Do you want to be a sweet and innocent girl who is liked and adored by many people? If your natural appearance doesn't show a cute and innocent side, you may need to make an effort to show it. By changing the way you dress and wear accessories, you can look more adorable. After that, you can act and become an adorable figure more easily. However, don't think about changing yourself in a big way. You just need to find the sweet and charming side of yourself and show it to the world.
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Part 1 of 3: Look Adorable
Step 1. Wear clothes that make you look young and cheerful
Try to wear clothes that are light and not too tight. You don't have to wear loose-fitting clothes, but try to stay away from clothes that accentuate your breasts or show off your skin. Try wearing a simple blouse that looks light and pretty, or a loose empire-style dress.
If you have a slightly tomboyish personality, don't feel that you have to wear very feminine dresses or clothes to look innocent and adorable. Try wearing a raglan-sleeved shirt or a short, loose-fitting top so you can look adorable and younger
Step 2. Wear clothes in bright colors and cute patterns
Bright colors appear more youthful and innocent than black or other dark colors. Therefore, try to wear clothes (especially tops) that are brightly colored, not dark ones.
- Try wearing a white, yellow, or pastel top. You can also wear clothes with cute patterns, like hearts, polka dots, or animal patterns like cat heads or owls.
- To make it look more feminine, wear a shirt with beautiful knick-knacks such as ribbons or lace.
Step 3. Apply light, blush makeup
Many people think that to look adorable and innocent, you shouldn't wear makeup. However, if you enjoy using make-up, there is no reason for you to give up that interest. Instead of using dark makeup like smokey eye shadows, black eyeshadow with “wings” at the ends, dark lipstick and bold contouring, opt for light colored makeup.
- Use pink and rosy colors for the eyes, lips, and cheeks. Colors like that make you look adorable and blush so you look more innocent.
- You can also use sparkling eye shadows with champagne, rose gold or peach colors.
- Bigger eyes usually have a more adorable and innocent impression. Highlight the charm of your eyes by using a brown shadow on the lash line. Black tan usually looks too dominant or strong, especially if you have a fair skin tone. However, if you feel that its use is still effective, it doesn't hurt for you to try it.
- There are lots of makeup tutorials on the internet that focus on looking adorable. Try using keywords like “cute”, “innocent”, “natural” and “romantic” when you are looking for makeup tutorials.
Step 4. Wear adorable accessories
The right accessories can further highlight your adorable appearance. Wear cute accessories like ribbons, berets, or butterfly clips to your hair, as well as jewelry that has pretty pendants like hearts or stars. If you want to use accessories that don't look too cute, wear small pieces of jewelry like rings and bracelets.
If you have a tomboyish personality, you can wear a baseball cap, beanie or newsboy hat to make you look adorable
Step 5. Wear flat heels
Avoid high heels and wear flat heels like ballet shoes, Mary Jane shoes or canvas sneakers. You can also wear flat heels in cold weather. Flat heels make you feel more cheerful and “youthful”, and they are sturdier than high heels. Apart from that, of course, short heels are more suitable for you.
Part 2 of 3: Being Innocent and Adorable
Step 1. Speak softly
If you usually speak loudly, try to pay attention to how loud your voice is. A soft and smooth voice can make you seem innocent and shy. However, don't immediately change your voice or tone of voice; just lower your voice a little. It might be a good idea to take a few days to really pay attention to how you talk. With a little practice, you can naturally speak more softly.
Step 2. Play with your hair
Playing with your hair is a cute way to get people's attention. If you have long hair, stroke it with your fingers, twist it with your fingers or tuck it behind your ear when you speak. If you have short hair, squeeze or set your hair aside.
Step 3. Try to smile and laugh more often
One part of an innocent and adorable personality is having an optimistic and positive outlook on life. Smile so you can show your sweet side. Try giggling or laughing when other people crack jokes or tell funny stories to show that you appreciate them and have an open and friendly personality.
- Try to laugh softly instead of laughing loudly and aggressively.
- You can also cover your mouth while giggling. This can be a really cute way to laugh.
Step 4. Listen to the other person
Always try to be sensitive and kind to others. Instead of dominating the conversation and being the focus of the group, hold yourself back and listen to what the other person has to say. Do your best to make the other person feel valued and comfortable. Show sensitivity and empathy for others rather than being stubborn.
If you see someone feeling uncomfortable or not joining the conversation, ask them questions about themselves to make them feel more comfortable and involved
Step 5. Don't be rude
Don't make harsh jokes or tell stories with a lot of satire or sex. Attract other people's attention with your kindness and sweet personality, not with sexual temptations.
- If you're involved in a conversation that suddenly reeks of sex, you don't have to pretend you don't know anything. You can remain silent or giggle in embarrassment.
- Just because you want to show an adorable side, don't think that you can't have a boyfriend. You just need to focus on keeping your private and romantic life private rather than telling the full story.
Step 6. Show your shy side
Shyness is not a weakness. In fact, it will further emphasize your innocence. Don't feel like you have to hide or cover up your shy side. By blushing or feeling a little awkward, you will appear more adorable and charming.
If you're not shy, don't feel like you have to pretend to be shy. As much as possible, be who you are
Part 3 of 3: Changing Your Lifestyle
Step 1. Develop full talents
Find a hobby that can satisfy your interests and enrich your abilities to keep you out of trouble. Hobbies can awaken curiosity and a childlike side in you, especially creative aspects such as drawing, writing or learning a musical instrument. You can also try activities such as horse riding or hiking to make you feel closer to nature. If you don't have a hobby yet, try a thing or two.
If you're confused about where to start, try taking a class or activity club for starters
Step 2. Spend time with like-minded friends
Find friends who are also trying to live a full and happy life. It will be easier for you to be an innocent and sweet person when you spend time with like-minded people. Look for alternative activities you can do with your new friends instead of just partying or causing trouble.
- Don't worry if you find you feel happier when you are with friends who are younger. This is reasonable.
- Spend time with children and interact with them to see how they behave. Try to understand how they see the world and learn from them. Enjoy children's activities and the things they (and innocent people) enjoy.
- To make new friends, try chatting with new people at school, work, church (or other places of worship), or youth groups.
Step 3. Apply kindness in daily life
Make kindness a major part of your life. Try to do one thing each day to help others, either by helping others cross the road or helping a classmate understand class material. By being kind, you can not only help others, but can also change the way you view the world. It will be difficult for you to be cynical when you are helping others and making changes every day.
- Show interest in other people. Try to be someone who embraces other people in conversation, pays attention to what others have to say, and shows genuine concern or interest in the other person's interests.
- Give praise to others. Everyone likes a girl who can see the good in other people and make others feel comfortable and happy. In addition, compliments can also be good conversation starters (eg "Where did you buy those shoes? Your shoes look beautiful!"). Make sure you give sincere compliments. Say the compliment in a normal tone of voice, not a high-pitched, over-sounding tone.
- Try volunteering in your spare time. This can be a fun way to serve the community and meet other people who also want to make a difference.
Step 4. Don't drink to excess
Getting drunk and out of control is anything but adorable. Try not to drink much or, even better, not to drink alcohol at all. If you hang out with people who like to drink alcohol, you can enjoy just a glass or two or opt for something non-alcoholic. In addition to consuming alcoholic beverages, smoking can also destroy your adorable appearance.
Step 5. Take school seriously
Try to be the best student and get good grades. Be polite when in class and make sure you always do your homework well and on time. Show hospitality to your classmates and teachers. Also show respect and kindness, and don't hesitate to help anyone at school. This way, other people will like and respect you more.
The innocence that you reflect does not show that you are stupid or do not know anything. Therefore, try reading newspapers or books other than textbooks
Step 6. Limit exposure to media
Sex and violence have a high "selling point" so that they are often highlighted by the media. Of course it will be difficult for you to remain an innocent person when you are constantly surrounded by these things.
- To stay safe online, ask your parents to install a parental control program on your phone and computer. This way, your parents can block sites that contain pornography, drugs, violence, and the like. This content is certainly not good content for your new persona. Don't feel childish or silly to ask your parents to install such a program. In the end, you'll feel more secure and protected, and your friends will find it really adorable.
- Try to reduce the time you watch television and replace the media or entertainment that you enjoy by not watching shows that feature sex and violence scenes. Again, your parents can help you with this.
- Celebrity magazines are also not a suitable medium for you. Try reading something more interesting and meaningful.
Step 7. Make sure you get enough sleep
Most teens don't get enough sleep. It's certainly not a pleasant thing when you have to grumble and feel annoyed because of a lack of sleep. So make an appointment with your parents about your bedtime (eg ten or half past eleven) and ask them to remind you to go to bed (even if you don't want to). You will feel like an adorable and innocent figure when you realize that at that time, you are getting ready for bed while the other girls are going to party.
Your bedtime will feel pleasant when your bed is neat and warm. Ask your mom (or try to do it yourself) to put a hot water bottle over your bed about 20-30 minutes before bedtime
Tips
- Remember to stay true to yourself, even when you want to appear or act cuter.
- Love, respect and obey your parents, and never complain about them to your friends. Your parents love you and want the best for you. They can also help you transform into a new, sweeter person.
- Watch movies again or reread childhood books so you can “go back” to the moment when you were a more innocent or innocent person.
- Even if you act innocent, it doesn't mean you can let others trample on your pride. You can defend yourself, but make sure you do it politely.
- Try to smile a lot. Your smile shows others that you deserve them to know. In addition, you will also appear more successful in life.
