Seducing women is not a difficult thing to do. For some guys, this is a big challenge, but you just have to relax and be yourself. Once you understand some of the things to do and avoid, it won't be long before you'll be good at flirting and getting the girl.
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Method 1 of 2: Learning How to Flirt
Step 1. Be friendly and confident
No matter what you're saying to him, make sure you say it with a smile. Plus, show him that you're comfortable being who you are and that you're flirting with him because you like him. If you don't, he may take you seriously and take everything you say as an insult, especially if you seem withdrawn and sullen. Try to look as comfortable as possible even though you really like him. I'm sure he'll catch on to your mood and he's less likely to be offended.
Step 2. Joke about his habits
Pay attention to the things he does when you are around him. Then, try to make naughty comments about the way he does things. For example, if he's tossing his hair when he laughs, say something like: "Be careful when tossing your hair, you might get me in the eye!" The he will not only laugh but also know that you are watching him and know his movements.
- Open to being teased back. Try to make your comments open to be greeted by the him with temptation too. That way, instead of this flirting being a one-way attack from you alone, the two of you will hit back at each other.
- Make sure your comments don't come out as offensive. You want to make him smile and laugh.
Step 3. Do physical flirting
A great way to flirt with him so you can make contact with him is to flirt physically. You can do one of the tricks of physical flirting by combining it with doing something that will make her happy. Try to buy him a gift like a concert ticket he wants. Offer him the ticket, but before he grabs it, withdraw it. Every time you do it, the he will get closer to you. This is fun and a good way to tease him but you are also doing something that pleases him in the end.
You can also try tickling or poking to get a reaction out of him. If he responds, you can tease him even more
Step 4. Try to flirt positively
When flirting you usually do something that mocks him and therefore try to make him seem positive. If his tongue often slips when speaking, instead of mocking his ability to speak, try asking him something like this: "Why do you like to say the wrong thing, do you think you want to mislead me, huh?" In this way, you're giving the other person the impression that he's deliberately misspoke to mislead you instead of making fun of his mistake. This is a fun way to get his attention without making you look like an asshole in his eyes.
You can also do this trick to tease her appearance. If he's wearing really high heels, make comments like: "Hmm, at least we're safe when we get robbed. You can stab the crooks with your high heels." This shows that you are paying attention to what he is wearing but at the same time you are subtly mocking the height of his heel. You mock him subtly without harshly criticizing his appearance
Step 5. Give him a nickname
As you spend time with her, try to notice something about her like how much she laughs or what kind of movies she likes. According to your observations, give him a nickname. You could say something like: "I see you really like "Star Wars." From now on I'll call you Jedi Jane, okay?" If you tease him in a pleasant way, he's more likely to be willing to join the game.
Method 2 of 2: Learn What to Avoid When Flirting
Step 1. Know the limits
While you want to be comfortable with the girl you like, you have to understand how far you can go in flirting with her. You should know to what extent you can say or do something to him so that he does not feel uncomfortable and become disliking you. If you're not sure how to flirt with him, things like making fun of his physical appearance, his family, or his friends should definitely be avoided. Make sure he is comfortable with the way you tease him.
You may have to try a few things before you really understand what the limits are. Trust your instincts and watch for signs that show how he's feeling
Step 2. Don't be prestige
If you fail at flirting with him, make sure you don't blame him. Also, if you offended him, make sure you apologize. If your sense of humor is sharp enough, you can say things that don't sound pleasant and over time you can offend them. If you've crossed the line, try to sincerely apologize to him. Don't give him the impression that he's at fault for being too sensitive.
Step 3. Don't be inappropriate
If you've just met him, you can't flirt with him the way you flirt with someone you've been dating for months. Joking about sex or touching him inappropriately are things you should avoid at the beginning of a relationship. Make sure you're not overly vulgar, which could make him uncomfortable. If you don't know him that well, you could scare him off or you could end up being an asshole.
Step 4. Avoid the urge to criticize him
When teasing him, don't make it seem like he's a personal critic of something about him or something that's important to him. If she's really dedicated to saving animals, don't tease her with things like: "Wow, you have lots of cats. You're a crazy cat lady, aren't you?" If his passion means so much to him, he could be hurt and uncomfortable with you.
If you don't agree with something he believes in, try to tease him with words that can melt the tension. If you both disagree on politics, don't criticize his beliefs. Instead of scoffing at his point of view, try saying something like: "I can't fault your opinion on that. Good thing you didn't say you liked Bach over Beethoven, otherwise our date would be over." This changes the subject and stops the argument.
Tips
- Just accept it if he doesn't like being teased. Whether he's not in the mood to be teased or just doesn't like being teased at all, stop teasing him when you find out.
- Remember that he is not the same as your boyfriend. She has feelings that are different and not the same as other women. Never hurt her feelings.
- Make sure you pay attention to how he responds; You can tell almost anything from a woman's body language or tone of voice. Plus, you can tell if he likes the way you tease him by whether he laughs or not.
