Guy! In this turbulent teen years, boys' behavior may make you feel annoyed, but it's undeniable that they also attract attention. If you are reading this article, it means you belong to a group that likes them. Well, how do you get one of them? This question is always asked, but this article will help you. Just start with Step 1 to make them think of you as a beautiful and charming girl so they can't stop themselves from falling in love with you.
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Step 1. Have a chat with them
Some of the girls said, "We can't possibly meet them." That is not true. Just look around you. There are guys everywhere! You just need to take the time and get to know them. Who knows, the weird guy in the next class might be the guy you've been dreaming of! Try to get him to talk. That way, you'll know whether or not to spend time with him, and whether the two of you have anything in common. If not, find another guy! But don't be the one who jumps from one guy to another and hangs them. Show a sweet attitude, and say, "Okay, see you later." Wait until the conversation is over to make sure you don't offend him.
Step 2. Start talking about anything
Find out what his interests and hobbies are. Over time, the two of you will become better friends. Don't pick a random topic either. If you ask him if he likes carrots, he'll probably think you're weird. Also avoid closed questions that only require a yes or no answer. For example, instead of asking him if he likes dogs, ask him what his favorite pet is.
Step 3. Take time to get to know his friends
If his friends don't like you, there's a good chance he won't like you either, unless his friends are jealous. However, do not directly ask his friends about it.
Step 4. Find out what boys really want
We often hear that guys like girls who are feminine, have a well-proportioned body with the right curves, and stuff like that. However, what else do they want? Here are some of their “wants”:
- Attractive appearance.
- Confidence.
- Always happy girl.
- Cleverness.
- Sense of humor.
- Patience.
- Generosity.
- High knowledge.
- Good attitude (not the cheeky type).
- Attractive smile.
Step 5. Write down all the things you like about yourself on a list
Do you have a pair of very beautiful eyes? So, start wearing eyeliner, or make your eyes stand out. Do you have thick and shiny hair? If so, try styling it in some cool style (straight or curly), applying a new style, or adding accessories to enhance the look, like a headband! In short, if you focus on the things you like about yourself, guys will notice it too.
Step 6. Get them to notice you
Don't pretend to "stumble" in front of him like you do in the movies. The trick is not romantic, seems stupid and makes you look like a reckless person. It would be better if you find an excuse to talk to him. If he's your classmate, ask if there's homework, as if you forgot. If he's the friendly type of guy, you can just walk up to him when he's alone and introduce yourself. Try to think of something creative. The result must be cool. Don't act like you're desperate or overly dependent on her because guys really don't like her. Show confidence, and smile.
Step 7. Praise him every now and then
Try this trick: tell a friend that [name of the guy] looks cool today (or a similar compliment). Most likely the friend will pass it on to him. However, there was no need to overdo it so as to frighten him. Don't sound like you're telling everyone he looks cool or something, except for him. If you have the courage, give a direct compliment. Another trick you can try is to pretend to talk to your friend when he's around you and say, "[That guy's name] looks really cool today, doesn't he?"
Step 8. Give him a sweet smile as he walks by
Make sure you do it casually. Give him a small, sweet smile that translates to "Hi, nice to meet you" then shift your smile away and stay relaxed. Guys like girls who are easy going.
Step 9. Pay attention to his body language
If he stares at you for a long time, chances are he likes you. Also, notice if he leans towards you? It can also mean that he has a crush on you.
Step 10. Be friends with him for a while
You can take him out so he can see what you're like outside of school and in real life (not by phone or email or other means of communication). Start by inviting him to come over to your house and help you study.
Step 11. Be casual
Don't act weird around him or be flirty.
Step 12. If he tells you what qualities he likes in a girl, wait a week or two before you adopt him
If it's too risky, no need to do it. After all, if the guy really likes you, he won't force you to dye your hair or get your nose pierced. You can do it if you really want to. Don't change yourself just for him. It's not worth doing.
Step 13. Don't pretend to be someone else to get their attention
If he's a fan of video games and you've never heard of Zelda, don't act like you know. After all he will eventually find out and you will look very stupid. However, there's nothing wrong with learning some things he likes and following his passions as long as the new hobby doesn't take up all of your time so you don't have time to pursue your own hobby.
Step 14. Watch his movements
If he stares at your lips while you talk, it could mean he likes you and wants to kiss you.
Step 15. Take time to get to know his friends
If his friends have a good impression of you, they'll probably tell you that you're a good girl. However, if not, don't be discouraged. Try to have small talk with them if necessary.
Tips
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Guys don't like girls who:
- Smell
- Too presumptuous
- Like to complain
- Can't control myself
- Always talking about his ex
- Constantly dieting
- Always want to discuss everything about the relationship that is being lived
- Don't know how to have fun
- Have no sense of humor
- Not confident
- Always talking about his favorite star
- Be calm. Guys don't like girls who are bossy, rude to other people, always creating drama, and so on.
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It's okay if you make mistakes with simple things like:
- Spilling something accidentally
- Doing something stupid
- Saying something stupid and embarrassing
- Just be yourself. You should be proud to be yourself and not hide your personality and pretend to be someone else.
- Start with a simple question, for example, "Did you finish your homework yesterday?"
- Give him some help in some ways, but don't overdo it. He could feel scared.
- Never tell yourself that you are not beautiful, everyone is beautiful in their own way, love yourself.
- Don't rush into a decision. Wait a few months. If you act too fast or depend too much on him, he will distance himself from you.
- Don't go up to him and ask him out if you don't know him well. The situation would probably be very awkward. Also, NEVER flirt with a guy who already has a girlfriend.
- Don't sacrifice your friendship for a guy. If he's forcing you to give up something you love or someone you love, then maybe he's not the right guy for you.
Warning
- Make sure he is the right guy for you and respects you before you decide to get into a serious relationship.
- Remember that every guy is different! What you do may be accepted by one guy, but not by another guy. So it's important to be yourself.
- Convince yourself that you really like him before trying to approach him.
- Don't rely too much on him or look desperate. Guys usually don't like it.
- Don't pretend to be someone else. That attitude actually makes you unattractive. One day you will meet someone who likes you for who you are.
- Keep your teeth clean!
