Admit it, there's no guarantee that all the guys in the world will fall in love with you. However, there are a number of ways you can make almost any guy want to get to know you and eventually fall in love with you. Do you want to get the attention of the guy you like? Or just want to have a personality that can get all the guys after you? Whatever the reason, if you want to make any guy fall in love with you, follow these steps.
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Part 1 of 4: Show Your Best Side
Step 1. Love how you look
If you want a guy to fall in love with you, he has to like every part of you, both inside and out, and outward appearances are a great place to start. If you like how you look and are proud of it, guys will know it and start liking how you look too. If you don't like how you look, maybe you should try to learn to love yourself before trying to attract a guy.
- Wear clothes that make you feel both beautiful and comfortable. If you feel uncomfortable or lack self-confidence when wearing tight clothing, this will show.
- Take good care of your body. Exercising, eating healthy foods, taking care of your hair and nails, and taking the time to apply scented lotion will increase your attractiveness in a man's eyes, as well as make you more comfortable with yourself.
Step 2. Radiate positive energy
Any guy will be much more likely to fall in love with you if you love your job and view your life in a positive light. If you show that you are happy in pursuing your interests, tasks, or career, he will be more interested in getting to know you.
- If you're still in school, don't complain about your lessons and your teachers. Instead, focus on the things you enjoy and make you happy.
- Enjoy your extracurricular activities and interests. Don't complain about gymnastics, but tell us how impatient you are for Friday's match. Who wants to spend time with someone who doesn't enjoy an activity of their own choosing?
- Show positive behavior. Whenever you talk about your weekend or day plans, say five positive things for every one negative thing you say. You can complain once in a while, but complaining about everything at once is a pain in the ass.
Step 3. Love yourself
You can't get someone to fall in love with you if you don't love yourself. If you want a guy to love you, love yourself and be proud of how you've grown. To be able to love yourself, try some of the techniques below:
- Understand your strengths. Keep in mind the five things that make you great -- write them down if necessary. Then, take advantage of it all. Use it by showing it as much as possible. For example, if you know you have a good sense of humor, flaunt it in front of a guy you like.
- Acknowledge your shortcomings. Loving yourself doesn't mean thinking you're perfect--in fact, if you're aware of at least three things you need to improve on, you can love yourself more and more as you improve.
Step 4. Develop your self-confidence
The more you love your appearance, your job, and yourself, the more your self-confidence will increase. If you are confident and comfortable with yourself, the guy you like will be more confident in you. To show your confidence, learn to speak clearly, stand up for your opinion, and try to feel comfortable laughing at yourself every now and then.
Remember that confidence is different from arrogance. If you flaunt your prowess all the time, that sucks too
Part 2 of 4: Catching His Attention
Step 1. Show your fun side
If you want a guy to love you, try to show the fun side of yourself. Whenever he sees you, put a big smile on your face, do something stupid, or have a laugh with a group of your friends. If you are fun, you will attract the attention of those around you, and more people will want to hang out with you because your activities must be fun.
- Show your adventurous spirit. Fun people usually want to be invited out of their comfort zone to have fun. Are you afraid to ride a unicycle, learn to dance, or climb a mountain? Then channel your fear and turn it into positive energy, and you'll enjoy your life even more.
- Don't be afraid to act weird or even stupid. You don't have to be a weirdo to make a guy fall in love. But, show that you're not taking yourself too seriously by wearing cute T-shirts, costumes for parties, and even telling jokes that make people burst out laughing.
- Show that you are enjoying your time. Be the center of attention at the party by being friendly, fun, and looking happy every time a friend walks into the room. If you seem like the nicest person in the room, even the guy you like will notice.
Step 2. Take advantage of your body language
Your body language can be an important thing in attracting a man's attention. Your body can attract a guy before you even say anything, so sending the right signals is very important so he doesn't get the wrong impression. Here are some ways to grab a guy's attention with a few subtle moves:
- Don't be afraid to look into his eyes. Look the guy in the eye, let him know you're looking at him, then smile and look away. Don't roll your eyes--look into his eyes just to get his attention. You can also raise your eyebrows at him for a few seconds to get his attention.
- Don't cross your arms in front of your chest. Place your hands by your side or use them to tell a story. This will make you appear open and approachable.
- Stand up straight. Good posture will show that you are confident and comfortable being yourself.
- Turn your head. Looking at him like that will show that you are interested in the conversation, and make him understand that you are following the conversation and listening.
Step 3. Dress up cute
Don't be afraid if you blush. The blush on the face is caused by blood flowing down the cheeks, making them appear pink or reddish. This is very interesting because it resembles the body's response to sexual activity, and is believed to be an evolutionary adaptation to attract the opposite sex. You can try to create a similar effect using pink blush and red lipstick. Wear makeup that is not excessive so you don't look flashy
Step 4. Seduce the man
If you want the guy to start falling in love with you, show your interest in him by teasing him a little. You don't have to be aggressively flirting to be able to joke around with him, tease him a bit, and have a pleasant conversation with him.
- joke with each other. If he says something quick and funny, don't just laugh--reply him with cute, funny comments, too. Then you can laugh to show that you enjoyed your conversation.
- Tease the man. Once you're comfortable enough with each other, you can gently tease her about things she's attracted to--like her obsession with dogs or the guitar--or even tease her clothes a little while telling her she looks good.
- If you really want to flirt, gently touch her shoulder every now and then when you two are close to each other. Many men find this gentle touch attractive.
Step 5. Let him know what makes you special
If a guy is in love with you, he's bound to think you're special in some way. Otherwise, why does he love you and not someone else? Let him know what makes you unique and worthy of love.
- Be yourself. Let them see who you really are, even if you're a bit of a nerd, shy, or afraid to open up to anyone. He can't love you if he doesn't know who you really are.
- Open yourself up. Let him know about your dreams and fears. You can talk about this when you get to know him better. If you dream of becoming a cake chef or party planner, let him know.
- Tell me about something that interests you. Let her know what gets you up in the morning--whether it's learning French, volunteering at a refugee shelter, or simply spending time with your best friend.
Part 3 of 4: Keeping His Interests
Step 1. Keep hanging out with other guys if you're not already dating
One way to attract a guy is to show that other guys find you attractive too. This doesn't mean you have to flirt with other guys in front of him or try to make him jealous, but you can hang out with other guys while you're not dating him yet.
If he complains about your date with another guy, tell him that you will only date him if he wants to date you. But don't stop hanging out with other guys until it's clear that he will stop dating other women too
Step 2. Show interest in him
If you want him to still love you, don't let him love you alone. You also have to show that you love him too. Besides that, you also want to be in a loving relationship, right? Here's how to show that you love him:
- As your relationship deepens, ask him questions about his personal life. Talk about his childhood, family, and background.
- Pay attention to his work or education. If he likes science or history, talk about them instead of ignoring them.
- Ask for his opinion. Ask her opinion on a variety of things, from your latest outfit to world affairs. Show that his views are very valuable to you.
- Understand his mood. Learn to support him if he has a bad experience.
Step 3. Compliment him
You don't have to shower him with compliments just to make him understand that he's special. It's just that you should give a sincere compliment once in a while. You can give compliments in person, via text, or by leaving a note on his desk or drawer. This will let him know that you think he's great.
- Try to give praise to the things he is good at. For example, you could say "The food is delicious! You are a great cook!" or, "I really liked your performance last night. You're a very talented musician!"
- Give compliments sincerely. Don't give fake compliments just because you think this will make him like you even more.
Step 4. Show your intelligence
If you want to keep a guy interested, don't just show him your unique side, but also show your intelligence so he can talk about anything. If he's only attracted to you physically or thinks you're just fun, he won't love you forever.
- Try competing board games. Playing games like Scrabble or chess will attract more and more attention to you.
- Keep up with the latest developments. Many men like politics and read newspapers, you should also read newspapers so you can follow the conversation.
- In general, read more. The more you read, the more broad your mind becomes, so in general you will have more to talk about.
- Do not ever get bored. Boredom is only for boring people. Enjoy life and life around you, and he will spend more time with you.
Part 4 of 4: Maintaining Relationships
Step 1. Stay independent.
While you might think that a guy will only continue to love you if he keeps seeing you all the time, that's not really the case. Your boyfriend is more likely to continue loving you if he knows you have a life of your own, that you have friends of your own, and that you're okay with spending time alone.
- Don't try to match your schedule with it. Keep exercising, meeting friends, and doing your hobbies as usual. If you leave everything behind just to meet him, you'll appear to have little respect for your accomplishments.
- You and your boyfriend don't have to have the same friends. Keep seeing your female friends, and let her hang out with her boyfriends--it'll be healthier for you if you don't spend time alone together.
- Keep yourself busy. He will be much more willing to see you if he knows that your free time is limited, and that you can't see him whenever you want.
Step 2. Keep your relationship fresh
If you want the guy to continue to be interested, you have to do something different. Don't do the same thing every day or he will get tired of the same routine. You should try to make your relationship feel fresh and fun no matter how long you've been dating.
- Find a new hobby to do together. Decide on a new hobby to do together, whether it's baking or practicing golf. If you do something new together every month, your relationship will continue to feel like new.
- Find a new place together. Don't keep eating dinner at the same restaurant every Sunday night. Find a new restaurant to keep your date interesting.
- Get out of your comfort zone together. You two can try doing something scary--whether it's learning how to surf or conquering your fear of spiders.
- Find new ways to say love to your boyfriend. Don't just say "I love you" all the time--find creative ways to tell him how you feel.
Step 3. Know when to end the relationship
If you no longer love him, or have never truly loved him, there is no point in forcing your relationship. This will only make you both miserable. End your relationship when you know the relationship can no longer continue, instead of letting the relationship die slowly which will only hurt more.
- Be honest. If you really feel that your relationship can't continue, sit down and talk to the two of you about breaking up and ending it.
- Do not be disappointed. Most people fall in love more than once in their lifetime, and you still have a long way to go to fall in love with a guy--or another guy you'll meet later.
Tips
- Be happy. Don't be depressed if he doesn't confess his love in the first month. Actually, this is better. Because it means he really is.
- Make sure the guy knows you're interested in him by sending clear signals.
