You've probably seen people flirting with each other in the movies and wondered how they did it. Some people can flirt naturally, while others learn the art of flirting in order to do so. Gently biting your lips while flirting with someone can be very seductive. Prepare yourself to do so by practicing and keeping lips attractive and healthy.
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Part 1 of 2: Flirting with Biting Lips
Step 1. Make eye contact
To let someone know you're interested in them, make eye contact first. Keep your eyes on hers, hold for a moment, then look away. Repeat several times to let him know that you saw it on purpose.
- Don't look at him. Staring is when you maintain eye contact with someone for more than a few seconds. Staring can give the impression of being aggressive or angry.
- Make eye contact with a slight smile.
- Make sure you pay attention to the response. If he doesn't look back at you, this is a sign that he's not interested. If he looks back at you, smiles at you, or responds positively, that's a sign that he doesn't mind your flirting.
Step 2. Begin to purse your lips and bite your lips immediately after making eye contact
Lower the lower lip slightly so that your teeth are almost visible. You don't have to purse your lips, just open your mouth to get the person's attention. Pursing your lips is the first step in the process of seductively biting your lips.
- Research shows that it is women who initiate flirting more often (90% more often than men). Men will usually flirt in response to the temptation that has been initiated by women.
- A study at Manchester University found that men spend the first 7-10 seconds looking at a woman's lips before moving on to other areas. Once you've confirmed that he's interested, start pursing your lips.
- Keep in mind that not all cultures display the same body cues for flirting.
- Maintain eye contact as you purse your lips.
Step 3. Lower your eyelashes seductively
After maintaining eye contact, lowering your eyelids or glancing at the person you're flirting with through your eyelashes are indications of nonverbal desire. You may need to lower your chin and look at the person for a seductive pose.
- Some people naturally blink faster. This is also called eye batting. If this happens naturally to you, it can be another way to add more temptation to your eyes. If this doesn't happen naturally, it will look like you're squeezing and it's best to avoid doing it.
- Tilting the chin down is said to make a woman look more "feminine" and seductive. On the other hand, men are said to look more "masculine" when they tilt their chin up and direct their gaze slightly down their nose.
Step 4. Do a triangular gaze
Look in one eye and then switch to the other and down to the lips. This will draw his attention to your lips.
- The reason your gaze will draw his attention to your lips is because of a person's tendency to imitate, or imitate, others when engaging in the "game" of temptation.
- Directing your gaze to a man's lips is a sign of too much flirtation. This is a nonverbal way of showing sexual interest.
Step 5. Tuck your lower lip in slightly
Gently bite one side of your inner lip for 2-5 seconds, then slowly release. Maintain eye contact while doing so. With eye contact, there is less chance of misunderstanding your biting your lip.
- Make sure your teeth don't bite the outer lip, as this can make you appear insecure or nervous.
- A tempting bite should be gentle and painless. This action should not leave a mark.
Step 6. Lick your lower lip
After biting your lip, you can add a slight lick of the lower lip with your tongue. The tongue is a sexual part of the body, and using it for now will make your approach more seductive.
- Don't over-lick your tongue. This can lead to chapped lips, which is the opposite of your goal.
- Continue to make flirtatious eye contact throughout the approach. The seductive lip bite is one of the movements in your art of flirting, which supports each other with other movements.
Part 2 of 2: Preparing the Lips
Step 1. Brush your teeth
Brush your teeth before applying lipstick or lip gloss. Use dental floss (dental floss) to ensure that no food debris gets stuck between the teeth. Leftover food stuck between the teeth will greatly damage the movement of your tempting lip bite.
- If you don't have time to brush your teeth, use mouthwash or chew gum for a few minutes.
- Your breath should be fresh and clean.
Step 2. Make a homemade lip scrub to exfoliate dead skin cells
Combine 1 tbsp sugar, 1 tbsp honey, 1/2 tsp petroleum jelly and 1/2 tsp olive oil, mix well. Dab some scrub on the lips, rub in a circular motion.
- Beat until some of the sugar is dissolved. Rinse with warm water.
- Do it twice a week for best results. Scrub should be stored in an airtight container for a week.
Step 3. Apply lip balm
Every time you wash your face, keep your lips moisturized by using a lip balm. Use a lip balm before applying lipstick, but be careful not to use lip balms that contain chemicals that dry out your lips.
- The best lip balm options are ones that are made without a lot of chemicals. Look for lip balms that contain ingredients such as beeswax, shea butter, olive oil and cocoa butter.
- Look for a lip balm that works best for your lips.
- Avoid using flavored lip balm if you want to tease her, just in case she doesn't like the smell of chewing gum or cherries.
Step 4. Use a lipstick that lasts a long time or that can make lips plumper/thicker
If you want to color your lips, red lipstick will make your teeth look whiter and your lips more prominent. Using red lipstick can draw more male attention to your lips than pink lipstick. There's no need to use light or bold lipstick, but research shows that men are more likely to hold their gaze longer on red lips than on pink lips.
- Make sure the lipstick or lip balm you choose does not fade on the lips easily. If it's too wet or sticky, the color of the lipstick can stain your teeth when you bite your lip.
- If you're a man or don't wear lipstick, apply a lip balm before you go outside today.
Tips
- Remember to have fun flirting with someone, and don't take it too seriously.
- Don't try too hard to pretend to be someone you're not when flirting with other people.
