Kissing in public can be fun, but may be considered rude by some. In most places, you probably won't be punished for showing off your affection. However, in certain cultures, kissing in public is seen as taboo. If you dare to do so, you may get into trouble. Therefore, before kissing in public, make sure you pay attention to your surroundings. Also make sure that your partner is willing to do it. If he doesn't want to kiss in public, respect his choice.
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Method 1 of 2: Kissing in Public
Step 1. Prevent excessive lust
It's fine if you want to kiss your partner in public. However, do not let the kiss be an "invitation" to do something more naughty. Hold yourself back when kissing in public.
You can kiss in public, as long as you don't overdo it. Don't kiss with your tongue in, and don't touch your partner's clothing-covered skin. Gestures of excessive intimacy are unsightly for some people
Step 2. Pay attention to your surroundings
Kissing in public isn't always possible, even if you're sure that no one is paying attention to either of you.
- For example, even though you're in a dark movie theater, that doesn't mean you're free to do whatever you want with your partner. You may be able to steal a few cheek kisses, but don't assume that you can just make out with your partner.
- Avoid kissing in places full of people, such as restaurants or convenience stores. However, you can kiss in a nightclub because many couples dance and kiss there. If you're in a nightclub and feel like kissing, go for it.
Step 3. Pay attention to social norms in your area
In some countries, kissing in public is a grave sin. In Western countries, you may only get glared at when kissing in public, but in a country like India, you may deserve punishment.
If you will be traveling with a partner, know the norms in the destination area before leaving, especially regarding public displays of affection. Kissing isn't the only form of intimacy you should be wary of. In China, you are prohibited from holding hands as a couple
Step 4. Make sure you get permission from your partner before kissing
Wherever you are, you must respect the boundaries of the him. If he doesn't want to kiss, don't force him. Nobody likes uninvited physical contact.
Don't use public kissing as an ego booster. A kiss should be seen as a way to share affection with a loved one, not to let the world know that the other person "has got it."
Method 2 of 2: Discussing Exposure to Intimacy with Couples
Step 1. Find out what makes your partner feel uncomfortable
If he shies away when you try to kiss him in public, ask permission before kissing him. Pay attention to your partner's feelings, and respect their choices. Don't force him to let you kiss him in public.
Not wanting to show affection in public doesn't mean your partner doesn't like you. He may feel uncomfortable in certain places, such as the office or a place filled with friends
Step 2. Listen to your partner's opinion
There are a variety of reasons why a couple doesn't want to kiss in public, and some of those reasons can be hard to put into words. Maybe he didn't get enough attention from his previous partner, or he thought that intimacy should be enjoyed alone.
When he's done talking, reply with "Yes, I understand how you feel." Then, share your wishes with your partner. Don't ignore your partner's feelings. Instead, find out why your partner feels the way they do
Step 3. Try agreeing with your partner
Know what things are okay with your partner in public. Reassure your partner that you are not trying to make out in public.
After agreeing on the boundaries of intimacy, such as just holding hands or kissing on the cheek, stick to those boundaries. Don't break your partner's trust by doing things they don't like
Step 4. Ignore the rules when you're not in public
When spending time alone, don't hesitate to make out with your partner.
