The "perfect" kiss may vary from person to person, but there are a few tricks to make your kiss more exciting. Use your tongue appropriately to make your partner want more, and don't be afraid to try creative kisses like Spider-Man or pinch and suck his lips. Remember, kissing is not just a mouth-to-mouth action. You can try an Eskimo kiss or greet a friend with an empty kiss without touching the cheeks. Muah!
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Method 1 of 3: Perfecting Basic Kissing Techniques
Step 1. Start with a quick peck on the lips if you are a beginner
Lean over and press your partner's lips lightly. Position your mouth so that your upper lip is between his and your lower lip below his.
- You can also pinch the upper lip if it's more comfortable.
- Don't push too hard. This kiss should be gentle and romantic, not painful or aggressive.
Step 2. Imitate what your partner does so there is synchronization
This will help if you're not too sure what to do with your lips, tongue, or even your hands. Let him take the lead, then imitate whatever he's doing to deepen the kiss slowly at a rhythm that's comfortable for both of you.
- For example, if he sticks the tip of his tongue or holds your cheek, do the same.
- So is speed. If he's slow, don't force a lot of short kisses.
Step 3. Vary the movement to create a natural rhythm
A pleasant kiss is not just a series of repeated kisses. Sometimes give him a long kiss, sometimes a short kiss. Combine a gentle kiss with a kiss that involves the tongue. Do what feels natural, don't overthink it.
- Also change the position of the body and head. Occasionally stop kissing to tilt your head to the other side, or put your hands behind his neck.
- Watch your partner's reaction. For example, if you want to increase the intensity and he keeps his lips closed, it may be a sign he doesn't want more.
Step 4. Try a French kiss if you want to show passion
The secret of the French kiss is intense connection. So let that spark guide your actions, no calculations needed. Vary the movement and speed of the tongue, increasing the intensity gradually. Don't force your tongue too much, but don't let your tongue sit still without action.
Get your hands involved. For example, tuck in your partner's hair or place it on the nape of the neck
How to use your tongue when kissing
Pay attention to the rhythm of the pair
Imitate his tongue movements, such as speeding up or slowing down to get your movements in sync.
Try the secret message trick
Move the tip of your tongue to string words together. Ask your partner to guess.
Do not directly insert the tongue
Start with a soft kiss with your mouth closed, then insert the tip of your tongue once the kiss is deeper.
Do not involve too much tongue or saliva
A kiss that is too wet or a tongue that goes too deep can squelch passion. Remember that light kisses are usually more exciting.
Method 2 of 3: Experimenting with Kisses
Step 1. Lick your partner's lips, then blow to create a tingling sensation
Trace your lower and/or upper lip with your tongue. Once the lips are moist, blow a little. The combination of hot and cold will give him goosebumps.
- Don't involve the tongue too much. Use only the tip to moisturize the lips, not to wet.
- This technique can also be used on other parts of the body, such as the neck or collarbone.
Step 2. Gently bite her lower lip if you want to play around a bit
The key word here is “gentle”. Don't bite hard, he'll be in pain. Instead, pinch his lower lip or just lightly bite in the middle of the kiss.
- Do this technique when you stop the kiss to make him want more. You can close this action by biting your lip and looking into his eyes.
- To get the right pressure when biting, the teeth should barely touch.
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Emphasize your body on your partner's body to create an experience that the whole body enjoys.
Leaning over as if to kiss her, then hover your lips over hers for a few seconds.
Build anticipation with kiss the corner of his mouth, jaw, neck, etc. Anywhere but her lips, for starters!
Put ice cubes in your mouth before kissing to create a hot-cold sensation.
Let out a soft sigh or moan while kissing to show that you enjoy.
Step 3. Do the Spider-Man kiss if you want to emulate the thrill in the movie
While you may not be able to hang upside down like Spider-Man, at least the point can be replicated at home. You only need to adjust the position of the body so that you can kiss your partner from above. It might be awkward at first because of the upside-down position of the lips, but it's fun.
For example, you could sit with your partner's head on your lap and then bend down to kiss them upside down for the same effect as Spider-Man
Step 4. Kiss your partner's neck or ears if you want to excite him
The nape and ears have a lot of nerve endings so they are very sensitive. Shower kisses on your partner's neck from jaw to collarbone. Continue by gently biting or sucking the earlobe.
- Use your tongue if you want. With your tongue, you can trace the curve of his neck or the edge of his earlobe.
- Ask permission first before giving a hickey, which is a red mark of hard sucking on the skin. Some people are embarrassed to have this hickey sign even though it is a sign of passion. So never create the sign if you haven't asked permission.
Step 5. Try a lizard kiss to surprise your partner
Start with a normal kiss, put your lips on the lips of your partner. Then, move your tongue like a lizard, sticking your tongue in and out of your partner's mouth as quickly as possible.
- This kiss may be a bit strange at first. So it's best to try it with people you know will react well. This technique is not for the first kiss.
- Maybe you need to practice on your own first. By mastering this technique before trying it on your partner, you can avoid awkward tongue movements.
Step 6. Try sucking kisses if you're happy with a little pain
This style of kissing is intense, and almost painful. Press your lips on your partner's lips, then suck as hard as you can while he sucks on yours as well. This creates a suction effect where when you both exhale, you feel an almost intoxicating burst of relief.
- When the kiss is released, there will usually be a small popping sound as the straw comes off.
- If you've never done this technique with a partner, say what you want to do. This technique can only be enjoyed if you both suck at each other.
Step 7. Try a one-lip kiss if you're more sophisticated
This kiss is a bit tricky because you need the right intensity of sucking for the sensual effect to be felt. Cover your teeth with your lips, and try sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip by pulling it between your lips.
- If you're just starting out with this kissing style, focus on your partner's lower lip first. The lower lip is easier to suck.
- You can stick your tongue or bite a bit to add to the impression of teasing.
Method 3 of 3: Try a Fun and Cute Kiss
Step 1. Give the Eskimo a kiss for fun
This kiss is the custom of the Eskimos because only their noses and eyes are open in cold weather. The trick, rub your nose gently on the nose partner. Couples can stay still, or move their nose to the left and right.
- Another alternative is to touch your nose instead of rubbing it.
- An Eskimo kiss is also a sweet way for parents to wish their child goodnight. Kids will love it because the name alone is cute.
Step 2. Show affection with a kiss on the forehead
A kiss on the forehead can be given in a variety of situations, to express your feelings for someone, to show that you love them as a friend, or to comfort them when they are sad. Place your lips in the center of his forehead for a few seconds.
- To create a more emotional connection, accompany a forehead kiss with a loving hug.
- Do not use your tongue or wet your lips in this type of kiss.
Step 3. Make a ticklish couple with butterfly kisses
This type of kiss does not use the lips. Position your face close enough that your eyelashes touch his face. Then, blink rapidly so the skin feels the fluttering sensation of your eyelashes.
A butterfly kiss is easiest to give on the cheek because you can rest your face on her cheek easily
Step 4. Prove that politeness and chivalry are not dead with a kiss on the back of the hand
The kissing of hands referred to here is not between a younger person and an older person, but a polite and respectful gesture between a man and a woman which was common in ancient times in the western world. The trick, grab a woman's hand between your thumb and finger. Bring it to your mouth while lowering your body slightly, then place your lips on the back of his hand.
These days, this can only be done with women you already know because it's too intimate to kiss the back of a foreign woman's hand
Step 5. Give a blank peck to say hello to someone
In Europe, in particular, a kiss like this is a warm way of saying hello. The trick, tilt your head slightly so that your cheek almost touches the cheek of the person being greeted. Smell the air nearby with a “muah” sound. Don't put your lips on his cheek.
- The number of kisses and which side of the face should come first varies according to the place and culture concerned.
- If it's just one kiss, the most common way is right cheek to right cheek. For a double kiss, usually start from the right cheek, then the left cheek.
