A quick bite on someone's lower lip can make a kissing session more thrilling than it is already awake, but you have to be careful how you use this technique. If you use it the wrong way, you can hurt your partner and turn him off. Here's what you should do if you want to bite someone's lip in a sexy and voluptuous way.
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Part 1 of 3: Setting the Mood
Step 1. Pay attention to your partner's mood
Wait until you get a clear indication that he's ready with a little passionate kiss. If your kissing partner looks ambivalent about your kiss or is a little shy, this is not the time to try something hot like biting his lip. Actually, biting very slowly is also a bite.
The exact signs will be different for everyone, however, in general, look for signs that show openness and a desire for intimacy. If your partner snuggles closer, stares at you intently, or licks his lips seductively, this means you may have been given the green light
Step 2. Remove the distance
Once you get the green light, improve the atmosphere between you and your partner by reducing the distance between the two of you. This technique will only work if you can create a warm atmosphere first, and you won't be able to do it if the two of you are an arm's length apart.
- You don't need to stick completely to make this work, but at least you should touch more places than just the lips.
- Also remember that you can close the distance when the kiss is hotter.
Step 3. Lean in to kiss
You can start kissing gently or passionately, depending on how intense the atmosphere is between the two of you. As a rule of thumb, it's best to start with a light kiss before getting to the bite.
Step 4. Increase the intensity of your kiss
The kiss between you and your partner must awaken to a higher sensual level. The key word here is “build”. The most effective kisses will gradually heat up to a very passionate one, not rushing straight to the point.
If you want to make the kiss more exciting, you can start with a closed mouth kiss before moving on to an open mouth kiss. You can also do a little French kiss, or gently suck on your partner's lower lip as the first sign that a bite will follow
Part 2 of 3: Biting Your Partner's Lips
Step 1. Let your teeth brush against your partner's lips
When you're ready to bite, open your lips slightly and let your teeth brush against your partner's lower lip. The tooth should only scrape at this point and not move into the bite.
Scraping your partner's lips with your teeth means that you are giving him a sign for a bite. If your partner is uncomfortable with the bite, this sign will let him know that it's time to shift your efforts in another direction or withdraw
Step 2. Gently draw her lips with your teeth
Take your partner's lower lip between your upper and lower teeth. Use a little pressure to pick up her lips and pull them down slightly.
Usually, you should refer to the lower lip. You can experiment with biting your upper lip as well, but light bites on your lower lip are considered more sensual
Step 3. Just bite your partner's lips briefly
The idea of biting someone's lip while kissing is to give them a little vibration to add to the passion and intimacy of the kiss. Don't make the bite the main feature of the kiss; however, you should treat it as a light touch to create a more exciting atmosphere.
Step 4. Alternate kisses and bites
You can give your partner a few slow bites this way, but be aware that even if you bite slowly, overdoing it can quickly cause your partner's lips to hurt and bleed. This will discourage him, and may make your partner a little less excited for another kiss next time – if that time comes.
- If done right, your partner will like it, not feel pain.
- Treat this experience as a sweet and exciting opportunity. Kissing will be sweeter while biting is a little more on the fun side. Combining these two “flavors” can be an unforgettable experience.
Step 5. Watch your partner's reaction
A good kiss will be comfortable for both people involved. You may enjoy it yourself, but you have to be sure that the person you are kissing can enjoy it too.
- A negative reaction could mean that you are biting down more than you realize or that your partner has sensitive lips that hurt easily with just a small bite. Even if this isn't the case, it could also mean that he's not comfortable with the bite or doesn't see this as something he's excited about. No matter what the cause, the key to remember is that you should stop immediately when you get a negative response to a bite (or by any other game you're trying to make out).
- Negative reactions are usually easy to spot. If your partner flinchs, tries to divert the kiss, pushes you, or makes an “ow” sound, then that means he probably isn't enjoying the bite. On the other hand, if your partner pulls you closer, groans with satisfaction, or sighs happily, these are signs that you are doing something right.
Part 3 of 3: Making the Experience More Enjoyable
Step 1. Press your hips together
Even if you moved closer before kissing, you may still have an "A-shape" between you, meaning your chests are close to each other but your hips are far apart. You can make the lip bite more sensual by pressing your hips up against your partner's as you bite his lip.
The most sensual intimate part of your body is below the waist. Even if you don't plan to continue beyond kissing, pressing your lower body down can lead to a higher level of physical desire, which can make your making out session even better than it already is
Step 2. Let your hands wander
Instead of letting your hands stay in one place, such as the back of your partner's head or neck, you should allow your hands to wander around his body. Exactly where your hands may wander depends on how intimate you are and how willing your partner is at this point, so take that into account when you decide where to put your hands.
If you and your partner are already at a moderately passionate level of intimacy, you can incorporate other aggressive actions. For example, you can run your fingers through your partner's hair or go down the side of the neck and back. Just remember that the idea is to increase the connection between you, not to cause pain or injury
Step 3. Consider applying lip balm before you kiss
Lip balm offers 2 advantages. The first advantage is that it makes your lips smoother in the long run so that the lips are more enjoyable when kissing. The second advantage is that the taste and smell of lip balm can make your kissing session with your partner more intense because of the scent it gives off, especially if you choose the right flavour.
- Sweet and fresh taste is the best choice. Sweet flavors like strawberries can activate the taste buds that respond to sweetness on the front of the tongue. As a result, when you kiss between bites, your partner's sense of taste is stimulated.
- Similar to sweetness, the menthol in mint can cause the body's cold receptors to work. When you combine this with the sensation of warm lips and breath, you can create a tingling feeling that can create an exciting experience for both of you.
Step 4. Take care of your lips and mouth
You may not think too much about it during a kiss, but good oral hygiene is important if you want someone to think you're a good kisser. Your mouth should be clean and your lips should be soft and moist.
- At the most basic level, brushing your teeth two or three times a day will keep them clean and keep your breath fresh. You can also use dessert for added freshness.
- To make your lips softer, exfoliate with a non-toxic lip peel or body scrub once a week. Use a lip softener with SPF after you shower and whenever you feel your lips are dry. For girls, you should also apply a layer of lip balm before layering it with lip gloss.
