Getting a woman to fall in love with you takes time, effort, and a lot of patience. If you treat a woman well, and show her what makes you great, she will probably appreciate you and fall in love with you in time. Remember that the attraction between you must be pre-existing. Otherwise, it's unlikely that he will fall in love with you. However, you can still increase your chances by doing things that attract her attention, show your kindness, and date her.
Part 1 of 3: Making Him Aware of You
Step 1. Approach slowly
Before you start chasing a woman, remember that rushing her to fall in love with you is never a good idea. If you rush into a relationship with a woman, she may think that you are desperate and lose interest in you. Even if you really like a woman, approach her slowly as you get to know her. Try to be her friend and get to know her better before trying to make her your boyfriend.
Never tell a woman that you love her before dating her. You should put off stating that you like him until you have a few dates
Step 2. Find an excuse to talk to him
To make a woman aware of your existence, you have to talk to her at some point. You don't have to have a good reason to talk to him, just look for a few reasons to break the silence. Once you can break the silence between you two, talking to him again won't be that difficult.
Try saying something like, "Hi, do you remember yesterday's assignment?" or "Can you give me the salt?"
Step 3. Give him a compliment
Sincere compliments are a great way to make a woman feel more comfortable with you. Just make sure that your compliments are direct and thoughtful. Compliment not only his appearance, but also other things, such as intelligence, creativity, and willpower.
For example, you could say, “You really are a talented artist. I really admire your talent.” Or, “Most people are unwilling or unable to pass advanced math classes. It's really great that you managed to pass such a very difficult class.”
Step 4. Tease him a little
Flirting is an important step in showing a woman that you really like her and are interested in being in a relationship with more than just friends. If you're new to flirting, you'll need to learn some techniques first. But often you can flirt on your own. You may immediately smile and look into each other's eyes with the woman you like without even realizing that you've been flirting with her.
Smile when you see him and look him in the eye often. This is a clear sign that you are interested in him. If he averts his eyes, don't worry. This may mean that he is nervous, which is a good thing
Step 5. Make sure you always look presentable and smell good
Looks aren't the most important thing for a woman, but looking presentable and smelling good will help her see you as the person she wants to date. Make an effort to shower every day, wear clean clothes, style your hair and shave, and put on deodorant and cologne. Showing him that you have style and that you are proud of how you look will appeal to him.
Part 2 of 3: Showing Your Quality
Step 1. Live your own life
While spending time with the woman you like is fun, it's important to make time for what you love. Make sure not to stop doing what you love just to spend time with a woman. He will be more attracted to you if your life is good and independent than having to be with him all the time to feel happy.
Step 2. Listen to him
Being a good listener is essential if you want to make a woman fall in love with you. To show that you're listening, look him in the eye and say neutral things like, "Yes," "So that's it," and "Go on." Be sure to repeat what he's saying every now and then to show you're listening.
Step 3. Show him what makes you special
A unique personality might help you to make a woman fall in love. Think back to the best of your abilities and find ways to show them. For example, if you are an athlete, invite him to come to one of your matches. If you can play guitar in a band, invite him to come to one of your concerts. If you like reading, start talking about books with him.
Step 4. Support him
Showing how much you support can also convince him that you deserve his love. Do little things to show that you are a good guy even before you date for the first time.
For example, you could cheer him on during one of his matches, congratulate him after he gets an A on a test, or when he gets a promotion at work. Look for small ways to provide support and he will appreciate it
Step 5. Be polite and considerate
While some women are attracted to bad guys, a caring man makes a much better lover. Make sure to show your qualities as a lover even before the first date. Show good eating habits, open the door for him, and be kind to others.
Part 3 of 3: Dating Him
Step 1. Ask her out on a date
To take your friendly but intimate relationship to the next level, you have to ask her out at some point. Ask him out in a relaxed, stress-free way to increase his chances of agreeing, and less awkward if he refuses. Say something like:
- "I have tickets to [the movie he wants to see] this Friday night. Are you busy?"
- "I don't know if you're interested in going or not, but I usually go to the city fair to get rid of the boredom at home. Would you like to accompany me today?"
- "So, the soccer game is almost here. Would you like to accompany me to cheer on our school team?"
Step 2. Plan a special date with her interests in mind
While you can ask her out in a casual way, you may also want to plan a date that will wow her. Think about what you already know about him to plan something he will enjoy. Or, just ask him what he wants to do. He may appreciate your consideration of his wishes when planning a first date.
Step 3. Be an attentive date
Showing that you put his comfort and happiness above all else will make you more likely to date him again. Pay attention to the little things you can do to make sure he's happy throughout the date.
For example, if he looks cold sitting outside a cafe, invite him to come in and warm up. Or, if the waiter forgets to refill his drink, call the waiter and ask (politely) to fill it, or go to the bar and get him a drink yourself
Step 4. Let him know how you feel
After dating a few times, let him know how much you enjoy spending time with him. He may feel the same way about you, but you have to express it at some point to reassure him.
Try saying something like, “I always feel happy when we go out together. It's really nice to be around you." Or, say something more obvious like, "Your smile is so beautiful. My days are always brighter after seeing it."
Step 5. Continue to date her and get to know her better
Getting a girl to fall in love with you takes time and effort. Even if your first date is a success, you can't immediately expect him to fall in love with you. Keep asking him out on fun dates and enjoy the process of getting to know each other more. Your chances of success in your relationship will be greater if you let things flow instead of forcing him to fall in love with you right away.
Remember, falling in love takes time, and you shouldn't rush it. Enjoy your time with him and try to be patient
- Don't ignore her, be rude, be mean, be mean, or go overboard when teasing her.
- Don't force it; If you feel like there's no spark of connection or passion when you guys talk, then maybe she's not the woman for you.