A feminine girl is someone who accepts and embraces her feminine side with all her heart, without sacrificing her personality or strength. He cares about his demeanor, style and appearance, but is never selfish and rude, and is always himself. Other girls will admire and reflect on him, and want to be friends with him. Being a girly girl is a personal choice, and no one has the right to force you to behave in a way that makes you uncomfortable. However, if this is the attitude and appearance that you want to show, all you need is to cultivate the right attitude and appearance to be a girly girl.
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Method 1 of 4: Taking Care of Your Appearance
Step 1. Take a shower every day
Feminine girl takes good care of her body hygiene. Make sure you shower every day and clean your body thoroughly with soap and water. If you want to look more feminine, try buying shampoo, conditioner, and soap products with a charming fragrance.
Step 2. Apply moisturizer or lotion to the skin
One of the big aspects of being feminine is having soft skin. You need to use a moisturizer or lotion on your face and body every day, even if you have oily skin. Keep in mind that moisturizer can prevent the skin from producing its own oil. You can use different types of moisturizer, but check the label first to see if the product is best suited for your skin type.
Even if you have acne-prone skin, you can still be a feminine girl! Try drinking lots of water and using benzoyl peroxide products on pimples. If you're still having trouble getting rid of pimples, that's fine. After all, there are many people who have acne-prone skin
Step 3. Make sure your fingernails are neat
You don't have to apply a new color of nail polish every day, but make sure your nails are clean and tidy at all times. Trim and file your nails to make them look neat, clean the insides, and check daily to see if your nail polish is peeling off.
- If you like changing the color of your nail polish, try matching the color of your nail polish to the color of your clothes.
- If you don't want to keep applying new nail polish, try using a clear nail polish. This paint gives your nails a neat and feminine look, without worrying about the appearance of your nails.
Step 4. Comb and style your hair every day
Make sure your hair is always combed and styled every day. Also make sure that there are no tangled or knotted parts of the hair, and that the hair is neat and clean. Develop a special hairstyle that fits and can be your signature, and keep your hair neat every day.
- You may need to wash your hair every day, depending on your hair type. If your hair looks oily and lacks luster, you need to wash your hair every day.
- You don't need to choose a complicated hairdo. You can style your signature hair in a simple way, like parting it to the side or wearing a beret! Apart from that, you can also make simple braids, ponytails, and coils.
- If you're not sure which hairstyle is right for you, ask a friend for advice or visit a beauty salon.
Step 5. Use deodorant and perfume
Having a nice body is an important part of being a feminine girl! Make sure you use deodorant every day. You can also use perfume. Many feminine women have a distinctive perfume or fragrance that is worn every day. If you don't usually use perfume, try perfumes with floral or fruity scents first.
- Don't use deodorant or perfume in place of your daily shower. Other people can tell the difference.
- Use as little perfume as possible, and only spray perfume on pulse points, such as wrists and neck. Make sure the perfume you use only produces a subtle scent that only other people will notice when they are near you, not a strong smell that will immediately permeate your surroundings.
Step 6. Keep your teeth clean
Feminine girl as much as possible to keep her teeth clean. Brush and floss between your teeth every day, and make sure you use mouthwash or suck on mints to keep your breath fresh. Bring dental floss if you go and use it after a meal or snack.
It doesn't matter if your teeth are crooked or you're wearing braces. Just make sure your teeth stay clean
Step 7. Wear light makeup
Try wearing light makeup for a feminine look. Light makeup makes you look more feminine, and easier to apply than fuller/heavy makeup. Keep practicing makeup until your makeup looks natural and easy to use.
- For starters, try using lip gloss and mascara instead.
- Use eye shadows and cheek shadows with bright, neutral colors, such as pink or beige (ivory).
- If you want to wear foundation, visit a makeup product outlet first to make sure the foundation product you want to use matches your skin tone.
- You can also wear heavy makeup! Make sure you've practiced wearing them and adjusting your makeup beforehand.
Method 2 of 4: Dress Like a Feminine Girl
Step 1. Make sure your clothes are clean and tidy
A feminine girl will not travel in dirty and wrinkled clothes. Make sure your clothes are always washed and don't wear stained clothes, even if they have been washed. Iron your clothes before you put them on.
- Remember to read the instructions on the back of the clothing label. Some clothes cannot be ironed or can only be ironed on a low heat.
- If you don't want to iron, hang up your clothes as soon as you dry them. You can also dry it using a tumble dryer in a permanent press cycle.
- If there are clothes that have stubborn stains, don't throw them away! Save clothes to wear at home or when doing work that might damage regular clothes.
Step 2. Buy clothes that fit your body
Don't buy clothes that are too tight or loose. No clothing should be too tight and tight, stick out your underwear, or be difficult to remove. The clothes you wear should also not hang loose (or must always be corrected throughout the day because they are too loose). Try wearing your favorite clothes to make sure they fit your body. If not, you should not wear it again.
Step 3. Buy clothes that are feminine
You don't have to wear a pink ball gown every day to be a girly girl, but you can look more feminine by wearing feminine clothes every time you go out. Dresses and skirts can be great choices, but you can also wear pants (which have been measured/sewn just for you), capri pants, shorts, and jumpsuits. Try wearing button-down blouses and shirts instead of T-shirts.
- Pinks, purples, and pastels are usually considered feminine colors, but if you don't like them, any color can be feminine if you try the right style (and the outfit fits you).
- You don't have to follow trends or wear the kind of clothes that many other people wear, as long as you dress neatly and femininely.
Step 4. Wear feminine shoes
Avoid sneakers and flip-flops if you want to look feminine. High heels and wedges can make you look feminine, but if you don't want to wear high heels, try a pair of flat heels (eg ballet style shoes). Make sure your shoes are clean and there are no rips or scuffs!
If you want to wear high heels, but don't know how to walk while wearing them, try stepping on your heels first, then your toes. Practice diligently before you go outside in high heels
Step 5. Carry a handbag
Feminine girls usually carry a lot of things. If you are not used to carrying a handbag, start carrying it now. You don't have to carry an expensive designer handbag. Choose a handbag in the color or style you want, as long as the bag has a good appearance and can store all your belongings.
Try buying a handbag in a neutral color, such as black or brown/tan. The bag will look better with your outfit
Method 3 of 4: Creating a Feminine Feel
Step 1. Choose soft and light colors to decorate your room
Bedrooms, lockers, classrooms, or other private spaces can show your feminine side. Choose light and soft colors, such as pink, mauve, light blue, or yellow to decorate your personal space. You can also buy furniture, paint the walls, or get creative with accessories like decorative ribbons, posters, and stickers to make your room feel feminine.
Step 2. Keep your things neat and organized
Feminine girls don't carry piles of paper and, as a rule, tidy them up in a notebook (or binder). They also don't just leave leftovers in their rooms. Start practicing cleaning the room/environment around you every day and returning things to their original place. Organize and label your school supplies.
This can be a great opportunity to buy more feminine organizing accessories, such as binders, boxes, and containers, to show your feminine side
Step 3. Buy a makeup mirror
You need space to check your make-up, practice new hairstyles, and make sure your outfit fits perfectly. Buy a large mirror to fit in your bedroom and a smaller mirror to fit in your locker (or carry in your handbag). In fact, you can also buy a set of dressing table if you can afford it.
Step 4. Show your creative side
Feminine girls are not afraid to be creative. Decorate your personal space with adorable pictures, notes to friends, and crafts. Buy drawing pens/markers in bright colors and draw decorations on your photos and posters. You can also learn crafts, such as scrapbooking or sewing, which you can later do to decorate your room.
Method 4 of 4: Act Like a Feminine Girl
Step 1. Walk and sit gracefully
The feminine girl doesn't run anywhere or “jump” to/from her seat. Practice walking and sitting gracefully. When walking, walk carefully and confidently. Take small steps and lift your head. When sitting, sit with your back straight and your arms at your sides or above your thighs. You don't have to cross your legs or ankles, but these gestures can add a feminine touch to your demeanor.
Step 2. Be friendly and polite to everyone
Be kind to everyone you meet. Look the other person in the eye, introduce yourself if you don't know him, and greet him by name. Ask how he's doing, and if you can help him, offer to help.
- With that attitude, it doesn't mean you can let other people treat you badly. If you have to ask someone to stop being mean or leave you, tell them clearly and firmly.
- Do not swear or use harsh/vulgar words. Besides being rude, you can't be feminine if you use words like that.
Step 3. Show interest in romantic relationships
Girls who are feminine usually show an interest in romance, but this doesn't necessarily mean that you should start dating or doing things you don't feel comfortable with. Try reading romance books, watching romantic movies, or chatting with your friends about your crush.
Some women enjoy reading wedding-themed magazines, even though they are not/not planning to get married yet. This can be an interesting way to show your romantic side and stay up to date with trends
Step 4. Follow the trend
You don't have to follow all the trends, but most girly girls know what's popular, even if they don't really follow the trends. You have to know what kind of clothes are trending, what music is being loved, or the movies/shows that are being watched a lot. By knowing these things, at least you have something to chat with your friends.
Step 5. Spend time with other women
It's okay if you have male friends, but make sure you also have a “main” group of female friends that you often hang out with and chat about girly things with. If you don't have any close female friends, start making friends by complimenting one of your classmates on her outfit or makeup. This can be a great way to start a friendship!
Step 6. Demonstrate good table etiquette
Eating neatly and etiquette/good manners of eating are important parts of behaving like a graceful and feminine woman. When eating, don't chew with your mouth open, prop your elbows on the table, or devour food greedily. Learn to enjoy small amounts of food, put your hands on your lap when you're not eating, or chew and swallow food neatly and without rushing.
Step 7. Try hard at school
Playing stupid in order to be a feminine girl figure is a wrong assumption. A feminine girl is someone who scores high in class and cares about her education. Show attention during class, study hard, and try to get good grades in all subjects/courses.
