maintain good posture and do not slouch. Show an attractive appearance by dropping both arms at the sides. Don't fold your arms in front of your chest because this gesture indicates that you don't want other people around you. When walking, keep your body straight (with your back straight). Gestures like this show the other person that you care about yourself and feel confident about yourself.
Step 2. Remember to smile a lot
Facial expressions that are too serious and cold can make people disinterested. However, a big laugh is usually more appropriate to just show your friends because if you show it to a girl, you'll end up looking ridiculous. However, if you know a girl likes you, a big smile can be the right kind of smile to throw at her. A smile with a closed mouth looks cute too, and you can also give him a big smile once in a while. By keeping a smile on your face, you show others that you have a positive outlook and are passionate about life.
Step 3. Laugh, and make other people laugh
People who laugh often are seen as more positive and cheerful. Buy a humor book, and learn some funny jokes or rants. In addition, sarcastic comments (as long as they don't demean others) can make you appear witty and witty. If someone tells a funny joke, laugh and don't hold back your laughter.
Step 4. Play with your hair
Some of the sweetest things a guy can do is play with his hair, or ruffle it. Other people can see your curls return to their position as you play with your hair, while you put on a cheerful smile. Even simple things like playing with your fingers while studying can make you look cute. Comb your hair every now and then and straighten your hair with your fingers. Things like that show that you are a sweet man and care about how you look in the eyes of others.
Step 5. Be smart
Sometimes, men who are considered sweet are those who care about their grades and class. You don't necessarily have to be the highest in your class, but make sure you get good grades. Even if you're not interested in being "the smart one," show an interest in learning and participate in new activities. An interest in a particular subject, such as your liking for Star Terk or world issues, can show others that you have an interest and follow it.
Step 6. Stay aware of other people's feelings
Show your sensitive side and cheer up others who are having a bad day. Don't be the annoying bully in class. It's even sweeter if you show you care about other people, and are willing to try to help them. Start a conversation with the nerd sitting at the back of the class. If you're feeling sad or scared, show your feelings through your face and body language. Show a willingness to share the news with others, whether you're feeling happy or sad.
Step 7. Extend your arms
You can stretch your arms behind your head, or lower them to your waist. This can be a great way to show off your arm muscles and your tan line. However, don't overdo it because women don't like it. Get up from your seat and stretch your back. You can also ring your joints.
Step 8. Lick your lips
This is a very sweet and adorable thing to do. Your saliva can make your lips look shiny. Always carry a lip balm to keep your lips moist and not dry. Besides looking cute, it shows that you care about how you look in the eyes of others. Moist lips make other girls want to kiss you rather than dry, chapped lips.
Part 3 of 3: Talking to the Girl You Love
Step 1. Don't pretend to be overconfident
Your girl crush will prefer a guy who is serious (and a little nervous). After all, you want a great girl, and she can know that you really care about her acceptance, and don't feel like you have the full right to ask her out. Cheeks flushed with nervousness can be adorable, while trembling in fear in the corner is definitely an overreaction.
Step 2. Look him right in the eye
As much as possible, you need to show the beauty of your eyes to him. Try not to blink too fast so he can see it. Put your hair aside so it doesn't cover your eyes. Never approach a girl while wearing sunglasses. If you're wearing them, slowly take off your glasses and show your adorable eyes.
Step 3. Buy him small gifts
You don't need to buy him a big and expensive gift. Simple things, like her favorite chocolate, or a rose, can make a big impact. Leave the gift where he can find it, and insert a small note on the gift. You can also buy markers that are safe to use on car windows. If you want, try writing messages like "Would you like to be my partner at prom night?", "Would you like to date me?", or "I love you!" in the rear window of his car. By showing that you are always thinking about him, you will appear even cuter and cuter in his eyes.
Step 4. Touch him or gently rub his back
As you get closer or closer to her, you can put your hand on her thigh, or hold her hand. Little things like that reflect intimacy, as well as a commitment to showing your love for him in front of other people. If he's having a bad day, gently rub his back. Try reading the article on how to touch a woman for more information.
Step 5. Have fun at the party you visit
While being shy can be cute, showing your goofy side can also make you look cute. Slips and falls, while embarrassing, can be hilarious. Doing silly things, like dancing on the table, while drunk can show that you're willing to do spontaneous things that you wouldn't normally do.
Step 6. Sing out loud
Singing is a way to win girls' hearts. You can sing one song perfectly, and captivate his heart. Or, you can also (intentionally) sing badly to appear funny (and sweet). If you're driving with him in the car, and he sings his favorite song, sing along with him. Sing out loud and enjoy the atmosphere. You can also dance a little to show him that you're willing to open up.
Step 7. Dance with the girl you love
Get on the dance floor and dance. Today, most men only do "grinding" as a form of dance, but that is considered less sweet. Free yourself to dance to your heart's content. Shake your arms, kick your legs, or simply move from side to side. Grab his hands and swing them back and forth. Raise his hand high and let him spin while you hold his hand. There are many possibilities that you can try. The added benefit of this step is that the worse your dance, the cuter you will look in his eyes.
Tips
- Don't be rude.
- Remember to keep it clean. It's more than just using deodorant.
- Don't keep thinking about the embarrassing things that happened.
- Some people feel that it's okay to swear every now and then, as long as you don't do it often. Meanwhile, some people will immediately feel offended or uninterested in you when you swear.
- It's okay if you don't always make the first move to approach someone. However, if you just wait for him to approach you, other guys may snatch him from your hands.
- Don't worry about what other guys think if you straighten your hair or take care of yourself. The girls will appreciate your efforts.
Warning
- Be prepared to face rejection. Even though you are the sweetest and most adorable guy in the world, some girls might not want to date you.
- Try not to get too drunk and do anything dangerous. It's better to stay calm when you're drunk than to faint and not be able to talk to the girl you love.
