Are you falling in love for the first time? Are you so shy and don't know what to do or say when you meet your boyfriend that he breaks up because you're not able to express yourself? Now, forget the hurt because soon you will understand what to do and say to your lover.
Step
Part 1 of 2: Being an Open Person
Step 1. Be open to your lover
Don't be afraid to talk to him. Invite him to have a conversation like you are chatting with a best friend because he should be a close friend! In addition to being a lover, he should also be good friends with you.
Step 2. Tell me everything
To get him to know you better, share your dreams, hopes, and things that you enjoy. Also tell us about your friends, study activities, and what you want to buy at the mall on Friday. He will listen to you talk so he can understand his girlfriend's thoughts, but never lie!
Step 3. Listen to what he has to say
Listen and respond when he speaks. Otherwise, he'll think you're ignoring him or just being selfish.
Don't keep talking about yourself. Ask him what he likes. Also ask about their dreams and hopes
Step 4. Be honest with him
If there's something you don't like about him, just say it! Don't lie just to please her. Men like partners who dare to state their own opinion.
Part 2 of 2: Spend Time Together
Step 1. Make time for yourself and yourself
Men don't like partners who want to be alone together. He certainly feels happy if you have a partner who misses him so much, but that doesn't mean you can have fun. Give it some leeway because he too has a private life. For men, women who are considered attractive are independent. You can text them when you're not with them, but don't complain.
Step 2. Have fun together
Do fun things together. Although you need to make an agreement to do activities that your partner enjoys, find common interests so you can both do things at the same time.
Step 3. Establish a pleasant relationship
Don't do and say the same things every day so he doesn't get bored. Let him get to know you better by telling him things he doesn't know about you.
Step 4. Do useful activities together
When on the move, show a willingness to provide support and attention to him.
Step 5. Have a chat with him and don't ignore him
Even if the two of you are with someone else, show that you like him in the same manner as when you were alone with him.
Step 6. Be humorous
Invite him to laugh, joke, and occasionally flirt with each other. Men like women who have a sense of humor.
Step 7. Make him feel good
Men like to be around people who make them like themselves. Give compliments so that he feels confident and makes him feel that he is already the best lover for you. He will trust you because you want to give him the best support.
Step 8. Invite him over to your house to meet your parents
Ask him to come over for dinner or a movie together so the whole family gets to know him. This way shows your sincerity to be his lover and accept him in the midst of your family.
Tips
- Be honest with yourself. If a guy asks you out, there's something in you that makes him want to get to know you better. First of all, show him who you are on the best side, but as the relationship progresses, don't be afraid to expose your flaws so he can get to know you from all angles.
- Don't talk too much. Pay attention to his signals if he seems to want you to stop talking. Save your story for another time.
- Cultivate confidence so that you have one of the most attractive aspects of your personality. Do not worry. You already have a boyfriend as a good thing because he likes you in terms of looks and personality.
- Be yourself. Acting like someone you're not will hurt both of you.
- Don't show him a completely different attitude. Be what you are! He chose you to be his girlfriend because he likes your personality. Do not change!
