Trying to chat with girls on the Omegle site? Due to his secretive nature, finding girls to chat with can be difficult. Once you find a girl, you should also be able to keep her interested in chatting with you! Use a strategy to break the ice and be relaxed and in no time you will be having a comfortable conversation.
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Method 1 of 2: Finding and Chatting with Girls
Step 1. Enter interests related to girls
Omegle lets you find other chat partners who share similar interests. Include interests that attract girls to increase your chances of being paired with a girl.
Examples include popular music groups and singers, hobbies that focus on women, television shows and movies where the audience is mostly women
Step 2. Start with the ice breaker
It can be difficult to keep a conversation with a stranger going, so arm yourself with a few sentences you can use to start a conversation. Ask him how he was doing that day, did he watch any movies/bands/shows, did he travel, etc.
Check out this guide for more details and tips on breaking the ice in conversation
Step 3. Avoid asking if they are girls
If you start a conversation by asking if the person you're chatting with is a girl, you'll actually be pushing people away from you. Let the conversation go on for a while, then you'll probably be able to figure out the truth after a while.
If you're video chatting, make sure the person you're chatting with is real. It's pretty easy to fake a video using footage, so make sure that the person is actually speaking to you in person
Step 4. Keep the conversation light
When you first start chatting with someone, keep the topic light and easy. Ask him about the city he lives in, what he likes, what subjects he takes at school, his hobbies, etc.
Step 5. Find common interests
You'll be able to keep him interested in the conversation for longer if you both share the same interests. If he says something that interests you, make sure you tell him!
Step 6. Stay humble
You may be tempted to brag and exaggerate the truth when chatting online, but your conversations will last much longer if you stay humble. Avoid bragging, and try not to talk too much about yourself.
Step 7. Tell some jokes
Humor is a great way to break the ice, but you have to be careful with it. It may be difficult to express changes in voice and politeness while typing. This can cause a joke to completely lose its meaning. Avoid offensive jokes.
Try to tell a funny story about something that happened to you. This not only describes you as someone who is humble and able to laugh at yourself, but is also very effective at breaking the ice. That girl probably had the same story
Step 8. Stay polite
Avoid being rude or rude. Nothing ends a conversation faster than when you say something obscene or inappropriate. Always act like a gentleman, and consider the conversation carefully before you say anything.
Don't be upset if the girl doesn't want to continue the conversation. Don't bother and find a new chat partner. Don't take your frustration out on him
Step 9. Divert your chat somewhere else
If the two of you feel comfortable, it might be time to exchange contact information for a better chat program. This will ensure that you can chat with each other in a relaxed manner. Popular programs include Skype and AIM. Avoid using any services that include your real name, such as Facebook, until the two of you have gotten to know each other better.
Method 2 of 2: Play Safe
Step 1. Don't give out personal information
Omegle is a chat service with strangers. Even if you feel like you know the person you're talking to, they are still a complete stranger to you. There is a high chance that the person is lying about who they are. Playing safe online is very important, especially when interacting with strangers.
Step 2. Don't meet face to face
Avoid setting up any real-life meetings unless you've been interacting for some time through other chat service programs. However, make sure that the meeting place is safe and that you are both comfortable with the idea.
Step 3. Don't do anything illegal
If you're having a conversation with a girl who isn't old enough, you can get into a lot of trouble, especially if the conversation turns sexual. Anyone over the age of 13 can use Omegle, so be careful and use common sense when chatting.
Step 4. Don't bully the other person
Internet bullying is a serious problem, and there is a tendency to be rude because you are anonymous. Remember that the person you are talking to is a real person, who has the same feelings as you. Bullying can cause significant emotional damage, and should be avoided at all costs. If you can't say something nice, it's better not to say anything.
Tips
- Don't exaggerate the conversation if the girl doesn't answer for a while. Send a maximum of three messages.
- Be aware that there are lots of fake people roaming the site and trying to persuade you to join their site (and may send you a virus). Once you know that the person is a real person, then you can click on their name. (Not sure? Ask them what the result is 2+2. If they answer wrong, then they are probably just robots).
- Don't appear desperate even if there is a match between the two of you.
- Give him a compliment after talking for a while to make him more interested.
- Don't be boring, ask reasonable questions and talk about things that both of you are interested in (bands, sports, TV shows, movies, hobbies).
Warning
- Meeting strangers online can be dangerous, even if you've seen them on a webcam!
- Be careful and respect the fact that not every girl wants to be harassed online by being sent a date or your IM name.
- Always meet in a public place, maybe at the mall (so you can buy gifts, take lunch, etc.), if you decide to see each other.
- Whenever you have any doubts that the person you are talking to is a fake or whatever, block and report that person.
