Do you always have a hard time showing interest in your crush? If so, check out this article for some easy tips! Basically, the approach process will go smoothly if you know the person's character, and one of the most powerful ways to identify a person's character is to analyze their astrological or zodiac sign. However, certain zodiac owners actually have quite complicated characters, such as people with Cancer stars born between June 21 and July 22, because they are generally people who are thirsty for freedom, but at the same time also thirst for intimate relationships. and in with other people. As a result, if you want to attract the attention of the Cancer zodiac sign with the crab symbol, you have to do your best to open the shell that has enveloped them. Interested in trying it?
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Part 1 of 3: Attracting Cancer Zodiac Owners' Attention
Step 1. Allow him to lead
In general, Cancer zodiac signs are excellent financial leaders and planners. That's why, they tend to be leaders in a group or organization. In addition, they are also very good at managing finances and tend to be successful in achieving various predetermined targets.
Don't feel intimidated by that aspect. Although the Cancer zodiac sign is a successful leader, their feelings are very sensitive. All these strengths and achievements will not make them arrogant and/or too proud
Step 2. Touch the artistic side
Did you know that Cancers are people who value art, culture, and lavish celebrations (like dinners)? That's why, they have a tendency to open up more easily to people who also appreciate art and the spectacular.
- Tell us about the last book you read, and the part that touched your heart the most.
- Invite him to dine at a fine dining restaurant, then tell him your favorite food menu.
- Tell dramas and films whose stories are very meaningful and can drain your emotions.
- Tell us about your favorite museums and works of art.
Step 3. Let your relationship flow like water
Understand that in general, the mood of the Cancer zodiac sign is very volatile. In addition to being very emotional, they also often show contradictory emotions or express several forms of emotion at the same time. Don't let the character sway your will to win her heart!
- Treat him well if his emotional state is unstable.
- Try to stay logical when dealing with Cancer zodiac owners who are emotionally unstable. Try to understand and analyze the root of the problem.
Part 2 of 3: Interacting with Cancer Zodiac Owners
Step 1. Take the first step
Basically, almost no Cancer sign is willing to take the first step in a relationship and/or initiate a conversation first, especially since their emotional state tends to be fragile and they are so afraid to accept rejection. However, don't worry because in truth, they are always open when invited to chat.
Step 2. Give him space and time
Don't force him to rush into a decision. If forced, chances are the answer you receive is "no", and he will withdraw from your life soon after. Therefore, stop after making the offer, and give him time to make the decision he feels is right.
- For example, if you want to ask her out on a date, try giving her options regarding the time and location of the date, then give her time to make a decision.
- Ask a date in the form of a question. Then, give him time to consider your request, and call him back in the evening to ask him for an answer.
Step 3. Give her a light physical touch if she's starting to be willing to open up
Basically, Cancer zodiac owners like physical touch, and their erotic point is located in the chest area. However, understand that physical touch in the chest area is usually much more effective for men than women. Therefore, try gently touching or stroking his chest if the two of you are chatting or joking.
- For example, lightly pat his chest if he manages to make you laugh.
- If you want to leave her for a while, lightly touch her chest as she moves away, then come back to check on her condition.
- Instead of doing the same thing to women, which is certainly not polite, try giving a light physical touch on their arm or shoulder area.
Step 4. Be friends with his friends
Cancers are people who are very loyal friends and therefore, often have several groups of friends that, although not large, are very intimate. As a result, your crush will definitely listen to his friends' opinions on any matter. That's why, you must be able to respect and treat his closest friends well, in order to step closer into his personal life.
- Spend time with his friends, even if your crush isn't there. Be their friend.
- Be an active listener in front of his friends. Try to remember their names and important things related to their lives.
- Dig up information about his friends while chatting with your crush. If a friend has just had an important meeting, ask how they are. If there are friends who are in trouble, ask how they are.
Part 3 of 3: Communicating with Cancer Zodiac Owners
Step 1. Speak as straightforwardly as possible to the Cancer zodiac sign
Convey your intentions and feelings honestly and openly to him. If you're interested in a serious, long-term relationship, say so. If you just want a quick relationship, express that desire as well.
On the other hand, don't give him false hope. If you're not interested in being in a serious relationship, don't impress her differently because she's bound to notice and potentially walk away after that
Step 2. Give a sincere compliment
Like many other people, Cancers have a need to be acknowledged, but be careful because they are very good at detecting insincere or forced compliments. Therefore, praise the uniqueness or specialness in his appearance sincerely and honestly, no matter how simple the compliment you give.
- For example, he may have a unique eye color that is different from the average person.
- He may also have a style of dress that catches your eye. If she wears a necklace or has a tattoo with an interesting design, try to offend her. Believe me, your praise or attention is very meaningful in the ears of the Cancer zodiac sign!
Step 3. Open the shell slowly
One of the most important foundations in any relationship that is built by Cancer zodiac owners is trust. That is why, their self-protection will remain strong until you can achieve that trust. Winning someone's trust in a short time is not easy, but as long as you always put honesty first, the process doesn't have to take too long.
- Believe me, the Cancer zodiac sign is good at reading all forms of lies or pretense that you throw.
- Speak honestly and consistently.
Step 4. Get information about his family
Cancer zodiac owners generally have very close kinship relationships with family. For them, family always comes first and because of that, usually they always have a very big family. Cancer women will also usually be good mothers, you know!
- Ask if your crush has a brother or sister. Show that you have a very genuine interest in getting to know his siblings more closely.
- The people who are important to the Cancer zodiac sign should also be considered important.
Tips
- Give him as much time as possible to build a relationship with you. Understand that Cancer zodiac signs are generally shy and don't open up easily. However, that doesn't mean they aren't interested in you, or in the topic of your discussion.
- Identify whether or not there is a signal of interest from the Cancer zodiac sign. Usually, they will not express their feelings or thoughts explicitly. However, things that are not said can be easily read through their facial expressions and body language.
- Be patient. Most likely, Cancer zodiac signs need quite a long time to crawl out of their protective shell. In addition, to emphasize their involvement in the conversation, they have a tendency to give explanations or tell stories that are too long and sound rambling. Don't worry, sooner or later you will surely realize the reason behind this tendency. For now, be patient and focus on listening to the stories of your crush.
- Prioritize honesty and loyalty. Remember, Cancer zodiac signs value honesty and loyalty. Therefore, don't flirt with or approach other people at the same time, especially since Cancers are also very jealous, just like Pises and Scorpios.
- Just because Cancers don't talk much, doesn't mean they don't share common interests. In particular, pay more attention to your crush's gaze.
Warning
- Don't insult his family, no matter how often he complains about the topic.
- Don't lie or betray the trust of the Cancer zodiac sign. Although they may not appear, Cancer zodiac signs are actually very fragile and sensitive people. Trust me, you won't want to see their angry outburst!
- Do not insult the cultural heritage and/or the country. In fact, Cancer zodiac owners are very patriotic people. As a result, behavior that looks insulting, demeaning, or humiliating their cultural heritage and/or country can immediately offend them.
