For tall people. Hugging another person of short stature is always a challenge. When hugging a woman of short stature, it is easy for tall people to feel awkward or embarrassed. Luckily, here are some pointers and tips to prevent awkward hugs.
Step
Part 1 of 3: One Hand Hugging
Step 1. Approach the girl from the side you want to hug
This is almost always determined by the way you stand. Chances are you two have positioned yourself with each other so you can simply choose the side that you hug. Step up to the woman who will be hugged to initiate the hug.
- As you approach, extend the arm you want to hug (the arm closest to him) out to your side. Begin to position yourself horizontally in anticipation of a hug.
- Wait until your sides are touching before embracing the woman you are hugging; keep your arms at your sides.
- One of the big advantages of a side hug is that it avoids a woman's head being pushed directly into her waist or below, which can be embarrassing for both of you. While a side hug reduces this problem, you should still consider slouching if the woman is still at your waist or below.
Step 2. Tighten your arms when they are on his shoulders
Once you're both closer and closer, position your arms around him so your palms rest on his shoulder that's away from you. Make sure not to put your arms or hands around his neck.
- Keep your arm over his. Your arms will get tangled if your arms are crossed.
- If you're slouching, it's a good idea to bend your knees when you hug. Slouching at the pelvis will make it difficult for women to wrap their arms around you.
- No matter the difference in your height, your arms and hands should only rest in the middle of his waist and shoulders. You shouldn't touch his chest or neck/head so he doesn't feel awkward and uncomfortable.
Step 3. Enjoy your moment and let go
One thing that is always a concern for two hugging people is knowing how long the hug should last, which is usually determined by how close your relationship is. Generally, a regular hug should not last longer than 3 seconds for someone who is not a lover.
As a tall person, do not rush to escape from the hug to prevent an awkward collision. First, relax your arm and move it away from the body. Let him get back on his feet before you do the same
Part 2 of 3: Doing the Two Arm Front Hug
Step 1. Approach the woman being hugged
Since this method is done by approaching the woman from the front, it will be easier to measure the ratio of her height to your body. Especially with the front hug, it's a good idea to make sure the head isn't in your pelvis or below.
For a forward-facing hug, it's a good idea to bend down so your head doesn't hit your shoulder, or at least your lower chest
Step 2. Bend your pelvis and extend your arms in front of you
As mentioned earlier, bend down so that your chest is at head height. Extend your arms forward and let him come into your arms. This way, he can put his head where he wants, such as against your chest or the crook of your neck.
- Fold your arms across your upper back like a normal hug. Don't wrap it around the neck.
- Keep your head facing forward. Don't turn your head so you don't hit his head or breathe in his face when he approaches.
Step 3. Stay bent during the hug
Many people make the mistake of thinking that they should bend down first and put their arms around them, and then relax their posture. It's a good idea to stay hunched over for a while. If you straighten your back, the hug movement will feel awkward.
Step 4. Release after a few seconds
Again, the length of the hug depends on your relationship. When you are facing each other while hugging, you should be the first to let go of the hug because you are taller. You're more or less locking up the woman you're hugging so you open your arms, straighten your body, and step back when you release the hug.
Part 3 of 3: Preventing Disasters
Step 1. Try not to make it awkward
You don't have to apologize for being tall, and she doesn't have to feel guilty about being short. Don't say "Gee, looks like I need to bend down" or "Sorry, I'm too short." Two people who hug each other will always notice the difference in height of each other.
However, there's always room for witty honesty in moments like these. You can be blunt and say "okay, how about we try it like this?"
Step 2. Try not to just stand there
Many men are too confused about this situation and feel better if the woman takes the initiative and chooses a position and puts her arms where she likes. However, this is not fair to the person you are hugging. Be sure to be proactive in initiating the hug.
- As suggested, you should bend over when hugging from the front or extend your arms when hugging from the side.
- It's okay to let the shorter woman position her body, but you have to welcome her halfway by adjusting your own body position.
Step 3. Try not to touch the neck or head of the person being hugged
Whether for a side or front hug, your arms will most likely be at the head of the person being hugged. Usually, two people of the same height hugging each other stick their arms out in front of you, so your instincts might do the same. As you imagine, hugs will not feel comfortable if your heads are pinched together.
Step 4. Try not to pick him up unless asked
Don't assume just because a girl is short enough she'll love being lifted into the air (even if she's your boyfriend). Some people regard this as a joke and a joke to bring out your height differences. However, the person being hugged may feel uncomfortable and become a bad experience for him
