Getting a Sagittarius love is a very challenging endeavor. Those born between November 22 and December 21 all have very attractive and unpredictable personalities. If you want a Sagittarius, here are some steps you can follow to date this adventurous, lucky and optimistic sign based on their astrological characteristics.
Part 1 of 3: Understanding Sagittarius
Step 1. Realize that he needs to feel free
Sagittarius people love to explore, explore, learn, and seek adventure. This part of her personality won't be lost in a love affair! If he feels constrained in the relationship, he'll run away faster before you even know what's going on. This personality is by no means bad as long as you can accept it comfortably!
Some people won't be happy with a lover they can't stick with anywhere. If you're like this, it might be better if you date another zodiac sign. This is a factor that a classic Sagittarius won't be able to adjust
Step 2. Know that he gets bored easily
If you're attracted to a Sagittarius, you've probably noticed that he's not one to fit into a monotonous routine. This applies from food to hobbies to other people. That's not to say he's a cheater, but he's usually not one to get involved in a serious relationship. He loves to chase! However, a relationship with him is far from boring-if your relationship is multidimensional, Sagittarius will still be happy.
Getting a Sagittarius to bond with you completely and openly can be difficult. He generally doesn't show his feelings openly. But if the two of you are a perfect match, he'll know. You'll know too-he'll stay with you for a long time
Step 3. Understand the directness
Some of the more sensitive signs of the zodiac may see the tendency to tell things the way they are as rude and unwise. Sagittarius doesn't mean it that way. He just didn't see the point of not being open and honest.
He's not evil. These were just individual character traits that he needed to express. So next time he says that your perfume or cologne is too strong, don't take it personally. He just spoke what was on his mind; After saying that, he will discuss something else. It's not a problem for him, so don't make it a problem for you
Step 4. Know that she enjoys being in nature
By nature, Sagittarius loves the outdoors. If this is part of your personality too, great! You two can explore the beautiful world together. Take him out and he'll feel like he's in his own element.
Step 5. Come to terms with his lack of emotion
Sagittarius people are usually considered a bit stiff and emotionless. It's not that he doesn't have emotions, he just isn't interested in expressing them. He prefers to remain optimistic and passionate about life-getting caught in worry or fear is not the way; he didn't see the point of wasting energy. Let's be honest, we can all learn a bit from Sagittarius!
This can be very, very scary, especially if you fall in love with him. You desperately want to express your inner turmoil, while all you get in return are blank stares. No offense. If he doesn't care about you, he won't be with you
Part 2 of 3: Attracting Sagittarius
Step 1. Be a little elusive and mysterious
Sagittarius loves the chase. If you can maintain this pursuit even after he has won your heart, he will be yours forever. Don't be a completely open book. Let him unpack it little by little. He liked it.
That's not to say you shouldn't text him back and be deliberately vague; it's actually really annoying. But move at your own pace. Make sure you have a part of life that belongs only to you. People who have their own lives seem very sexy to the traditional Sagittarius
Step 2. Move slowly
You run the risk of losing your ideal Sagittarius if it directly involves feelings, flowers and chocolate. There is no more exploration and adventure in the relationship when it reaches this stage. So take it slow. Don't open yourself up completely on the third date. Explore every inch of each other's personality and body little by little. The fire will burn longer if the wax does not melt quickly.
Sagittarius will not see your parents in the first few months. He won't be living with you anytime soon. So don't ask. He may run away, thinking that you are rushing to the altar
Step 3. Be a flirt
When you talk to Sagittarius, remember that he likes the thrill of the chase. Just because the two of you are already dating doesn't mean the chase is over. Keep teasing each other so he remembers the chase. This will also help you remember it.
Sagittarius values openness and honesty. It's obvious you're digging Sagittarius, so it's appropriate to act with your feelings. When you communicate with him by being yourself, the conversation will go much smoother for both of you, Sagittarius or not
Step 4. Go out and have fun together
That's what he's looking for in a relationship. Do the little things that make life fun. Watch independent movies, do karaoke duets out loud, paint pottery, play laser tag, do things that make you both spend time together and laugh. Sagittarius believes that life should be fun and he is optimistic about this. Hopefully that passion will be contagious!
The typical Sagittarius isn't the type to want to sit and look you in the eye, reading a love poem. He prefers to hold your hand while passing the waterfall. If you're just starting out on a date, relax and enjoy the fun. He will love you more because of it
Step 5. Pay attention to your appearance
While this isn't the case for 100% Sagittarius, he generally prefers his partner being neat, smells good, and looks like he's dressed up in bright light. So when it's time for a date, ditch the yoga pants and the ponytail, put on boots and perfume/colonies. You don't have to look like you just got off the runway, but look like you took the time to think about what to wear!
Again, Sagittarius generally prefers female partners to be feminine and male partners to be masculine. So if you are a woman, feel free to wear dresses and high heels; for men, date night means formal shoes and a blazer (and you'll probably pay for it)
Step 6. Plan the trip
Sagittarius loves to travel. Perhaps at this point it is obvious. Once you and your ideal Sagittarius have a strong relationship (and only after), plan a trip. You can spend a day at the beach or take a vacation to an exotic place. Whatever the plan, your Sagittarius lover will likely agree.
Make sure the itinerary you arrange is appropriate for the relationship level. If you've only been dating for two weeks, don't book a stay in the northern French countryside for one week. Small trips, whether it's an amusement park, biking or hiking, are fun too
Step 7. Be smart
Stupid people or attractive but empty-brained people don't need to try to date Sagittarius. You have to be smart to keep up with the pace. Maintaining an interesting relationship and always having ideas will be a major challenge in dating a Sagittarius, so put on your glasses and seduce him. Sagittarius is a sign that values the brain very much.
Update your insights on the latest events and pop culture. Sagittarius loves to laugh and think. Ideally, the two of you would do this for each other
Step 8. Don't expect change
Sagittarius always be yourself. This is a fact that will not change. If you're dating a Sagittarius and thinking, "he'll be more open and emotional in the future," you're probably wrong. He has no issues with himself and will withstand any mold you attempt to mold him. If you don't like it for what it is now, just walk away. Like it or not, that's it.
Again, you need to view this quality as a virtue. Being comfortable being yourself is a great thing. So many of us wish we could change; it takes a lot of confidence to believe in yourself so there is never a desire to be a different person. Admire the qualities of this one Sagittarius; don't be hated
Part 3 of 3: Defending the Spark
Step 1. Be yourself
Just as Sagittarius wants to be himself, he also wants to date someone like that. If you follow him wherever he goes, share his hobbies and interests, then your mysterious and personal will disappear. He will be bored. So whatever attracted him to you in the past, stick with it. He is not interested in other versions of himself.
It's easy to lose yourself when you're with other people, especially when you're infatuated. Opponent! Don't compromise your values and beliefs for it; he won't change for your sake, so why should you sacrifice yourself?
Step 2. Surprise your Sagittarius lover
He likes adventure and trying new things. To get around his tendency to get bored, keep giving him small surprises. Think and unleash your wits, whether by cooking a home-cooked meal or two tickets to his favorite show. He will be amazed by your ability to always keep him happy.
Make sure you surprise in different ways. Sending a bouquet of flowers for five days in a row is hardly a surprise. One day send flowers and the next day not. You need to give variety
Step 3. Don't stick too tightly
Remember we talked about Sagittarius having to feel free? Yes. Even if your relationship is solid, it's important to remember that you shouldn't be too clingy. So at the upcoming party, come to the other side of the room. This is not a sign that your relationship is straining, but a sign that your relationship is strong enough to be apart for an hour!
Sagittarius won't cling to you as tightly either. Again, no problem. This was already predictable. This kind of attitude doesn't show a lack of affection-it shows his personality. Rest assured if your Sagittarius lover thinks of something (positive or negative), he will let you know
Step 4. Find adventure
This is important in relationships and only for you. Sagittarius loves to date someone who is as open to adventure as he is. So take wine tasting classes, DJ lessons; even if you are alone. Adding an aspect to your personality (even if it's not an aspect he also has) will make you more attractive.
There are no limits to adventure here. He would try new coffee flavors with the same zeal as booking an impromptu trip to the Siberian desert. Go on an adventure together and the two of you will make the perfect match
Step 5. Deepen your relationship
The fact that Sagittarius is a seemingly emotionless adventure seeker might make you raise your hand as if wishing you didn't care. Of course Sagittarius guys can and have been subdued a thousand times, so no worries! Connections cannot be ignored; if you and Sagittarius feel that spark, he won't deny it, committed or not!
Look for clues as to whether your Sagittarius lover is ready to commit. Does he depend on you more than anyone else? Is he willing to do anything to make sure you're happy? Do surprises and adventures continue to exist in your relationship? If the answer is yes, you may be ready to take your relationship to the next level. Who is the archer now?
- Sagittarius are very friendly and giving people; he does not like selfishness, and he appreciates the principle of give and take.
- Sagittarius likes some alone time. Don't strangle him.
- Sagittarians love to joke around and are sometimes misunderstood as being insensitive. Don't be offended by the joke.
- Sagittarius loves outdoor activities and as already mentioned he gets bored easily. Interesting date ideas include hiking, museums, beaches, or amusement parks.
- Don't wait to call or talk to a Sagittarius, you won't get it fast.
- Most Sagittarians are the most optimistic people in the zodiac. If you value his optimism and adaptability, he will appreciate you.
- This applies to everyone you date, regardless of their zodiac sign: Don't get too jealous or clingy!
- Sagittarius hate cheating.
- Aggression can turn off a Sagittarius' interest. It's okay to flirt, but don't force or stalk her.
- The Sagittarius woman is mentally strong, but wants a partner who can make her feel protected. If there were too many signs of weakness, he wouldn't linger.
- Sagittarius doesn't like being chased. He was happy to be in a chasing position.
- Remember that the Sagittarius woman is mentally strong, but generally wants a partner who makes her feel protected.
- Some Sagittarians are dreamers, creative and artistic, DO NOT destroy their dreams and aspirations because of your personal limitations…
- Sagittarius women are very friendly by nature, but don't mistake that for flirting.
- Sagittarius is one of the friendliest signs you'll ever meet, but whatever you do, DO NOT offend him or test his strength levels… He's not labeled the "fire sign" for no reason.
- Sagittarius is the most frivolous sign of the zodiac, and he must be very attentive to his words and actions.
- Assumptions about a person's personality based purely on date of birth are not always true.