You really admire the cute girl in your school. He is kind, polite, helpful, and liked by almost everyone. You'd love to be like him, but aren't sure how to start. Luckily there are many ways to show your sweetness: by being kind and understanding, having good manners, avoiding bad behavior, and not being mean. This article will give you some tips and suggestions for developing a sweetness that inspires you.
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Part 1 of 3: Behave Sweet
Step 1. Be understanding of others
One way to be sweet is to be understanding towards others. You can do this by showing interest in other people's lives, or by doing something nice for them. As an example:
- Instead of talking about yourself, you can ask your friends how they are. This will show that you are interested in the situation. If your friend suggests that he had a bad day, you can show your sweetness by buying him ice cream.
- Today is your friend's birthday. Unfortunately, his birthday falls on the weekend of the final exam and is finally forgotten by the other friends because they are struggling to complete their assignments and study. You can surprise your friend's birthday by bringing cupcakes or balloons to school.
Step 2. Be a caring person
One way to be a sweet person is to be a loving person who can be shown by showing concern for others. For example, if you notice that someone looks sad, ask what happened and offer to help. This will show that you care, even if he doesn't need help.
Step 3. Be polite
Being sweet is being polite and courteous, even in front of people you don't like. That means, you have to say “please”, “thank you”, and “excuse me”. For example:
- If someone compliments you, smile and say “thank you!”
- If you're eating in the cafeteria and the salt stand is too far away, don't put your hand in front of someone's face to pick it up. Instead, say: "Could you please get some salt?"
- If you're in a hurry and need to get through a crowd of people quickly, try not to rush through. Instead, say "excuse me" and ask for space to pass through the crowd.
Step 4. Be a philanthropist
That doesn't mean you have to donate all your clothes and give them to people who can't afford it. You have to be generous to some extent, but don't give so much that other people take advantage of you. As an example:
- Your friend forgot to bring lunch to school, and he doesn't have money to buy food from the canteen. You can offer your friend some of your lunch, or borrow money so he can buy food at the cafeteria.
- If the boy sitting next to you forgets to bring a pen or pencil, offer up your stationery.
- If you suspect someone is taking advantage of your generosity, it's best to talk to them directly, as long as you do so in a gentle and non-accusatory manner. For example, if your friend borrows your pocket money every day, you could say, “Okay, I want to help you one last time, but I can't help you every day. How about tomorrow you bring your own lunch from home?”
Step 5. Consider complimenting others
Complimenting other people will not only boost a person's confidence and make them feel better, but it will also make you look nice and sweet. For example:
- If your friend cuts her hair, tell her that she looks cute. He may feel insecure or unsure about changes in his appearance. Your compliments can give him a much-needed confidence boost.
- The guy sitting next to you in class is always drawing. Instead of just telling them the picture looks good, mention certain details, such as hair or eyes. You can say: “Wow, you're really good at drawing! I really like the way you draw eyes!”
- However, don't over-praise; You will look scary, annoying, or two-faced. Make sure your compliment is genuine from the heart (or at least looks like it).
Step 6. Help others
A sweet person is someone who is always the first to offer help, even if it isn't needed. There are many ways to help others, and some of them are small things that don't take much effort, like opening a door. You can show your sweetness by offering to help in many situations, such as:
- A new girl dropped all her books. Instead of just walking past him or laughing at him (which cute people never do), go over to him and help him retrieve his books.
- A man helps organize school donations and he carries more than he can afford. He was carrying too much stuff, and all the boxes fell apart. Approach and offer to help carry some boxes.
- An old man sitting in a wheelchair was about to leave a cafe but the door was closed. You can show how cute you are by holding the doorknob for him. Don't forget to smile and say "you're welcome" when he says thank you.
Step 7. Use a soft voice
Sweetness is associated with gentleness, so try to use a softer voice when speaking. This doesn't mean you have to whisper or use a high-pitched voice. Just soften your voice to a low, soft level. This will help make you sound good.
Part 2 of 3: Avoiding Bad Attitude
Step 1. Don't swear
One way to be nice is to develop a good attitude, and stay away from bad attitudes, such as swearing. If you're angry or upset (or stepping on something), bite your tongue and try not to swear or speak harshly.
If you absolutely must swear, stay away from vulgar words, and say, "antique" or "gosh" instead
Step 2. Don't insult, gossip, or be a bully
Sweet people are good people, and good people generally like everyone-or at least act that way. Try to stay away from insulting behavior or gossip about other people, and don't be a bully to anyone. This attitude is not only negative, but shows that you can think not so well about them. Therefore, it makes other people who hear you think what you think of “them”.
Step 3. Don't react to bullies or swearing
Instead, ignore the bully or pretend you didn't hear the cursing and criticism. Bullies want attention, and you can give it for free by reacting.
Step 4. Don't slouch, fold your arms across your chest, or put your hands in your pants pockets. One way to be sweet and kind is to be approachable
You can do this by maintaining good posture-that is, your back should be straight, your head up, and your shoulders slightly back (but don't overdo it and make you uncomfortable. Slouching, folding your arms, and putting your hands in your pants pockets) will make you appear disinterested, antisocial, or resentful, neither of which is particularly sweet.
Step 5. Don't share in the world of drugs and self-destructive acts
Drugs not only harm the body, but the destruction of property will put you in trouble with the authorities. Sweet people are people who are well behaved, and don't often get into trouble. Avoid destroying property and property (whether in private homes or public places), and do not use drugs. Some types of illegal drugs, such as hallucinogens, can cause you to do something harmful, while other types of drugs can damage your health permanently.
Part 3 of 3: Looking cute
Step 1. Consider changing your appearance
Everyone can be cute no matter how they look or look, but certain styles and features tend to be associated more with specific personality types. These changes can range from a gentle smile to something as complex as a makeover, including a new hairstyle, new makeup, and new clothes.
Step 2. Dress modestly
Sweetness is usually associated with youth, so don't wear something too revealing or "sexy". Choose clothes that are simple and modest.
- If you're a girl, consider wearing: a top with a sweetheart neckline and a knee-length skirt, a blouse and jeans, or a dress with a summer vibe. Don't wear clothes that reveal too much cleavage or the umbilical cord. You can still look feminine, but make sure you always dress modestly.
- If you're a man, consider wearing: trousers and a button-down shirt, or a simple t-shirt and jeans. Don't wear anything else that doesn't match your design or slogan, shirts that show muscle tone, or clothes that are larger in size. Show a good and simple appearance.
Step 3. Don't wear anything that has thorns
Everyone can be cute, regardless of how they dress, but some forms of ornamentation are associated with rudeness. Wearing a lot of thorn ornaments will make you look tough and intimidating, making you look unapproachable.
Step 4. Consider wearing light colored clothes
Light colors such as pastels, pinks, lilacs, light blues and whites, have always been associated with subtlety, clarity, innocence and softness. Wearing these colors will make you look like you have these qualities.
Step 5. Apply a little makeup if needed
Sweetness is associated with youth, which can be achieved by wearing a little makeup. Consider wearing a light-colored eyeshadow, mascara, and a light-colored lipstick or lip gloss. Try to make your makeup look simple and plain, so stay away from dark and glamorous lifestyles, such as applying dark eye shadow and dark red lipstick.
Consider applying makeup that makes your eyes look bigger. Borrowing a big-eyed and innocent look has always been associated with youth life and innocence
Step 6. Keep your body clean
Sweet people are usually youthful, and youth is associated with good health. You can look healthier by taking care of yourself. This means showering every day, washing your face and brushing your teeth every day, and combing your hair. If you sweat or have a bad body odor, consider using deodorant.
Step 7. Maintain a neat appearance
Always looking presentable will show that you take care of yourself, thus making others have a positive impression of you. You can look presentable and cool by taking care of yourself, your clothes, and your belongings. This means that you have to comb your hair, fix any rips and holes in your clothes, and wash your clothes if they get dirt. It also means that you take care of your personal belongings by keeping them clean and not damaging them. As an example:
- You can protect your textbooks by covering them with paper, and storing them carefully so that the edges don't crease.
- You can make a pencil look cool by not biting it, and sharpening a pencil when it gets boring.
Step 8. Smile often
A smile not only makes you look better, it also makes you look happier and makes you more approachable.
Tips
- If someone is being mean to you, try not to display aggressive behavior. You can stand up, but not attack him.
- Eat something sweet! Research shows that eating certain sweets can help a person have good behavior.
- Smile. Smiling can make you look happier and better.
- Understand what the other person is feeling to make you more sympathetic.
