Honesty and Dare is a fun game to play with friends, especially at sleepovers or other occasions where siblings, parents, or pets aren't likely to be disturbed. Before you get started, keep in mind that some things may feel weird or uncomfortable, but often they make things even more enjoyable. Make sure everyone playing agrees to the rules of the game before you start. After that, start playing honest dare!
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Method 1 of 3: Preparing for the Game
Step 1. Determine the players
This game requires at least three players, but usually the game will get longer if there are 7 or 8 players. Bring friends who can enjoy the weird and outrageous game. Plus, now you too can play honest and brave with your friends through the app (check the quotes), but it might not be as exciting as when you played it live.
Step 2. Make sure everyone is comfortable with the game before the game starts
Explain the course of the game and the things that will be done. Tell each player that they can refuse to join. For those who still want to join, gather with them and form a circle. To make it easier to organize your gathering, you can sit on the floor or sit around a table. Make sure you also feel comfortable in your position.
Step 3. Agree on the rules of the game
Write down the existing rules so that you can easily refer back to the rules if questions are asked. One of the most popular rules is that players can only choose the same selection twice in a row. For example, if a player chooses "honest" twice in a row, on the next turn he must choose "dare". Having a main rule (eg what you should and shouldn't do) is an important thing to remember from the start so that you and your friends don't have to discuss them during the game.
- What are the limitations for the questions asked (if any)?
- Where should the “bold” choice be made?
- Do other players have to look at the player who chooses “bold” when he does his challenge?
- Can the “bold” choice involve people who don't follow the game?
- What "bold" choices can be made when there are adults?
- What limits need to be set on “bold” choices?
- Does the player get a turn following the direction of the circle or is the turn determined by spinning the bottle so that the player who has to answer the question (honest) or do the challenge (dare) is chosen at random?
Method 2 of 3: Thinking Up Questions and Challenges
Step 1. Make a list of questions
Everyone has to do it individually so that everyone has an idea when the game progresses. Sometimes, it's hard for you to think of a good question or challenge in the middle of a game. Some “honesty” questions that you can ask include:
- What was your most embarrassing experience at school?
- Who is your crush?
- If you only had 24 hours to live, what would you do?
- What's the most disgusting thing you've ever done?
- If you had to choose between your mother or father, who would you choose?
Step 2. Think of interesting challenges
Make sure the challenges are weird enough for other players to pause before doing them, but don't let them pose a dangerous challenge. Some of the fun challenge ideas include:
- Greet everyone you meet with the words “I see you. Be careful because the aliens are watching you.”
- Using markers as a "makeup" product for the face.
- Put your hand in another player's pocket and let it sit for 15 minutes no matter what.
- Howl at the moon for 10 minutes in the front yard.
Step 3. If you're having trouble, work with other players to formulate questions
If the game is going on and you don't want to ask your question, you can ask other players for help to ask the question. You can work with other players to think up a question or challenge, but make sure you ask permission from the player who gets a turn to work together on the question or challenge with other players. Remember that you are the one providing the challenge, not the other players.
Method 3 of 3: Playing the Game
Step 1. Determine the player who gets the first turn
If a turn is given in order of sitting in a circle, follow the following mechanism: the first player gives a choice (“honest” or “dare”) to the player next to him (the second player). Or, you can ask the first player to make a choice, then he has to spin the bottle in the middle of the circle. The player designated by the end of the bottle (the second player) must make a choice, either answering the question honestly or taking on the challenge. The sentences that every player needs to say is something like this:
- Player 1: “Honest or brave?”
- Player 2: “Honestly.”
- Player 1: “When was the last time you ate your own snot?”
- Player 2: “Hmm… Tuesday of last week.”
- OR
- Player 1: “Honest or brave?”
- Player 2: “Dare.”
- Player 1: “Okay. Eat a spoonful of chili sauce in less than 30 seconds.”
- Player 2: “Ouch. Hmm…. Okay."
Step 2. Move on to the next player
The next player must answer a question or perform a challenge. He must give a choice to the person next to him, or spin the bottle to determine the next player. Make choices like the previous players. Continue playing until all players can't play anymore (or at least, until all players are bored).
Step 3. Make sure the challenges are not excessive
Don't do anything that is illegal or threatens anyone's safety. If there are players who do not want to do the given challenge, each player must think of a new challenge. The player then chooses one of the new challenges. When looking for a new challenge, think about your new challenge wisely because sometimes, the new challenges given are even worse than the previous challenges. Remember that you don't have to do a challenge if you feel it's too much or exceeds the limits set in the group.
Tips
- If a player doesn't want to do something, trust him. Don't assume that he's too afraid to share something.
- Be careful with the questions asked. While this is a game of honesty and courage, what you say or do can affect how other people feel about you.
- Keep in mind that just because you dare to take on a challenge, other people CAN reject the challenge that is given to them, especially if the challenge makes them feel uncomfortable. For example, you might challenge others to kiss your feet. Don't make other people feel bad for not being able to do it.
- You can refuse when given a challenge. Whether the challenge makes you uncomfortable, dangerous, or could get you into trouble, you have the right to refuse. Stick to your decisions, even when others force you.
