Watching a strip dance is fun, but it's important to maintain good etiquette while enjoying it! Be friendly and kind to the dancers, and express what you want while respecting the strip club rules. Showing good etiquette while enjoying a striptease dance at the club will ensure that you can have a safe time.
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Method 1 of 3: Be a Good Customer
Step 1. Buy a drink for the dancer you want to ask to do a striptease
Offer to buy a drink for the stripper you like. Buying him a drink can make him feel more appreciated and willing to help you have fun.
Step 2. Say what you want
Honesty and openness are the best ways to enjoy striptease. For example, you could approach a dancer and say, “Hello, I want to enjoy striptease. Is your schedule still free?”
- If you want the dancer to accompany you for a drink (either before or after the dance), just ask. After having a conversation with the stripper, you can request additional dancing sessions or other services.
- The only thing that is forbidden, in general, is the request for sex. However, if you are in a place where prostitution is legal, this may be allowed. Ask the club owner or staff there if you can request sexual intercourse with the dancers.
- Don't ask the dancer to marry or date. Excessive invitations like this will make him frown.
Step 3. Ask how much the striptease costs per session
In some strip clubs, dancers will provide a striptease service, then ask you to pay an unexplained fee. To avoid a bad situation, first ask what the rate is per session, then decide if the rate is affordable for you.
- Striptease clubs often charge large additional fees for credit card users. So, ask the rate if you intend to use a credit card. If not, bring cash.
- Be prepared to pay up to IDR 5,000,000 for one striptease dance session.
Step 4. Use polite and friendly language
Calling a stripper a derogatory name or using harsh words can make him angry and shorten the duration of the dance. On the other hand, if you use polite words, the dancers will appreciate you and want to provide better service.
For the same reason, don't show dancers an inappropriate self-portrait
Step 5. Follow the rules
When you arrive at a club, ask what the rules are and read the warnings around the club area. Read the warning carefully to understand what you can and can't do.
- Breaking the rules can not only make dancers angry, but also cause you to be kicked out of the club.
- Don't do anything until you get permission.
Step 6. Don't touch the dancers
Striptease clubs usually have no touching rules. Violation of this rule will get you kicked out. However, if you really want to touch the dancer while enjoying a striptease, don't be shy about saying it.
Step 7. Don't take photos or record anything inside the club
The owner of the strip club wants you to have fun in it, but he usually doesn't like it when visitors take photos or videos without permission. In addition, busy playing with the camera or cellphone to take pictures will only keep you from focusing on enjoying the striptease dance.
Step 8. Don't be afraid to say “no
If you feel uncomfortable in the middle of a dance session, you can say “I don't like this. Please stop,” then leave.
In a situation like this, you still have to pay for the striptease dance, even if you don't finish it
Step 9. Leave a gratuity of at least 10 percent of the total payout after the dance ends
If you really enjoy the dance, you can give a gratuity of more than 10 percent. Do not give a gratuity less than that number, because you can be labeled as a rude customer.
Step 10. Don't get too drunk
You can drink alcohol at a strip club. You can even get drunk. However, if you are too drunk to act aggressively and annoyingly, the dancers and club staff will not tolerate it.
If you're too drunk, leave the strip club and sober up before enjoying a striptease dance
Method 2 of 3: Proper Dressing Etiquette
Step 1. Wear soft pants
When a stripper rubs his body against you, the rough fabric can irritate his skin. Khaki pants or trousers with a soft material are the most fitting to wear. Don't wear rough pants like denim or anything with a similar texture.
Step 2. Dress neatly
Men should wear a neat button-up shirt, tie, and (if the strip club is relatively fancy) a suit. Women should wear fancy dresses, necklaces or earrings, and high heels. Wearing classy and stylish clothes will attract the attention of dancers and make them want to provide the best service.
Step 3. Don't wear a big belt
Large belts can get caught in the dancer's clothes or injure the skin. Choose a smaller belt, or, if possible, don't wear a belt at all.
Step 4. Keep yourself clean
Enjoying a striptease dance is an intimate experience. If you smell bad or are not clean, dancers will be distracted and lazy to provide the best service. Shower and apply deodorant before arriving at the club.
Method 3 of 3: Showing Respect to the Club
Step 1. Don't jump or dance on stage
Some strip club patrons think that joining dancers on stage or playing striptease is fun. However, this will only annoy the dancers and get you kicked out of the club.
Step 2. Watch the show
If you're engrossed in playing with your phone for a long time, striptease dancers won't like it. Focus on the dancer and the performance, and limit things that can distract you, such as turning off your phone and not talking much (especially if you're near the stage).
Step 3. Don't seduce other customers aggressively
The striptease dancers should be the center of attention, not you. While casual flirting won't go unnoticed, aggressive flirting (such as holding another customer's body or asking him to move somewhere else) can be problematic.
Tips
- Choose a dancer based on her personality and appearance. Some people just want to enjoy a striptease dance of the most beautiful looking person. However, you should spend a little time talking to the dancers of your choice before using their services, because the best striptease dances are usually performed by the dancers who best match your personality.
- Do not hesitate to ask the club staff.
- Don't eat gassy foods before enjoying a striptease dance. There are many striptease clubs that provide sideboards. Avoid foods such as chicken wings or beans.
- Don't think about family members while enjoying a striptease dance. This has the potential to lower your arousal. Just enjoy the show, and don't forget, stay polite.
- In Indonesia, striptease dance performances are prohibited by law.
