Most men are not hard to laugh at. If you know his sense of humor and show your true self, you will be able to make him laugh easily at any time. Read the guide below so you can make a guy laugh.
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Part 1 of 3: Finding Your Sense of Humor
Step 1. Act funny or stupid
Most women don't really get the attention of the crowd with one short sentence or an anecdote. To bring out your humor, the simplest and most effective way is to act stupid or funny. This shows that you are a happy, fun person and don't always take life too seriously. Here are some ideas:
- Physical humor. Make a funny face, or act like you're in the slow zone, or jump on his back and ask to be picked up (if he doesn't mind, of course), or anything else you find funny.
- Do a little skit. Do foreign accents or accents that you find funny. Or maybe copy his accent or actions as a joke and a small tease for him.
- If you can, give some funny reactions to things.
Step 2. Be yourself
There's nothing better than someone who is completely comfortable with being themselves. If you can be yourself, you show that other people can be themselves without having to worry about anything. From there, your humor will come out naturally because you and the other person are both happy and relaxed.
- Don't worry too much about whether you're cute enough for him. If you're feeling loose and enjoying his fun, he'll be happy to be with you. Don't worry about the impression you make. Do what makes you happy and he may want to do what you do.
- If you try to be funny but not naturally, you will look like you are trying to be funny and end up failing. Go natural and let your conversation flow naturally. The humor will emerge at the right time by itself.
Step 3. Be positive
Indeed, occasionally can be funny in front of people who are quiet, sarcastic, cynical, and dark. But you certainly don't want to be around people like that all the time. Everyone wants to be around people who are upbeat and positive because one's feelings and moods can spread. Cheerful people make those around them happy (which is usually funnier too), and bring out things that make us feel confident. There's no way anyone would hate someone like this.
When you are optimistic, everything will look bright. When things are bright and fun, you can certainly crack jokes more easily (and invite laughter). The happier you are, the easier it will be to make other people smile and laugh
Part 2 of 3: Balancing Her Style
Step 1. Get to know him
Humor is a subjective thing. What you find funny may not be funny to others. So so that you can make other people laugh, identify the person. What TV shows does he like to watch? Which comedian does he like? What kind of humor does he often emit? These are all clues to what makes him laugh.
Step 2. Laugh at the joke
Women generally value a sense of humor more. So what do men want? Someone who makes them feel that they are funny. Instead of trying to impress him, show that he's got you hooked. Also show that he has the right to laugh at his own jokes, because that will make him feel good.
You don't have to laugh at all the jokes. If he makes a joke that isn't funny, you can laugh as a sign that you're laughing at him (not the joke)
Step 3. Respond to the humor
When you feel like you're getting along with someone, something known as chemistry will emerge between the two of you. To show that you know him and appreciate his sense of humor, respond well to his humor.
Being able to share each other's humor can forge a difficult bond between the two of you. If you understand the humor and can follow it, respond well. Show that you like his cuteness
Part 3 of 3: Interacting With Him
Step 1. Help her be happy
When life gets tough, we find it hard to laugh. In order to laugh and see the funny side of things, we must want to see the funny side. Help her be happy and content by being your awesome and optimistic self and pulling her with you.
By being positive and fun, you've helped a lot. Be his best friend (or whatever suits your relationship with him), do little things for him, and try to make his life easier (especially if he's going through a lot of tough stuff). Let him see the bright side of life so that his sense of humor can come back
Step 2. Want to embarrass yourself
Few things are funnier than someone who can make a fool of himself and yet laugh at it. On the other hand, there are few things worse than someone humiliating and feeling ashamed and wanting to hide. So when you spill a drink on your own clothes or body, don't be shy.
Research also shows that humiliating yourself can make people like and trust you more. That makes a lot of sense, because when people see you as down-to-earth, easy-going, and just the person you are, it takes away all forms of intimidation and stress
Step 3. Get physically involved
Physical comedy is the only form of comedy that has existed throughout human history and has survived for some reason. If you can't say something funny naturally, try something nonverbal.
The simplest example? Tick him, or try a simple finger or hand game
Step 4. Relax and relax
If you seem tense or stressed, you certainly can't be happy and funny. Calm down and relax, because that's the only way you can be yourself and invite situations where your humor can come out naturally. If you are calm and enjoy being with him, the jokes and laughter will naturally emerge.
If he doesn't laugh at your jokes, that's okay. What matters is that you think it's funny. If he sees you being yourself, then there's no reason for him to hate you
Tips
- Don't force everything. If you're trying too hard to be funny, he'll see you're trying too hard.
- Don't tell jokes that will offend him. Play it safe.
- Be patient and let the flow of the conversation take you naturally.
- Don't be afraid to tell him something. Being comfortable when in front of him is important.
Warning
- Don't be disappointed if he doesn't laugh. He was probably thinking about something else. Try again another time.
- Be careful when using cliché jokes. A joke like this could be considered just as an attempt to join in. Make sure all the jokes you make are natural.
