Show sincerity, confidence, and a polite attitude, and you can attract every girl you chat with on WhatsApp. While a good profile photo and witty status message can help you make a good first impression, having a pleasant conversation is key to remembering. Ask questions to show that you really want to get to know him, and find conversation topics that can "touch" his heart. Stay calm, be yourself, and remember that the best way to impress someone is not to push yourself.
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Method 1 of 4: Setting a Good Profile
Step 1. Choose a good profile photo
Choosing a good profile photo (also known as "DP" WhatsAPP) is the first step to attracting a girl through WhatsApp. Use your best selfies, such as photos of you doing something interesting or photos of interesting places in the background you've been.
- For example, if you like to play guitar, use your photo when you are showing your prowess as a profile photo or DP. If you're not sure, just flaunt your row of white teeth and use a face-focused selfie that brings out your best smile.
- If you don't want to use your own photo, you can use a photo of your favorite cartoon character, athlete, or artwork as your profile picture.
Step 2. Create a catchy status message
WhatsApp offers a number of built-in status messages, such as "Battery about to die", but try to make your status messages look more unique. Take some time to think about how to represent yourself in status messages. You can use song lyrics, excerpts from a movie or television series, or make quick observations about your day.
If you know that you and your crush both like a particular song or movie, use a quote or song lyric as your status message to "invite" her into the conversation
Step 3. Use text formatting on profiles and messages
The WhatsApp profile is very basic and, unlike Facebook's extensive options, it only displays a profile photo, status message, presence, and contact information. However, you can show off how professional you are at using this app by taking advantage of additional features or hacks, such as text formatting.
- You can bold, italicize, or cross out the status text or message by enclosing the word/text that you want to modify using certain symbols. Enclose the word you want to bold with an asterisk (eg *like this*). Use an underscore for the word you want to italicize (e.g. _italics_), and enclose the word you want to strikethrough with a tilde symbol (e.g. ~strike~).
- You can also check the privacy settings and hide your presence. However, this might reduce the chances of your crush getting in touch with you.
Method 2 of 4: Warm Up
Step 1. Check her social media pages to find out what she is interested in
These days, one of the most common ways to get to know someone is to visit their social media profiles. Go through the social media profiles of the girl you want to attract so you can learn a little about the things she likes or hates. By knowing what he's interested in, you can start and keep a conversation going with him.
For example, you could say, "I guess you like origami, don't you? Maybe you can teach me how to make a goose sometime."
Step 2. Try not to feel pressured when sending him a message
Warming up can be stressful at times, but try to stay calm and not think about it too much. When you first message her, just throw in a greeting (eg “Hello!”) and ask a question to keep the conversation going.
Keep in mind that if he doesn't reply to your messages right away, there's a good chance he's busy. Even if he doesn't respond to your message at all, the world hasn't ended yet
Step 3. Start by asking how he is
When sending a message for the first time, start by saying, for example, “Hi! How are you? You can also ask his plans for the day or how he is that day.
Start the conversation by asking a question that is likely to prompt him to provide an answer
Step 4. Make comments about things you both like
You can also start a chat by telling us about your day. It would be better if you comment on something he thinks is relevant, like something you both have experienced.
For example, if you both study at the same school, you could say something about your class, "I don't know what you think, but I think math class is boring and unfinished!"
Method 3 of 4: Enjoying Interesting Chats
Step 1. Try to be natural and confident
Usually, the best way to attract someone is to not push yourself. Be yourself. He'll probably be able to tell when you're pushing yourself too hard. Although it's okay if you feel nervous, try to enjoy the atmosphere when you chat with him.
Step 2. Give him a compliment
If you really want to attract him, give him a compliment that shows that you really care about him. Instead of using stereotyped rants, say something specific that shows that you do notice something unique about him.
For example, if you saw it in the morning, you could say, “I really like your hairstyle today,” or “You said that in history class was very clever. You are one of the smartest people I know!”
Step 3. Ask her questions instead of just talking about yourself
Who likes chatting with people who only talk about themselves? Attract the girl of your dreams by showing that you want to get to know her better. It doesn't matter if you tell him things about you, especially if those things relate to what he has said. However, make sure the topic about you doesn't dominate the conversation.
- You can also ask about his hobbies, favorite places, siblings he might have, or songs and bands he likes.
- Try to respond to the answer instead of asking another question, as if you were interrogating him. For example, if he says he likes the beach, you could say, “Me too, but I just love the sea. I don't really like lakes!"
Step 4. Take the conversation to a deeper level
By deepening the conversation, you are showing that you want to understand him as an individual. After enjoying a casual conversation or small talk, try to find a more interesting topic for him.
You can ask him about his life goals, passions, and dreams, such as “What three things in life do you aspire to be?” Try asking about the character he looks for or likes in someone, his favorite past memory, or the most important thing for him in life
Step 5. Don't attack him with too many questions
Be patient and give him time to respond before you send another message. In addition, most people prefer one long message to a number of messages containing only a few words.
Limit the use of memes. You can send funny animated GIFs related to the topic of the chat, but don't shower him with tons of weird content
Method 4 of 4: Be Kind and Understanding
Step 1. Ask if now is a good time to chat when you send him a message
Show that you care about his time and don't want to disturb him, even if you want to chat with him. Make sure he's not at work, spending time with friends, or doing other things.
Before sending a message, check his status message to make sure he's not busy
Step 2. Show a genuine interest in getting to know him
If you really like him and want to charm him, you shouldn't pretend you like chatting with him. Sincerity has a positive effect in the long run, and it will become easier for you to maintain a good conversation when you really want to get to know him.
- Thoughtful questions, relevant responses to his answers, and specific compliments show him that you are genuine.
- For example, if he tells you that he's stressed by the amount of material you have to study, don't change the topic or talk about the amount of material you have to study. Instead, try saying, “Wow, you must be in a lot of trouble. How about we continue later so you can learn. Or maybe there's something I can help you with?"
Step 3. Let him vent his frustration when he's having a bad day
If you ask him how he's doing and he says, "I'm feeling bad," try asking why. Let him know that you like it if he wants to tell him anything that upsets him or bothers him.
He will appreciate you because you give him "space" to vent his emotions. You can even lure him in by giving good advice on his issues
Step 4. Don't send or request naughty photos (or video chat her)
Even though you feel like you can give him a compliment, you're really just making him feel unappreciated, and there's nothing more unimpressive than that. Show a polite, kind, and sincere attitude so that you become a more "standout" figure than anyone else.
