Usually, during the junior high school years, many boys start trying to attract the attention of girls. However, because this situation was something new, they often felt awkward and uncomfortable. Don't worry, as long as you stay confident and friendly, the girl will definitely notice you.
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Method 1 of 4: Paying Attention to Appearance
Step 1. Pay attention to body hygiene
Make sure you shower every day so that your body smells clean. Before leaving the house in the morning, try to brush your teeth, comb your hair, and pay attention to the cleanliness of other body parts. Not only will you look cool, but you will also feel refreshed and confident.
- For most boys, body odor will become stronger during puberty, which usually occurs during middle school. Overcome this body odor problem with deodorant. Don't use a strong-smelling cologne like Ax unless you use it sparingly. If your scent is too strong, the girls will stay away from you.
- If you want to use cologne, don't overdo it.
- Choose a deodorant that has a fresh scent with a touch of musk.
Step 2. Wear neat clothes
There is only one chance to get a first impression. Don't let the old clothes you wear give the wrong impression about you. Buy better T-shirts, jeans, and shirts.
- Get rid of the jeans and try wearing corduroy, cotton, or khaki pants. Replace a T-shirt with a polo and wear a flannel shirt instead of a hooded jacket.
- Even though you have to wear a school uniform, you can still look cool with well-groomed clothes.
- Make sure your clothes don't look shabby or smelly. In general, you should not wear a shirt for more than one day. Trousers can only be worn 2-3 times before washing.
Step 3. Try to feel good about yourself
Of course, physical appearance isn't everything, but it's often the first thing girls notice. Usually, girls can immediately see if you are confident or not. Try to set small goals, such as learning to play the piano (teenagers are great for starting to learn an instrument). In addition, exercise is also an effective way to make you feel good about yourself and increase your confidence.
- Wearing clothes that match your personal style can also boost your confidence.
- Once out of the house, don't worry about what you're wearing. Just enjoy your time and stop worrying about your clothes once you are out of the house.
Step 4. Pay attention to your posture
Adopting good posture can increase your chances of success because it positively affects your brain and mind. Posture affects not only how others perceive you, but also how you view yourself. As you stand, keep your head straight and push your chin in while looking straight ahead, and take deep breaths to relax your shoulders.
- When sitting, lean your back against the back of the chair, position your knees at a right angle, and let your feet rest on the floor.
- Avoid bending forward when standing or sitting. Try to look straight ahead as you walk, don't look down.
Method 2 of 4: Developing Respect
Step 1. Show him a friendly attitude
As a teenager, you can easily be tempted to be rude to the girl you like, but girls end up preferring guys who are kind and sensitive. Instead of teasing or bothering the girl you want to impress, try to flatter her with kindness. When you run into her in the corridor, smile and say, “Hi, Nina.” Take every opportunity to help him, for example by opening the door, picking up his fallen books, or lending him notes when he's not in school.
- Don't be so nice because he can think you're just pretending.
- Also, show a friendly attitude to his friends because they often affect his perception of you.
Step 2. Show attention to him
You should not only show concern for the girl you like, but also for those around you. When he sees how you treat others, he will understand your overall character. Getting used to paying attention to the interests of others will be a profitable provision in the future when you want to impress a woman.
Don't bully other people
Step 3. Use manners
Girls immediately recognize when boys show good behavior, and they appreciate it. For example, when he walks behind you through the door, make sure you hold the door for him. In addition, saying please and thank you will bring added value to you.
Make him feel special in your own way. For example, if there's only one bar of chocolate left and you both want it, let him take it
Step 4. Show sympathy
Pay attention to what you say when you are around him. Don't say anything that will make him uncomfortable. Don't belittle others, even when joking; he may think you are arrogant and will feel nervous around you.
- Show sympathy by encouraging him and others. Positive encouragement can be very useful during middle school and is often underestimated.
- At school, you can say words that give positive support to your friends, such as, “Don't worry about this math test, Shinta. You can do it!" or “Good luck with your soccer game next week, Ben!”
Method 3 of 4: Making Her Feel Special
Step 1. Ask for information about him from his friends
This romantic technique can also be used to date women when you grow up. Approach her friends for information about her and tell them you like her. Don't pretend to be expensive. Just say that you like it. If he shows interest in you, make sure you return his attention. Even if it sounds cheesy, try saying something like the following example to a friend:
- "Hey, do you know Lula already has a boyfriend or not?"
- “I want to take Dara to watch a movie. Do you think he will?"
- Ask your friend for help too to convey the message to him.
Step 2. Try not to talk about other girls
You might think you'll get his attention if you make him jealous, but in the end you won't get the kind of attention you expect. Focus on making him feel appreciated instead of making him jealous.
Step 3. Give him a compliment
Think about what you really like about him and tell him directly. However, don't overdo it. You can insert compliments when talking to him. Try to compliment what she's wearing if you think it looks cool.
- If she changes her hairstyle, compliment her.
- Try to compliment her when she puts on something that had to be done the hard way.
- Give praise for things other than physical appearance, such as “Wow, Prita, you're really good at playing the electric guitar” or “I wish I was as good as you at math.”
Step 4. Offer to help him
Try to always be ready to help him, whether it's carrying something heavy, cleaning up something spilled, or helping him solve a math problem. He will realize the effort you put in to help him.
Step 5. Listen to him
Show interest when you hear him speak. Ask questions about the topic at hand so he knows you're listening. Try not to talk too much about yourself and ask questions about him. The compatibility between the two of you will increase if you actively participate in the conversation.
- You can also try asking open-ended questions, or questions that require more than a yes or no answer. Try asking, "Well, Princess, what movie did you think was good?" or “How did you solve that problem so quickly?”
- This will help build a closer relationship between the two of you, and may even develop into something more serious.
Step 6. Start making personal jokes
Making private jokes with the girl you like can be a powerful way to build a relationship and get closer to each other. Those jokes will not only make him laugh, but also become something you share with him. Love is not just about modesty and humility. You also need to spice it up with laughter.
Method 4 of 4: Be Yourself
Step 1. Act naturally
Don't try to be someone else just to impress a girl. You want him to like you for who you are, not as a person you pretend to be. You shouldn't try to joke in class if you're not used to making jokes. Don't try to be mysterious if you like silly styles.
Everyone has the ability to seduce, but they do it differently. Find your own style by practicing it. Some people may prefer a playful style when flirting, while you may prefer to be polite. You don't have to copy anyone's style
Step 2. Show your interest
Tell him about hobbies and extracurricular activities you take part in to pique his interest. Never lie about what you like. If you're in a math club, just admit it frankly.
- Don't overestimate your ability to impress him. You can tell when the time is right. Like to show off is not a person who is liked.
- Romantic attraction occurs when we reveal who we are and accept our partner for who they are.
Step 3. Be honest with your friends
It is important to have a healthy social life. If the girl sees you with close friends, it proves that you are a likable person. Friends can also give a neutral opinion about the girl you like. If they don't like it, maybe the girl isn't right for you.
