You have to part with your lover? You can still be a romantic person even if you are thousands of kilometers away. You can learn how to have a romantic phone conversation, as well as some tips for sending flirty messages to keep your love burning, even if you can't be together.
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Method 1 of 2: Romantic Chat
Step 1. Tell your partner what you like
Want to be romantic to your girlfriend on the phone? Praise him. Say that you never stop thinking about something you love about him. Compliment something specific and unique about your partner.
- Compliment his personality. Say, “I really like talking to you. You always make me laugh."
- Compliment her appearance. Say, “I think about your eyes all the time. Miss you, huh."
- Praise his talent. Say, "You're really good at kissing me. I'm going crazy because I can't kiss you right now."
Step 2. Plan a date the two of you will have
If you can't be together now, at least you can plan what to do when you see him in the future. Talk about a date you want to have, whether it's exotic or local.
- Plan a dream vacation with him on the phone and let yourself dream a little. Where would you go if you could? Beach? Cruise ship? Mountain? Plan everything.
- Plan regular dates too. Talk about how you would like to visit a restaurant near your house and make out on the couch. Just talk about your life when you are with him.
- One way to arouse sexual desire is to talk about what you are going to do tonight. Tell your plan to your lover. In detail.
Step 3. Talk about the good times you had with him
Another way to spend time on your phone is to reminisce about good memories. Talk about memorable dates in the past, or great things the two of you have done together.
- Talk about the first time the two of you met, or the first time you saw your partner. Remembering the early days of a relationship is a good thing.
- Are there other ways to build sexual desire? Recall the things the two of you did the night before. Tell your partner about the great moves he made, to make sure everything repeats itself.
Step 4. Dream together
Sometimes, the phone can be a great opportunity to talk about things that would be awkward to talk about in person. If you're on the phone, it might be easier to talk about vulgar things about your sex life. Talk about new things you want to do with your partner, and talk about what excites you.
If the two of you have never had sex, or have, having sex over the phone can be an outlet for exploring each other
Step 5. Set up a regular phone schedule
If you have to part ways regularly, it's a good idea to schedule calls at set times, so you can still enjoy quality time to spend together. Set aside half an hour to call each day so you can talk about your day, talk about the future, and spend some time talking.
You may want to talk every day, or you may not. If you have to be apart for a while, talk to your partner to find out how much phone chat you both need
Step 6. Do something together on the phone
One great way to go on a phone date is to plan to do the same activity while you chat. Plan fun, easy-to-do activities around the house, and chat on speakerphone while you're at it. The two of you will feel like you're together, even though you're not.
- Watch episodes of the same big TV show or sporting event, and talk about those things on the phone. Prepare your favorite movies. Even though the two of you won't be talking most of the time, you'll feel like you're with your partner.
- Try a recipe together and try to cook it together. Tell me step by step and laugh at your successes and failures. Send photos of each other's cooking when it's done and see who cooks it better.
- If you can, Skype or other video-chat services make this easier. Even if you don't say anything, you'll feel like you're in the same room as him.
Step 7. Accompany each other on the phone
Even if there's nothing to talk about, connecting with your loved one can be romantic. Even if there's silence for a few minutes, it can be soothing and romantic if you know you're with your boyfriend, even if thousands of kilometers are separating the two of you. Chat while you are going to sleep and keep the phone on the pillow.
Make sure you're both on the same network otherwise you're both going to be spending a lot of time just listening to each other's breath. This can be romantic, or just a waste of money and minutes
Method 2 of 2: Sending Romantic Messages
Step 1. Let your partner know that you've been thinking about him all day
If you have to separate and can't call each other, sending a text that says, "I'm thinking of you" can be a great way to remind your partner that you care about them. Here are some romantic messages you can send every day:
- "You look so beautiful this morning. I can't stop thinking about you".
- "I can't wait to see you today! I'm counting every minute."
- "My coworker keeps hurting the cat. I miss you".
- "I thought about it last night. Can't wait to be like that again".
Step 2. Support your partner to get through the day
If you find out that your partner is having a hard time at work or school, send encouragement throughout the day. This can remind your partner that you are always there, and that you really love him. Be a helpful voice with the words below:
- "Your presentation must be really cool! I'm sure, deh. Excited, huh!"
- "The spirit of the exam! I'm thinking of you!"
- "Only three hours until you get home."
- "Friday is coming soon! You can do it!"
Step 3. Tell each other what happened
When you're apart all day, it's nice to know how your lover is doing. Ask how he's doing and let him know how you're doing too, with a reasonable number of short messages. You both just need to be up to date with each other:
- "I just finished my essay. Hey. At least it's done, right? Can't wait to see you tonight and relax…"
- "The campus is so beautiful today! Flowers! Birds! Ah, if only you were here".
- "I have work to do and Joni has eaten her last donut and drank the last drop of her coffee. Now I'm just browsing Buzzfeed and killing time. What are you doing?"
- "Everyone on the train looks gloomy this morning. Ah, Monday. How was your morning?
Step 4. Plan a spontaneous date
When you're doing something and suddenly think of a date for a date, text your boyfriend to see if he'd like to date that day. Usually this can be helpful for someone who's been dating a few times, not a first date. It's an easy and fast way to get in touch and plan things out:
- "When you get home from work, I'll bring you pizza, okay?"
- "I'm going out of the house in a bit. Want to meet at the usual place?"
- "I'm really tired today. Here are my ideas for later: You. Me. Drinks. Dark room… and the Blu-Ray version of "Comic 8". Want it?"
- "It's a very sunny day today. See you in the park and take a walk, let's go!"
Step 5. Submit a photo
If you look beautiful or handsome, send your partner a photo to tease him. If you see something funny while out for a walk, send it to your partner to make him laugh. Sending photos can be a fun, easy, and quick way to stay connected without having to try hard.
Be careful when submitting lewd photos. Make sure you know and trust the recipient of the photo, and remember that sending naked photos without being asked is not romantic, and can be dangerous
Step 6. Send messages less frequently
A few messages a day is fine, but also make sure you've saved a few things to talk about when you meet in person. Dating will feel boring if you have a long chat via short messages. Some people like to send hundreds of text messages every day, while others will find it annoying to have too much contact. Every relationship will be different. Find out how often your partner texts and try to limit it. Don't bother each other.
