Impressing a girl may seem difficult, but it's not as hard as you think. You can impress a girl by taking care of your physical appearance, showing your good personality, and showing off your unique skills and/or abilities. Once you get his attention, simple things like a smile and a look in your eyes can impress him. You can also take him out on a fun date and let him help you grow his affection for you. But, you also need to remember that falling in love is a mystery and it's impossible to make all girls fall in love with you.
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Method 1 of 3: Impress Her
Step 1. Show him your awesome personality
Show your good personality before asking a girl out. By being positive, caring, funny, kind, and polite, you can show that you are the right guy to be a boyfriend.
- If you feel that your personality is lacking in some aspects, focus on improving yourself. For example, if you tend to be pessimistic, try to be aware of three positive things in your life every day. Over time, you will find it easier to see the positives in your daily life, as well as being more confident, sleeping easier, and having stronger empathy.
- Remember to talk to him. Research shows that a good personality can make people more attracted to you. But if you never talk to him, he'll have a hard time realizing how attractive you are as a guy.
Step 2. Make sure to always look presentable and confident
Looking well-groomed and feeling good about yourself will help you to be more confident around the girl you like, and this may just be enough to lure her in. Make time to eat healthy, exercise, sleep, and take care of yourself every day. Feeling good about yourself will make you radiate a sense of happiness and self-confidence, both of which are attractive.
- Eat healthy foods and exercise regularly.
- Rest and relax every day.
- Make sure that your hair looks neat.
- Wear clothes that reflect your personality.
- Use cologne and deodorant.
Step 3. Look for opportunities to showcase your unique abilities and skills
Some girls may find certain things attractive to a guy, while other girls may not. However, the only way to tell if he finds your unique abilities interesting is to show them off.
For example, if you can play the guitar well, invite him to come to your group's rehearsals or performances. Or if you're good at playing a particular sport, invite him to come to one of your matches
Step 4. Do what you love
Some girls will be impressed by a guy who enjoys his hobby and makes time for himself. If there's something you're passionate about, make sure to spend a lot of time working on it. For example, if you love to read, make sure to keep reading while chasing the girl you like. That way, you'll have more to talk about when you meet him, or he might even be impressed when he sees you reading a book in a cafe one afternoon.
Method 2 of 3: Ask Her On A Date
Step 1. Plan your approach
Asking a girl out may seem daunting, but if you plan ahead, it may not be as scary as you think. Think about a time, a place, and a way to ask him out. Try to visualize your desired date plan and take some time to visualize a good response from him.
Step 2. Dress up neat and clean
You need to be able to bring out your best side when you ask her out for the first time. If you're wearing a wrinkled t-shirt and haven't showered in a few days, he probably won't make a good impression on you. However, you also don't have to put on a suit or change your entire look before asking her out. Just make sure that you are clean, dressed appropriately, combed your hair, and shaved beforehand.
Step 3. Look into her eyes
Confidence is a sexy thing, and the most confident thing you can do when you ask her out is look her in the eye. While you may feel more comfortable staring at the floor while muttering an invitation to go out on a date, this won't impress her. Look him straight in the eye and lift your face to show him that you are confident.
Step 4. Stand up straight
That way, you can also show your confidence. If you lean back or cross your arms, he may interpret it as fear or anxiety. So, stand straight by letting your hands hang freely by your sides. Pull your shoulders back and let your chest puff forward slightly. This position can reveal your true height and width-which will be much more impressive than approaching her while hunched over.
Step 5. Be brief and clear
No need to spend hours asking her out. In fact, if you spend too much time asking her out, you may end up feeling scared. So come straight up to him, give him a quick compliment, then, tell him you want to spend some time with him. If you prefer to ask her over the phone, you can do that too. Just don't ask her out via Facebook messages or text messages, because she might think you're too nervous to talk to her.
Try saying something like, "Hi, you look beautiful! Wait a minute, I'm in a bit of a rush, but I was wondering if you'd like to go out with me sometime? Can I have your number?"
Step 6. Leave if he refuses
Sometimes, even if you try your best, a girl will still refuse when you try to ask her out. This rejection is something you have to accept when asking a girl out. If he says no, don't be sad. Just walk away, and try not to seem too disappointed.
Try saying something like "Okay. You look fun to hang out with, so I thought I'd take you. But that's okay! I'll go first!"
Method 3 of 3: Enlarge Your Sadness for You
Step 1. Be a great date
If a girl you like accepts you on a date, be sure to make every effort to make sure she wants to date you again in the future. Little things like opening the door, helping to put a jacket on or off, and paying the dinner bill can be very impressive things to some girls. If you really want to wow him, take him to a fancy restaurant, and impress him with the food you suggest there.
To impress her even more on a first date, find out what she likes through casual conversation, and plan a date around that. For example, if he is a fan of horror films, invite him to watch the latest horror films. If he is a fan of Chinese cuisine, invite him to eat at a restaurant that serves the food. If he likes to play mini golf, invite him to play the game
Step 2. Give praise
When you pick him up for the first time, be sure to give him a special, sincere compliment. You could say something as simple as "You look so beautiful in that dress!" or, "Your hair looks so pretty!" Whatever compliment you choose, be sure to deliver it face-to-face while looking him in the eye.
Give him compliments during a date while getting to know each other better. Don't just compliment her appearance. Be sure to compliment her wits, sense of humor, and other talents as you begin to figure them out. For example, say something like "I really admire your sports talent."
Step 3. Talk about things that are "safe" at first
When you're just getting to know the girl you like, be careful not to talk too much about personal matters. Talk about things that won't offend or be awkward. For example, ask him about his taste in music, or a movie he's seen recently, or his hobbies.
Avoid talking about topics that might make him uncomfortable, such as your ex-girlfriend, family issues, or religion. Just ask questions that will get you to know him better. Ask her about her likes and dislikes, her friends and family, her interests, etc
Step 4. Ask more questions to get to know him better
It's important to get to know a girl while having a good time, so be sure to ask questions that will reveal her personality. Once you get to know him a little better, you can talk about topics like that too.
For example, if he told you his favorite movie on a previous date, ask him why he liked the movie, how many times he's seen it, who his favorite character is, etc. He will be impressed by your memory of what he has told you. He will appreciate your genuine concern for something like this
Step 5. Keep dating and be patient
Getting to know someone may take a long time, and it may also take time for them to fall in love with you. However, do not be disappointed or in a hurry. Try to think of every time you spend together as an opportunity to find out and show him that you deserve his love.
Tips
- If a girl doesn't like you, don't try to persuade her otherwise. This will only make matters worse. You can't force your feelings on other people.
- Don't ignore it when you are with your friends. Your friends will always be around you, and if you ignore them when you're with them, they may think you don't really like them.
- When you like a girl, try not to show off too much.
