To all women, teenagers or adults - have you ever thought about how to treat your lover the right way? If you feel that you know how to treat your lover right, have you ever stopped to think that maybe you're forgetting some things? This article will tell you a few things you should know about men as well as how to treat your boyfriend.
Step
Step 1. Have trust
Trust is probably the most important aspect of any relationship.
Step 2. Make sure that you are always honest
While some men lie to their boyfriends and that's not something that can be comfortably accepted, getting back at them isn't a good thing either. If you don't want to be lied to, don't lie. Men also have feelings and feel pain when lied to. In addition, the relationship will become more fragile because lying is a sign of distrust.
Step 3. Appreciate your partner
Disrespect is not a good thing, and this applies to both men and women. Lying AND disrespect is always a pain.
Step 4. Don't expect a man to always behave like a genius
From time to time it may be that your boyfriend is having a bad day or is in a bad mood, which may be because his mind is so full of things that he can't act like a genius all the time, even if he doesn't mean to treat you badly.
Step 5. Make room for your lover
Trust me with this tip, men sometimes want and need some alone time to spend with their male friends to maintain intimacy, for example by going to the bar together. Never worry that your boyfriend will ignore you to be with his friends. Everyone needs their own space, that's all.
Step 6. On a birthday or important day, buying your lover a nice gift might be a good choice
It's not just women who like to buy nice gifts. Don't be a woman who always receives lavish gifts from her lover and never reciprocates the treatment.
Step 7. Don't let jealousy grow too much, and don't always be suspicious of your lover
If a woman tries to seduce your boyfriend, don't always assume that your boyfriend started it first because she probably did it. Also, don't accuse anyone too soon. Try to believe that a lover is only talking to a female friend. It's also possible that this isn't always true, but it's worth it for you to think positively like that so you don't sink into jealousy.
Step 8. Don't feel jealous when your lover sees another woman
It's completely natural for a man to accidentally see another woman! Honestly, when you're with your boyfriend, of course you've done the same thing to other men! It depends on how comfortable you are with your partner, whether you've reached a point where it's considered "natural." If you feel uncomfortable about it, talk to your lover.
Step 9. Compliment your partner
You certainly know how happy you are when your lover compliments your beauty today. So, give him some compliments once in a while. If he's well-dressed for one of your special dates, tell him he's doing well.
Tips
- Love him as he is, don't try to change him because it won't give you the results you want.
- Giving a tight hug is also a good thing.
- Love her.
- If you're trying to give your boyfriend a hint, don't expect him to always understand it. Sometimes, you need to be upfront and say what you want.
- Give a surprise kiss once in a while. French kisses can also be a good choice.
- Sometimes a guy just wants to sit on the couch with his girlfriend while watching some obscure movie or any movie on TV, while sharing a big pizza with you and enjoying some relaxing moments.
- Sometimes a man likes it when his girlfriend talks openly. Just try to reduce it or even not do it when you are going through uncomfortable times.
- Don't be mad at your boyfriend if he doesn't have enough time with you because they don't mean to.
- If a guy doesn't feel like having sex at night, don't force him because that will only make the situation worse.
- Ask your lover's feelings, and listen carefully. Give him the opportunity to tell him things that are important to him, even if you don't understand them.
- Don't be afraid to take the initiative. Some guys are very shy, and they really appreciate a confident lover taking the initiative.
Warning
- Men (in general) are not as sensitive as women. Don't expect him to always understand you if you don't explain.
- Not all men always think about sex or just want sex. Don't pressure your boyfriend to do it if he doesn't want to.
- Don't be angry with your lover when he forgets something. Maybe he didn't mean it that way.
