Making a girl laugh is a powerful way to build a relationship with her. If the girl smiles and laughs, you can tell that she is having a great time with you. If you still don't know how to make girls laugh, don't worry. There are many ways here. Make a collection of funny stories and sentences that tickle. Don't be afraid to act silly. Try to find out what makes him laugh and adapt your sense of humor to him. If you're not with him, send him some hilarious messages that will make him laugh out loud!
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Method 1 of 3: Joke While Chatting
Step 1. Prepare a collection of funny stories
Of course you don't want to be caught preparing anecdotes. However, there is nothing wrong with collecting funny stories that you can use as references. Stick to general topics that are light and funny. Avoid telling dirty or intimate stories if you don't really know the girl. Remember, even though your friend likes stories like that, your crush doesn't necessarily like it.
- Think of some of the embarrassing things you've experienced, such as when you accidentally wore your shirt upside down for a photo shoot at school.
- Do you have pets? Well, maybe you also have a lot of funny stories about your favorite animal!
- To keep your jokes fresh, visit funny websites like The Onion often and find inspiration there.
Step 2. Remember some cute one-liners
One liners are short sentences that provoke laughter. Using a one-liner to demonstrate your word processing skills is definitely not recommended. However, you can use it if you want to look silly. The drier, the better. You can also throw a one-liner about him or something general. Avoid vulgar one-liners. Contrary to what many people believe, girls don't find such jokes funny. You're making him uncomfortable. Examples of one-liner sentences that you can try:
- "I am willing to be arrested by the police as long as the charges are for stealing your heart."
- "Ever since I met you, I have always wanted to learn. Learn to be the best.”
- "I can lose playing chess with the computer. But, the computer won't be able to beat me in a boxing match!”
Step 3. Create your own sense of humor by relying on your strengths
Think about the things you do or say that usually make your friends laugh, especially your female friends. If you're good at joking using physical, just do it. Or, are you more adept at imitating other people? Please try that way. If you like to chime in on what your interlocutor is talking about cutely, do it once in a while in front of the girl. Just make sure your jokes are entertaining and not obtrusive!
Still not sure where your strengths lie? You can ask your friends
Step 4. Learn to laugh at yourself
Don't keep drowning in feelings of inferiority. Instead, find silly things about yourself that make him laugh. Take it from personal experience or learn to make yourself a laughing stock at the time. For example, if you bump into something while you're walking with him, say, "Oh, I'm not really good at being a catwalk model!" These words of yours will lift your mood while also showing that you don't think too much about what other people think and are comfortable with yourself.
- Try not to rely too much on this tactic. These kinds of jokes can feel weird or crunchy after a while. However, jokes that are contextual and not marketable can be used as capital.
- For example, your jokes turn dry. In this case, just admit your craziness and carry on with your conversation.
Step 5. Make funny comments based on previous conversations or events
It's simple, for example, "Do you remember history class…" and continue with a good anecdote. Or, try making a funny comment based on something he's already told you. He will not only laugh, but also flattered that you still remember it in detail.
For example, if he's ever said he likes fashion, ask him for advice and tell him what a silly outfit you're going to wear at an upcoming event
Method 2 of 3: Sending Funny SMS
Step 1. Consider using memes
Of course not all memes are funny. However, you are sure to come across memes that can tickle the nerves of laughter. If you find a funny meme, save it and send it via SMS. Of course you won't hear him laugh, but you might even get a text message that says "LOL"! Well, if you already know what he likes, just look for memes with that topic.
- If he's a big fan of the Game of Thrones series, you have lots of options. If he's an animal lover or is a fashion fan, look for memes that bring up the topic.
- Avoid sending memes all the time. There are people who find it annoying or even find it strange.
Step 2. Submit a link that leads to funny videos on Youtube
For example, find a comic short video, especially if it's something he likes or finds funny. Or, if you want something simpler, a collection of funny animal acts or cutscenes from his favorite television comedy show.
- For example, you know that he likes the television show "Running Man". Well, just look for funny scenes that can provoke him to laugh.
- Try not to send links like the above on a regular basis. By sending it occasionally, he will surely laugh out loud watching a funny video.
Step 3. Find or create a funny-g.webp" />
GIFs are much shorter in duration than videos and there are plenty of them on the internet. So, you don't have to worry about running out of GIFs. Tumblr is arguably a repository of funny GIFs. Or, just search by keyword: -g.webp
If the above doesn't work, download a meme maker app and make your own
Step 4. Take a photo of yourself in a goofy style and add a funny Snapchat filter
It's not a new idea, but the results are still funny! There are many filters that you can use. So, immediately try these filters. If you can laugh out loud after seeing your creations, chances are that he will find it funny too.
- The girl might reply to your jokes by co-creating a silly photo and using a Snapchat filter, then sending it.
- You can also send them cute photos of yourself, like baby photos.
Method 3 of 3: Using the Right Humor
Step 1. Choose the right time to throw humor
When it comes to comedy, timing is very important! This advice is very true when the opportunity to come up with a joke. For example, if one of you spills a drink at a restaurant, this is a good time to make a stupid joke to lighten the mood. However, if he is disappointed with his life, be careful in choosing jokes.
- If his pet recently died or he just got a bad grade on his math test, your attempts to cheer him on with a funny one-liner will either run dry or may even annoy him even more.
- If it turns out that you have just encountered a problem or are feeling reluctant to be funny, don't force yourself.
Step 2. Try to find out what he finds funny and then use it
Every girl is different so try to match her personality to find out how to make her laugh. Ask simple questions to gather the information you need. For example, you could ask, "Watch this show last night, didn't you?" If he says yes, it means he likes 'slapstick' comedy. If he actually mentions another movie or television show, try to be funny in that sense of humor.
For example, if he mentions Time for Indonesian Jokes or an episode of Tukang Ojek Pengkolan, you can come up with ideas about what he likes
Step 3. Don't take it too seriously
Some girls like dark humor or dark humor. If you're sure he likes it, use jokes in that style. However, it would be better if you are not too serious and can still be funny. Being sarcastic or cynical from the start will give the impression that you are aggressive or weird. If you keep on joking in this way, he will get tired and irritated.
Avoid being sarcastic with him, especially if you don't know the girl that well
Step 4. Laugh with him, not laugh at him
Laughter is contagious and enjoying funny situations together can strengthen the bond or make him more attracted to you. However, make sure you don't laugh at his bad luck. If you're laughing and having fun, you'd want him to feel that way too, right?
- Mimicking his sense of humor is one way to laugh with him. If he likes a dirty joke, for example, throw a similar joke. Try to make your jokes sound natural. If basically your joke style is light and casual, using a sarcastic and dark style will feel forced.
- Just follow his will if you're sure it's his favorite style of joke. Just understand if he looks awkward or confused when he has to respond to your jokes.
- Ask her favorite comedian, funny movie, or sitcom. watch or refer to them when you're with them to create a relaxed and funny atmosphere.
Step 5. Don't think you have to be funny all the time
Yes, everyone loves to laugh and have fun. However, sometimes people also want to have a serious talk or share something intimate with you. If you're constantly joking, he may not take you seriously or feel like he can't share your closeness with you because you're bound to use it as a joke. Make sure you're not joking all the time so he can see you as multidimensional.
Tips
- Try to keep the humor you are telling has something to do with the girl and stay in context.
- Take advantage of new material and current issues as a source of inspiration for your humor.
- Develop a catchphrase or gimmick that's easy to learn so he can repeat it. Catchphrases are words that are spoken so often that they become characteristic of the person saying them, while gimmick (called inside jokes) are jokes that only people in the group understand. This way, he will feel like you are in league with your jokes.
- Watch a few comic strips to sharpen your sense of when it's time to crack a joke. Write down anything you find funny and you can use in this kind of situation.
- If you want to chat via SMS or even in a chat group, you can just chat as usual while throwing light jokes for him. It's easy?
