Cold reading is a technique that magicians and other tricksters use to convince others that the "seeker" is communicating with the spirit world or feeling something using some other inner means. You can master the art of cold reading by using a few simple tricks and knowing the right questions. If you're humble, confident, and committed, try to start convincing people that you have supernatural abilities.
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Method 1 of 2: Preparation Stage
Step 1. Use props to set the scene and buy time during the viewing
Use props related to psychic vision, such as crystal balls or tarot cards. Choose something that will create an atmosphere that fits the subject and distracts him while you think about what to say.
For example, you might look into a crystal ball and say, "Wait a minute, I think I got something," when you need some time to think about your next sentence
Step 2. Choose a subject first if you are performing in front of an audience
Choose someone in the audience and observe for a while. Listen to any information it shares, which can be useful for later use. When you're ready to start, say that you feel the great energy of the subject and want to look into it.
For example, if you hear him mention the name of a close friend, such as Budi, you can mention that name during the visualization to prove that you are a genuine preacher from the spirit world
Step 3. Try not to brag about this ability
Don't make promises that are beyond your means. The lower the expectations you set for yourself, the easier it will be to achieve them. Your goal is to surprise the subject, not disappoint.
For example, instead of bragging about your abilities, say something humble, like “I can feel people are having a hard time, and their problems are coming to me little by little. I can try to look into it, if you want.”
Step 4. Say that the success of this vision depends on the subject
Let the subject know that only he or she is able to put together his “puzzle piece” and understand the information being conveyed because you are only the messenger of the message. Thus, the task of connecting the information conveyed shifts to the subject and off your shoulders.
For example, before the description you might say, "The spirit world conveys its message to me in a mysterious way so that only you can understand the meaning of what I am about to convey."
Method 2 of 2: Staring at the Subject
Step 1. Be confident during visioning
Your subject will trust you more if you appear confident when conveying the vision. Try not to stammer or look agitated, even if you make a mistake. Remember, you are the one with supernatural abilities. Your subject is lucky to have witnessed your magical abilities!
When you mention something that turns out to be wrong according to the subject, try saying "Are you sure? Maybe the meaning hasn't been revealed to you yet."
Step 2. Cover the question as a statement
This technique, known as “fishing”, allows you to learn more about the subject that can be used later. You fish information from the subject until he or she grabs the bait and confirms one of your statements.
For example, you could say "I saw a necklace, do you think you know the reason?" If the subject doesn't answer, go ahead and try again. "I saw a faint white house picture, do you know the reason? If the subject replies and says her grandmother lives in the white house, use it as a springboard for your vision
Step 3. Let the subject do the talking
If you hit the target during the viewing, and the subject wants to know more about a particular person or event, so be it. Subject words are valuable because they reveal things about themselves and you can use them later to demonstrate your inner abilities.
Step 4. Pay attention to the subject's clothing and attitude
Use these characteristics to deduce various things about the subject that can be used in visualization. You simply don't bring up things on a very obvious subject, like "gazing" that his favorite band is Metallica when he's wearing a Metallica t-shirt right in front of you. Don't worry if your deduction isn't quite right, just keep looking like nothing happened.
For example, if the subject is often restless when sitting and wearing a necklace with a heart pendant, you might later say "I feel that you are a nervous person, but this anxiety goes away when you are with loved ones."
Step 5. Speak in general statements that can be addressed to anyone
This step minimizes your risk of error. It is the subject who will do most of the work by giving a broad statement that fits his life. Avoid getting too specific, unless you use previously collected information.
For example, you could say, "As a child, sometimes you feel unhappy and no one understands you." This statement can apply to most people (people experienced unhappiness or misunderstood sometime in their childhood) but the subject feels that this statement is specifically addressed to him
Step 6. Let the subject guide the discussion
Usually, subjects who ask to be exposed have brought problems or burdens to their minds. If the subject is enthusiastic about something, or you notice that he or she keeps bringing up a topic, take your eyes off it. Your subject will be more likely to believe you if you tell him what he wants to hear.