This is experienced by many women. We fall in love with a guy who doesn't like kissing. Nothing can ruin the mood, or worse, make us feel unwanted than a partner who doesn't like to kiss. Like the lyrics of the song "If you want to know if he loves you, the answer is in his kiss". Luckily, there are some surefire ways to make sure your partner enjoys kissing you.
Step
Step 1. Make it clear that you love kissing him
You wish he kissed you more often and that is best conveyed. Say that kissing is very important to you as well as to the relationship. This will definitely encourage him to kiss you more often. NO relationship is based solely on physical contact, love must be able to survive without that form of intimacy. You can say that kissing is important to you, but if you connect the relationship, the results will be even better.
Step 2. When he tries to kiss you, pay attention to how
Was the kiss light and just touching the lips? A strong, domineering kiss? Or, passionate kisses, long, with open mouths? No matter how you kiss, it may not be the kind of kiss you like. Even if this is the case, never criticize. The reason he doesn't like kissing is probably the fact that he doesn't know how to kiss well. This is your chance to rebuild his confidence. Decide what type of kisser he is and stick with it. If he's a gentle kisser and you prefer deep, passionate kisses, kiss him gently at first, but slowly open your mouth and introduce him with a passionate kiss. If the kiss is weak and you prefer a strong, demanding kiss, wait until she doesn't expect it, pull her in and kiss her hard on the lips. Show that spontaneous kissing is fun, and after that, depending on the situation, the style of the kiss will change.
Step 3. Praise him
Mocking and complimenting the kiss (if he's not a great kisser) is the only way to make him confident enough to kiss you. And finally, through practice and your example, he'll be a fantastic kisser and love to do it
If he's nervous, compliment the kiss (for example, "don't be nervous, your kiss was great"), he'll stop being nervous and start kissing you more often
Step 4. Accept the idea that maybe he's not a good kisser or that he might not like the way you kiss him
Asking what kind of kiss he likes will usually foster appreciation and create an instant kissing session. Remember, he may want to kiss, but is nervous.
Step 5. Move first
Men sometimes get nervous and start shaking if you wait for him to approach first. Therefore, you can take the first step to show that you are comfortable kissing him and that his nervousness will go away after the first kiss. Maybe you'll get a kiss from him too.
Step 6. Don't immediately kiss passionately
Start slowly and gently.
If he seems surprised, just wait. Most likely, he will kiss you back. When he kisses you, don't just sit around like a wooden doll, kiss him back
Step 7. Make sure you close your eyes when kissing because opening your eyes may make him uncomfortable and/or create an awkward atmosphere
Tips
- Touch him on the arm and shoulder, and lean your head to indicate that you want to kiss him.
- Choose a private place so both of you are not nervous.
- If you're nervous, you can hug him and then walk away, bring your cheek to his and kiss him. Then, laugh or smile.
- Dedicate one night to just kissing, experimenting with different types of kisses and showing him that kissing is fun.
- Treat your lips so they are soft and supple. Exfoliate with a toothbrush when dead skin cells start to build up. Use a lip balm that contains healing elements, not just one made of wax.
- Kiss him when you meet and part, and get used to the kiss, even if it's just a quick peck on the lips.
- Make sure your breath is fresh.
- Try eye to eye before kissing. Eye gaze will add to the romantic feeling.
- Make sure your body smells good. It's not good to hug someone who smells bad.
- If your partner doesn't want to, don't force it. Forced kisses aren't fun at all.
Warning
- Never complain to others that your partner rarely kisses. Words would spread and he would be offended if they heard it.
- If he doesn't want to kiss, but wants to have sex, maybe he's just interested in sex. According to many people, kissing is more intimate than any physical contact, including sex. If he forgets about this most intimate act but wants sex, he probably doesn't intend to have an emotional, passionate relationship with you.
- Never say that the way he kisses is wrong. There's no right way to kiss. It depends on taste, maybe you like one way, but other people may like different way.
- If you or your partner wear braces, don't kiss too hard or move your tongue a lot, as this will hurt the inside of your lips or tongue.
