If you want to cuddle or cuddle with your boyfriend, but aren't sure what to do, don't worry. There are many ways you can try to make the atmosphere more comfortable and enjoyable. Embrace him, hold his hand, or let him rest his head against your chest. You can also gently caress or kiss her. Cuddling is a way to feel closer to your partner and to show affection.
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Method 1 of 3: Setting the Mood
Step 1. Check appearance
Take a shower and take care of your body, such as trimming your nails, applying deodorant, and freshening your breath. Choose clothes that make you feel comfortable and cool, and style your hair the way you like. An attractive appearance will make you more confident.
Step 2. Adjust the light
Fluorescent lights that are too bright can spoil the atmosphere. Dim the lights to a comfortable level, but remember not to get dark. Or, turn off the lights and light a candle. You can also light a fireplace to make it more comfortable and romantic.
Always be careful near a burning fire
Step 3. Select a list of music or movies that support the atmosphere
Think about what movies or songs your partner likes. Choose something that will encourage cuddling, such as a romantic or horror movie that lures him to take refuge in your arms. Or, play her favorite love song or album.
Step 4. Prepare snacks and drinks
If you take the time to prepare snacks and drinks, you won't have to stand up while cuddling. Prepare your boyfriend's favorite drink or cake to show that you care. Avoid foods with strong odors, such as onions, which can affect breath odor.
Step 5. Make the place more comfortable with soft blankets and pillows
Take a soft blanket and a few pillows to the area of your choosing. Many girls like to curl up in a blanket and will appreciate your efforts to make her comfortable. Also, to be able to curl up in the blanket together, you have to hug tightly.
Method 2 of 3: Start Cuddling
Step 1. Arrange to make you appear approachable
Your partner should know that you want to cuddle with them. Choose a place that clearly fits the two of you. Position yourself with your arms or legs open slightly as a sign that you are ready to be hugged. Don't cross your arms or legs to make the impression that you're closed off and unapproachable.
Step 2. Ask him to join
If he's hesitant to approach, pat the couch near you or signal him to come closer. You can say, "Here near me." Smile and look him in the eye when he sits next to you.
Step 3. Bring the body closer
Embrace him from behind the couch so he can lean on you. You can also hold her hand or put your hand on her leg. Do whatever feels comfortable and natural for both of you.
Step 4. Let him rest his head on your chest
If he approaches and rests his head on your chest, hug him. If you feel comfortable, lean your body back a little. You can gently pull him up so he rests on your chest.
Step 5. Caress him
As you get closer, show that you like the closeness. Stroking her arms, shoulders, back, or hair. You can also give a light massage.
Step 6. Read the reaction
If the relationship is new, you should read his reactions to determine what he is comfortable with and what he enjoys. If he seems uncomfortable or distant, back off. Take steps according to his cues, such as putting your arm around him when he leans in close, or grabbing his hand when he puts his hand near yours.
Method 3 of 3: Trying Different Hugs
Step 1. Let him rest his head or feet on your lap
Another option is to sit at the end of the sofa together. Let him lie on your lap. Play with her hair or wrap your arms around her. Or, let him put his feet in your lap. He will be more pleased if you massage his feet.
Step 2. Hug him
Rest his head on your soft chest, and hug him. Just hug him while he enjoys the view. Or, you can stare. Another way is to let him rest his head on your chest, and rest your cheek near his temple.
Step 3. Kiss him gently
Kiss the forehead or cheek. You can also reach his hand for a kiss, or kiss his neck or shoulder.
Step 4. Try the spoon hug
If you want to try another method, lie on your side, and have him lie across from you facing the same direction. You can lay your head on one arm and wrap your arms around the waist with the other. Other variations are:
- Sit face to face with arms embracing, legs crossed on top of yours.
- He hugs you from behind.
- He hugs from behind, but your hands reach and hug his body.
Step 5. Avoid uncomfortable positions
You may enjoy cuddling, but don't hold him so tightly that he can't breathe. Also, don't hug so tightly that it's like a rope. Do not let your arm stiff because your head or body is crushed, overcome it by:
- Superman's hand. When hugging him from behind, don't let your hands rest on his body, but raise them above his head or straighten them. You may have to lower yourself down a bit to make room for your arms.
- Turn the shoulder. When cuddling in bed, bring your chest closer to the bed so you can rotate the arm that was under your partner to place it behind your body.
Tips
- Do not hesitate to move if your position is not comfortable. Hugs should be pleasant, not stiff or painful.
- Hugs are a very intimate gesture. Choose a partner you are comfortable with, who you know likes physical contact.
- If you really want to show love and care, scatter rose petals around the room.
