Everyone has a role in life. And, what is your role? Will this role be remembered even after you are gone? A legend is someone who leaves an impression that cannot be forgotten by others. They influence the lives of others, they are always remembered, and what they do is greatly appreciated. We can find many legends in this world, some are popular and some are not. To become a legend, you have to find a certain role, your calling, live it and make an impact on the people around you.
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Part 1 of 3: Finding the Call of the Heart
Step 1. Know what your talents are
People remember legends because of what they did and the impact it had on life. What can you do? What are your skills? Try to find what your heart calls you, your “expertise”. Pay close attention to your natural talents.
- There are all kinds of legends. Can you make other people laugh? Maybe comedy is your calling. Are you good at playing ball? Maybe your future is in sports.
- Don't limit your definition of legend to famous people. Teachers, doctors, religious leaders, volunteers, and more can also influence the lives of others.
- Try to make a list. Think carefully and write down your skills, as well as personal qualities. For example, you may be good at math or languages, but also patient or able to handle stressful situations.
Step 2. Consider your values
To be a legend, you have to have a calling, something you did and will always remember and not the same as someone else did. Something you do because it brings happiness and satisfaction. If you want to know what your calling is, also take into account your values in life.
- Values define us and determine our decisions. You may place more value on creativity than making money, for example. You may value competition. Or, you may feel the need to participate in shaping society.
- Legends usually uphold something. Mother Theresa dedicated her life to the poor. Competition became the highest value for Michael Jordan and made him a great basketball player. You may also idolize a personal legend who respects certain values.
- Think of two people you respect. Why do you admire them? What qualities do they have and would you like to have too? The answers to these questions will reflect your values.
- You may need to write them down like you would write down your talents. Do you see the link between the two lists?
Step 3. Look for similarities between talents and values
Calls are not the same as work. A calling is something you do in your spare time or for free. Sometimes you may feel bored, but a call will motivate you. The key is to find skills that are backed by both your talents and your values.
- Some people say that “following your passion” is bad advice. It's true that your calls may not bring in a lot of money or be stressful. However, if you want to become a legend, you will see the purpose itself in a true calling.
- Legends are usually not “weekend knights”. We don't remember people who live their passions as mere hobbies. We remember those who dedicated themselves to a cause and made sacrifices for their true calling.
Part 2 of 3: Following the Call of the Heart
Step 1. Accept your expertise
Becoming a legend is about finding your calling and making an impact on the lives of others. You may be surprised at what you will achieve. Your expertise may be in a profession or occupation, or it may be a role you perform at home as a mother, father, brother/sister, or child. Please accept. Legends strive to be the best in their chosen field.
- Do you want to make a change in this world? Are you patient and able to deal with stress? Maybe your place is in the medical or mental health field. Maybe you can change the world by becoming a war correspondent or volunteer at a charity.
- Some people have a talent for guiding others. Your calling may be as a counselor or social worker.
- Maybe you decide to pursue wealth and fame. Does not matter. Make sure you have lofty goals, whether as an athlete, investment banker, hedge-fund manager.
- Know that the nanny is also a legend. Be it father, mother, grandparents, aunts, uncles – all doing what they are good at.
Step 2. Imitate others
Choose a role model to follow. You can choose people you admire, such as a competent surgeon or your favorite professor. Or, you can emulate certain traits, such as the generosity of religious figures in your area or the sacrifices of your father. Having a role model will help you adapt to your chosen role and grow as an individual.
- Legends are also inspired by others. For example, Steve Jobs idolized inventors such as Thomas Edison and Henry Ford. Tennis star Eugenie Bouchard follows the role of another legend, Maria Sharapova.
- Cultivate a desire to learn and grow. Legends are not always humble, but they are willing to grow and get better in their field. Be open to others. Learn from them, imitate their strengths, and finally, seek to surpass them.
Step 3. Develop a positive outlook
Have you ever heard of a legend that has a pessimistic nature? No! They became legends because they believed in their calling and never gave up, no matter what difficulties they faced. Can you imagine a social justice hero losing hope for the future? Can you imagine a great athlete doubting his ability to win a big game?
- Legends fill our hearts with hope. Whether they're your childhood sports hero, great scientist, or spiritual mentor, you idolize them with admiration and inspiration.
- Develop an “I can” attitude. Focus on the things you can control and try not to worry about what is beyond your control. Don't forget to act. The more often you take the initiative, the more control you have in life.
- Try to be flexible. Think of failure as an opportunity - an opportunity to learn, grow and get better at your craft. The most successful people (and legends) also fail.
Part 3 of 3: Benefiting More People
Step 1. Ignore what other people think
One of the factors to realize the goal of becoming a legend lies in the mind. Legends are confident, calm, and have an “I don't care what you think” attitude. It doesn't mean they are selfish or arrogant. This attitude shows that they have faith in their calling.
- Don't worry about what people think of your calling or expertise. Does your family find your desire to work as a Doctor across India Borders odd? Which is more important, their opinion or going to India to help people?
- Remember that some of the greatest legends of all time did things that went against societal standards. Many people reject Albert Einstein's ideas about space and time. Meanwhile, Buddha left all his wealth and possessions in search of enlightenment.
Step 2. Start living for others
Try to put other people's interests first in your life. Be generous, considerate, and live your calling for them. The more you impact the lives of others, the more likely they will remember you and become a legend.
- For example, if you are a doctor, benefit others by dedicating yourself to work and empathizing with patients.
- You can become a legendary lawyer by being a court-appointed lawyer and representing the underprivileged.
- Teachers will earn legendary honors by putting their time and effort into ensuring students' learning and personal growth.
- You can even do this at home. Whether you read a book to a sibling, work hard to provide for your family, or care for an elderly family member, you dedicate yourself to others and will be remembered.
Step 3. Return the favor and provide selfless help
Whatever your heart calls, do it selflessly. Share your talents, advice, time or knowledge. People are more likely to remember you because you have a positive impact on other people's lives.
- Show up on free stand-up shows if you're a comedian to bring joy to the crowd. Do a charity concert if you are a musician. If you are a scientist, give a public lecture about your work.
- Do you have any spiritual skills? Open yourself up to helping those who ask for directions.
- If you decide to pursue fame and fortune, become a philanthropist. Make a donation to charity and return the benefits to the community that raised you.
- Also consider the possibility of being a mentor. By becoming a mentor, you have more opportunities to give your time and knowledge. This method will allow you to transfer your calls, and may inspire a new generation.
