Did that charming guy steal your glances? Is he really cool and calm? If so, you're in luck! Get that high school guy to start liking you by noticing him. Remember that while you can't "get" someone to like you, you can make yourself worthy of further recognition.
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Part 1 of 5: Get Him To Notice You
Step 1. Amaze him
If you want that special guy to start noticing you, you have to show yourself. It is difficult, but very useful. Looking good, smiling, being friendly, and being yourself will start to make him want to get to know you.
- Dress charmingly. If you're that type of girl, wear a floral dress when it's hot, or a cute black sweater when it's cold. Wear clothes that show your uniqueness. Ask a friend for advice on what looks good on you, or ask your parents. You want him to notice your beautiful clothes every time he sees you.
- Get used to living clean and maintain good body hygiene. Take a shower at least once a day. For example, if you play soccer or sweat after school, be sure to shower afterward to wash off the sweat. Wash your face in the morning and evening; You don't want pimples to attack your beautiful face. Also, don't forget to brush your teeth! You only have one set of adult teeth. Take care of it because bad breath can drive it away, and other people too.
- Smile. Smile when you talk to him, or when he is around you. Smiling shows that he makes you happy. Look closely in class, if you happen to meet eyes, smile, and hold your gaze unblinking for as long as possible. Let him know you're thinking about him, then look the other way like nothing happened. But don't overdo it – it shouldn't be done more than once a day.
Step 2. Don't wear heavy makeup
This is not necessary, and most men prefer natural, so stay natural when wearing makeup. If you feel you have to wear makeup, use it wisely. Don't overdo it because that will make him dislike you.
- Use natural makeup. Makeup is not to cover your best features but to make them stand out. Choose a natural appearance. Too much makeup can actually make you ridiculed! If you really want to wear makeup, just use lip balm, foundation, and even mascara if you want.
- Play with your hairdo. Be yourself, don't be too crazy, or you'll look like you're looking for attention. Consider flattening your bangs, straightening, or curling your hair if appropriate. Otherwise, play with styling your hair or makeup in a different way one day.
Step 3. Start a conversation
Act casual, but be yourself. If you run into trouble, pretend like you don't like him and he's just another person. This removes the tension that makes conversation awkward.
- Talk about a classmate, something strange happened to you, or a social event the two of you are going to attend. If you're having trouble continuing the conversation, be sure to ask her lots of questions. No too many because he might be annoyed.
- Keep eye contact during the conversation. Your eyes are the window to the soul, and definitely one of the most attractive parts of you. Make sure he sees it! Focusing your eyes on him will show that he has your full attention.
- Laughing at his jokes. This happens even if it's not funny. Doing ii will make it appreciated. However, don't force yourself to laugh as it will sound fake. If the joke is pointing at you, reply briefly. It's just playing around.
Step 4. Prank him
Don't make fun of him, but it's okay to joke. Play with him, and if you want to seduce him, have him wrestle with you. This way, you can hold his hand.
Part 2 of 5: Approaching him
Step 1. Try touching it but remember to always respect one's personal space
Some people don't like to be touched as much as others. Making physical contact with the guy you like is important because it shows that you like him around him. Policies are very important: you don't want to scratch them and violate their personal space.
- Gently touch his arm or your knee with his knee. Rub your shoulder with him when you ask him about a science problem you both work on at home.
- When he tells a funny joke or jokes with you (by flirting), gently hit him on the shoulder. Your body language tells you that you actually like the attention.
- If you're very brave, let your hand move from your arm to his shoulder or touch your leg with his.
- Tickling is also a great way to flirt. However, since most guys don't like to be tickled, you better be the recipient. Say you are ticklish and make your tickle vulnerable. It's better to start with body parts like the legs and then work your way up to the ribs and sides.
- Play with her hair. But don't overdo it or it will seem weird and he will turn away from you.
Step 2. Approach the friend
Guys his age are easily influenced by friends, so if you get close to his friends, he'll notice that you're "cool." If you're part of the same group, the two of you can be together more often without feeling awkward. Just make sure you don't get into his close circle of friends because guys can't date his best friend.
- If you feel uncomfortable with his friend, that's okay. Don't avoid them or leave when you see them coming.
- Take advantage of your brother. If your two siblings are not that different in age, you have something to talk about! Better yet, if your sibling and sibling are friends, suggest that the two of you take each other to the movies or amusement park together.
Part 3 of 5: Approaching
Step 1. Find out about it
Talk to him about his interests, his family, his taste in music, etc. Find out if there are common interests with you.
- Don't forget to listen! Repeat details that he said in other conversations to prove that you are a good listener. (Don't overdo it or you'll look like a stalker.)
- Try to find common hobbies. Do you both play guitar or like the same band? Suggest to play music together! Do you both play a sport? Let's play together one day.
Step 2. Support him
It may take a lot of practice to figure out what he likes, but do it anyway. Remember what he likes to do and make sure you attend.
- Does he play sports? Come to his game or tournament and support him. Ask him when it's going to be, and say good luck if you can't make it. See if he's trying to find you in the crowd!
- Support him when he's feeling down: All guys have a down time, so cheer him up. Showing that you care will make him more likely to care about you.
- Don't say another man is handsome or talk about other people. He may think that you like another guy and not him. If you like a lot of guys at the same time, decide which guy you want to go after and only go after him. Or, have lots of friends and don't focus on one guy! You don't want to get married! It's great to have lots of friends and not have to worry about treating one of them differently because you don't like all of them the same way. If your crush finds you like two guys at the same time, he probably doesn't feel special to you.
Step 3. Study together
If there's a subject you're good at and he's struggling, offer to help him. Otherwise, ask for his help. This will lead to more time together and a better overall relationship with him.
You probably already know this, but don't intend to do a lot of work in this study session. Your attention will go elsewhere, and that's fine! Be prepared for the exam a day or two early if you can
Part 4 of 5: Testing the Situation
Step 1. Test him
There are a few different ways for you to know if a guy likes you or not. Here are some tricks to find out without directly asking him.
- Ask him to bring your backpack to class. Say your bag is heavy and it looks sturdy enough to carry it easily. If he says yes, it usually means he likes you enough to help you, and is happy that you think he's strong.
- If you want to tell your friend something when he's around you, ask him to cover his ears or move away a bit. This will make him want to hear you more, and you'll know he cares.
Step 2. Make sure there are no signs of danger
Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend. Make sure again none of your friends like it. You don't want to cause drama with your friends, because you might lose friends and drive the guy you like away.
- If one of your friends likes it, you should discuss who “got it.” If the two of you can't come to a fair agreement (like who likes him first, he gets to vote, etc.), you should both forget about it.
- If you decide to let your friend go after him and they're in a relationship, don't hold a grudge against him. Stay friends with him. Be happy for them and know that there are many guys in your future.
Step 3. Don't give up
If you don't find someone you care about, don't be sad. Stay confident and love yourself inside and out.
- Sometimes, once guys realize you like him, they start looking at you in a different light. Even if he says no, he may start to subconsciously think about the characteristics he likes about you or why you would make a good boyfriend.
- Shy guys don't always have the courage to tell others how they really feel, or they just don't know how. If you like a shy guy and he doesn't seem interested, it could be because he's nervous around you and doesn't know what to do. If he's shy, keep trying to make him comfortable around you. Make sure to spend time alone with him in a place where he feels most comfortable.
Part 5 of 5: Putting Things Together
Step 1. Balance your life
It's hard being a high school student, but you start to learn how to balance all the work and drama in your life. Don't be too busy or you don't have time to be with him and remember there's a lot more in your life besides high school and it's not long before you're probably thinking what you like about the guy!
- If he feels like he can't keep up with your schedule, he may be nervous and feel like he doesn't deserve you. If you're very socially active, shrimp him out to join you one day and some of your friends. This will give him the opportunity to be with you outside of school and in your ordinary circumstances. Don't make him feel like you don't exist. If you carry him, make sure he is comfortable.
- Likewise, don't have nothing to do with it or you'll look like a loser. You want to surround your life with interesting activities and friends whether they like you or not. If he likes you, your life will be even better. If he doesn't like you, your life is fun and meaningful without him!
Step 2. Be yourself
It means being comfortable with yourself, doing what you want, and saying what you want. People who don't love and respect you are not worth fighting for.
Don't try to be someone else. He will like the real you. You two even have a lot in common
Step 3. If you think he likes you, try to get closer to him
Let him know that you are interested, but not too much. If you are not sure where it is, be careful while following these steps, the results may not be what you expect!
- Ask, “Hey, would you like to go out with me sometime?” If he says yes, you've done your part. Smile and say you have to go. Then walked away without looking back. Now is the time for him to act.
- Suggest going to the movies or a school sports game together. Taking her to the movies can be a more formal date, but you can also propose going out with friends. Taking her to a school sports game doesn't have to be a "date." It could just be the two of you spending time together.
- Invite them to the school dance, if the event is being held at the school. In this event, you can dance alone with him. Gather your courage and ask him if he wants to be your date. If he says yes, he will definitely like you.
Step 4. Send a love letter
If this still doesn't impress her, try sending some love letters. Write a joking letter from a secret fan and leave it in his locker. Leave a code word like “flower” at the end of each letter that says if he finds out who you really are you will tell him this word. After the first week start hinting that it's you by writing something in the letter that he likes and then talking to him about it. Once he sees your shared passion, he'll definitely give you a chance.
Don't write anything that would be embarrassing if someone else reads it. Letters could be in the wrong place. Imagine what if one of his parents/friends/siblings reads your letter. You two can be mocked
Tips
- Put your education first. Getting good grades will prepare you for future success. Never trade your education for a man.
- Give the man space. Don't be with him every second. He may start to think you are very annoying. Most people find texting and calling 24/7 super redundant.
- If you know he's going to ask you out, stay calm. Smile at him when you pass, because he's probably just as nervous as you are, and you're taking the first step in some way, showing that you like him.
- Don't show yourself off too much. Better yet, ask him what he likes and find out what you have in common.
- Make small ties or start a real conversation. Make private jokes with each other; it shows you're thinking about him and hints you like him.
- Keep your text messages light and short. If you send a message, wait for him to reply before sending another message. Try to be funny, and don't text every day unless he sends it first!
- Sit behind or beside him, sit with him. If you're in the gym and he's glancing at you a lot, after you notice he's glancing at you a lot, look him in the eye again and don't look down until he does.
- Be a good person. If he wants to ask for something, lend it to him. (Unless your parent/guardian/whoever gave it to you will be furious.)
- If he already has a girlfriend, stay friends with him. If they break up, you can act. But remember to give him time to get over it before asking him out.
- If your friend likes one of their friends, take them both. Don't do this all the time, because the guy you like will think the two of you are just friends and nothing more.
- If the guy you like does or says something weird, just go with it. If you notice he's trying to be funny, just laugh.
- Take your time getting to know this guy. Try to get to know him first so he knows you are interested in him before you make your first move.
- Get the phone number. Find out if he has a cell phone. If so, just say, "Hey, what's your phone number?" If he says no, don't be offended. There's nothing to worry about.
- Make sure your breath is fresh. Store mints in your locker or backpack, so you can find them quickly.
- Invite him over to your house to spend some alone time with him. If you're not sure whether to invite him over to your house (for example, you don't want your parents/siblings there), try taking him to a party with you.
- Try to involve yourself in his life. If he belongs to a club, join him, or if he plays football, come to his game and support him!
- Invite him to sit with you and your friends. That way he will feel comfortable around you and your friends. Introduce each person.
Warning
- If things don't go smoothly, know that there are plenty of options out there; don't let him decide if you're good enough.
- Don't change yourself for anyone. Never let a man step on you. If you didn't need him before, you don't need him now! If the guy is naughty, don't act like that to impress him.
- Don't worry if he doesn't like you. All of the prettiest supermodels and smartest secretaries have experienced heartbreak at some point. It is not the ultimate determinant of your character.
- Don't always follow teen magazines; they are not always right for romance advice. Magazines provide advice that is very general, not as needed. If the suggestions don't feel right for you, they usually don't.
- Don't get too attached to it. Remember, there are lots of amazing guys out there for you!
- Don't make obscene jokes around him. He will find it strange or scary. If you do that and he likes it, reevaluate if he's the right choice.
- Don't try to act like the two of you are the same in every way, as this may make him dislike you.
- Don't ask a guy out because it's “cool”, or “everyone does”, do it because you “really” like the person.
- Don't try to make her jealous by flirting with other guys. This will make it appear that you don't like him and he's likely not going to like you either after he sees you flirting with other guys.
- If you see her hugging another girl, don't be jealous – it will only make you sad. If he asks how you are, it will only make things worse if you make it obvious.
