Maybe sometimes you feel confused about what to do when kissing someone. At such times, there are several choices to be made. Do what you think is normal, such as holding hands, touching your face, or putting your arm around them. If your relationship has reached a more intimate stage and you want to do more than just kiss, use your hands to hug, touch, or even undress your partner.
Step
Method 1 of 2: Touching your partner
Step 1. Touch the waist
Don't let your hands hang when you kiss someone. If you are in doubt and feel uncomfortable touching your partner's face, try placing your hands on his waist or pelvis.
Step 2. Hold her hand
Try holding your partner's hand when kissing. While holding hands, you can also cross your fingers with your partner.
Step 3. Touch his face
Putting your hand on someone's face can make the kiss more intimate. Try stroking your partner's cheek, neck, or even earlobe. Gently stroking the earlobe can help stimulate your partner.
Step 4. Stroking her hair
Try touching and playing with your partner's hair while kissing. Use one or both hands to stroke. You can also use your fingers to play with your hair when kissing someone with long hair.
Step 5. Use your hands to embrace her
Not using your hands when kissing can lead to awkward and unnatural situations. Embrace your partner to show that you enjoy kissing him.
Step 6. Use your hands to control the hands
Try using your hands to point your partner's hand toward your body. Point your partner's hand at a time when his hands are still or touch certain body parts that are uncomfortable to touch. You can also move your partner's hand for no particular reason. Use one hand to point one hand at your body.
Step 7. Use your hands to end the kiss
Remove your hands from your partner's body to signal the end of the kiss. In general, your partner will understand the purpose of the action. Otherwise, use your hands to gently push against the chest (male partner) or shoulder (female partner) to end the kiss.
Method 2 of 2: Doing More Than Just a Kiss
Step 1. Bring the body closer
Use your hands to gently pull your partner's waist until his body is pressed against yours like in a hug.
Step 2. Touch the body
If you're in a closed place already comfortable with each other, and both have a desire to do more than just kissing, try feeling his or her body. Put your hand inside your partner's clothing to feel his stomach and chest or trace his back and arms.
Step 3. Put your hands in the back pocket of his pants
You can do this when kissing someone in jeans to pull them closer while feeling through their clothes.
Step 4. Take off the clothes
You can do this with someone you have an intimate relationship with and each of whom is comfortable doing things that don't require clothing. Remove all or part of your partner's clothing.
Tips
- Use common sense to judge how and where you should use your hands when kissing. Consider how intimate and how long you've been with your partner. Make sure your partner is always comfortable with what you are doing.
- Do not do things that are not natural when kissing. Your partner can sense when you feel awkward or uncomfortable. Avoid thinking too hard at these times and try to follow the mood.
Warning
- Don't let other people force you to do things you don't want, especially those that have to do with sex.
- Consider your surroundings (for example, in a public or private place) to determine what kind of kissing and touching you can do.
