If you want to hook a Cancer sign, be prepared! You will face interesting challenges. Of all the zodiac signs, Cancer is the most loyal and caring. Cancer is also full of dynamism and diversity. Those born between June 22 and July 22 make great friends. However, are you ready for the challenge?
Part 1 of 3: Melt the Mood
Step 1. If you have a desire to get other people interested in you, know that this is a sign that a Cancer partner will suit you
Cancer woman is a woman who waits for her knight. He loves romance, intimacy, and being loved. Cancer men are romantic and polite men. He will shower you with gifts and praise. Although moving slowly, the Cancer man keeps romance in his heart.
A Cancer needs to know that you are the only one. To show this, at first you need to try first. So, start trying! In the end, your efforts will be worth it
Step 2. Get to know them
Since Cancers are very cautious, it would be best if you recognized them first before asking for a deeper relationship. Becoming friends first will make them slowly fall in love with you.
Cancer is a sign that likes to show physical affection. Complete your relationship with small touches, hugs, and gently show affection, they will find it very meaningful. Give them warmth with your touch and they will reciprocate
Step 3. Take a step
If you're a woman, you may need to take steps first, not wait for the guy to do it. If you're a man, know that she may need more time than other women before she's ready for you to kiss. This doesn't mean he isn't interested in you, but he just needs to "thaw" first.
Never take a Cancer out with you and your friends or family because doing so will stress him out. Take them to a private place. Ask them out on a simple but fun date. Make sure the date isn't too stressful or uncomfortable.
Just because someone is Cancer, doesn't mean they don't know how to have fun. Take him to the beach or the pool, because the Cancer zodiac sign loves water
Step 4. Don't try to play around
A Cancer has a great intuition about people and their motivations. So, don't waste your time on "selling expensive", "jaim", or maintaining prestige. They'll see it right away and know that you're not being sincere.
When a Cancer is comfortable, they will be honest with you. He also requires you to be honest with him! If you try to be mysterious, he won't like it. A Cancer is great at reading other people, so don't try to hide your feelings from them
Step 5. Make him feel comfortable
A Cancer loves family and loves to be at home. In general, he prefers to stay at home, but if you can make him feel comfortable anywhere, you can win his heart! Realize that he is a part of your home and is free to do whatever he wants when he is in your house.
Talk to your family with him. Let him know that you are someone who loves and values your family. He will be comforted to know that you and he actually have the same thoughts. Family is very important to a Cancer, and nothing can change that
Part 2 of 3: Know What to Expect
Step 1. Recognize that a Cancer sticks to the “old style,” and is traditional and loyal
This character is not bad, in fact it can be a positive thing. If you have stolen the heart of a Cancer, he will be very loyal. He will expect you to be someone as romantic, loving, kind, a little old-fashioned, and loyal as he is. There's nothing wrong with that!
When it comes to in bed, a Cancer may not be very attractive. A Cancer will be more romantic and sensual, not hot and exotic. However, if you earn his trust, he will be more open as long as you can make him feel safe and comfortable
Step 2. Recognize that a Cancer has a hard time trusting other people
Even though this is a common human trait, a Cancer will have a hard time trusting you from the start. He actually "wants" to trust other people, but finds it difficult to do so, especially if he has a lot of good memories and also the ability to suppress feelings. However, a Cancer actually likes to love other people. So, what you give him will be reciprocated.
Maybe this is also the main drawback of a Cancer. Getting him to open up to you is very difficult. However, if you put in the effort, there's a good chance the end result will be worth it. You will find someone who is very delicate and sensitive, who will prioritize you above anything else
Step 3. Recognize that a Cancer needs to feel needed
A Cancer is a good "nanny". This is basic in nature and is the only way Cancer people live their lives. So you have to be willing to "lean" on it! He will love it. He really expects you to do that. You have to be open about your needs and he will fulfill them. This makes him happy!
Let him watch you when you are sick. If you have a problem, talk to him. Ask him for advice about your problems at your job or your problems with your friends. Let him cook your dinner! Fair enough right?
Step 4. Be prepared to be noticed
Cancer is the most caring person compared to other zodiac signs. If you want a nonchalant relationship, Cancer is not the sign for you. A Cancer likes to show romance and affection. Hope you can reply!
That doesn't mean he will always stick to you even though there is always such a possibility. He'll be so sincere with you that it's hard to hide it. He just wants to be around you and show you how much he cares about you. This act is very commendable. If only everyone could love others like a Cancer
Part 3 of 3: Strengthening Relationships
Step 1. You have to convince
Don't act like you're hard to get - a Cancer will think you're not interested and care about them. If he's feeling a little uncomfortable about himself or the relationship, don't hesitate to make him comfortable. It will do the same for you!
He will not tolerate temperamental traits. If you're angry or upset over small things, he'll think you're not thinking rationally and can't see the big picture. If you are too angry with him, he will think that you don't care. He can be quite sensitive when he is vulnerable
Step 2. Be serious when you say something
A Cancer really holds your word. If you offer him a promise of love, he will keep the promise of love. So, mean what you say. If you want to take a Cancer to bed, don't tell them you love them. Don't talk. It won't work!
If you "don't" mean it when you say something, a Cancer will probably figure it out right away and think you're a liar. Even if you don't think it's a lie, that's not the case with him. So, be careful in choosing the words you will say. A Cancer "will" remember every word you say
Step 3. Be honest
At first, a Cancer may not open up to you, but once they start to trust you, they will open up very much and expect the same level of honesty from you. So, be honest! Let him know how you feel. You'd also appreciate it if he was being very honest with you, right?
Step 4. You need to break through the complexities of being a Cancer
The zodiac sign for Cancer is the crab. Basically, they are very difficult to "soften," but inside, they are very sensitive and emotional people. Sometimes, they can be very weak people, but they can also be strong and independent people. In short, Cancer is a very dynamic and unpredictable sign. Can you break through the complexity?
A Cancer is a very complicated person and a little weak. If you let him down, he will hold on to that feeling of disappointment for days. If you can make him feel safe and loved, he will be a very pleasant person. When he feels weak, he will shut up. It all depends on you, whether you can bring out all the hidden potential that is in him
- Make sure you are always there for him.
- Try not to be swayed by his moodiness.
- Prove that you are consistent and trustworthy. If you do that, a Cancer will be the best partner you will ever have.
- Don't date a Cancer if you're both very young, unless he's mature enough to understand that sometimes love can hurt.
- If your zodiac sign is earthy (Taurus, Virgo, or Capricorn), realize that you rely more on your brain and Cancer with your heart.