If you're tired of being-or looking-like everyone else, then being a freak might be for you. Whether it's to be different, unusual, or magical, there are lots of suggestions you can use to stop feeling ordinary. If you want to be weird, then you have to stop caring about what other people think and be ready to express your magical self.
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Part 1 of 3: Getting into a Strange Mindset
Step 1. Stop caring what other people think of you
If you want to be weird, the first thing you should do is stop worrying about what other people think of you or what you do. You need to be comfortable expressing your individuality, wearing what makes you feel good, saying what's on your mind, and generally living life the way you want. If you can't stop trying to please other people or doing what you think other people expect, then you can never be weird.
- Of course giving up caring about what other people think of you is easier said than done, and you won't be able to do it overnight. Still, you can take steps to start doing your own thing little by little, until you find that one day you no longer worry about what other people will say.
- One way to make it easier for you to do this is to hang out with people who don't judge you for living life your way and who make you feel comfortable doing whatever works for you.
Step 2. Don't try so hard to be too different
While you may want to be weird, you don't have to dye your hair pink, wear a hula skirt, or yodel with a voice from the top of your lungs in the middle of a lesson-unless that's what you really want to do! You can find your own way to be weird without looking like you're trying too hard. Focus on doing what feels right rather than creating an impression.
If you try too hard to be different, you may not feel true to yourself. Of course, if you want to be completely random and surprising, you should feel comfortable doing so
Step 3. Get the confidence you need to really be weird
While you may think that queer people are aloof, clumsy, or generally unhappy, it actually takes confidence to really be weird. If you want to get out of the ordinary and be weird, then you have to make sure you're happy with who you are and what you have to offer the world. You have to believe in yourself first before doing things differently from other people and presenting yourself, or you'll be disappointed if people don't react the way you expect.
- Try to love yourself for who you are and be proud of your strengths. Make a list of all the things that you are good at and are happy with because of that success.
- Being confident doesn't mean being perfect. This means being happy with your strengths while also accepting your flaws and trying to improve yourself whenever you can. If there's a part of you that you don't like but you can't change, like your height, then you have to work on that fact if you want to be truly confident.
- While confidence doesn't come overnight, you can take steps to build it. One thing you can do is have absolute confidence in body language. Try to stand up straight, make eye contact, and don't stoop or look down.
Step 4. Be individual
If you really want to be weird, then you have to be comfortable being individual. This means having your own fashion, your own tastes, and your own ideas rather than following other people's ideas about what is weird or normal. You need to be able to voice your opinion with confidence, be prepared to disagree with popular trends, and generally express yourself even when it's easier to remain silent.
- If you are a true individual, then you are ready to become a complex person with many facets. You don't have to be perfect to be yourself and you have to be comfortable admitting mistakes.
- Being individual means not being a follower or being part of the crowd. While you don't have to be a loner, if you're just doing a bunch of stuff that freaks or other different people do, then you're not really being an individual.
Step 5. Read a lot and educate yourself
If you want to be weird, then you need to be knowledgeable enough to be able to figure out random things on random subjects, and to surprise your friends with an interesting piece of information when they least expect it. Whether you enjoy reading comic books, geology, all things Japanese, or any other subject, read as much as you can so that you are armed with knowledge and facts as you face the world.
If you read a lot and know what's going on in the world, it will give more legitimacy to your quirks. You certainly don't want to look like a weirdo just to be weird without having any backing knowledge
Part 2 of 3: Realizing in Action
Step 1. Don't be shy
One thing the weirdest people have in common is that they're not shy. They enjoy talking to new people, sharing their thoughts with people they don't know well, trying new things, and being open about their feelings. If you're too quiet to let other people see your personality, it's going to be harder to be weird. Of course there's something about the weird type that's dark and moody, but if you want to be really weird, then you have to reveal yourself enough so people can understand who you are.
You don't have to be chatty or energetic; You just have to be open enough to express your thoughts, however strange they may be
Step 2. Do the unexpected
Strangers are known to do things that no one expects. In a group or alone, if you want to be weird, then you have to be prepared to surprise people. You can be as spontaneous as you can and if you want to be weird, know that you can really surprise people when they least expect it. Remember, if you are a regular, then people will feel they can predict what you will do next. Here are some ways to do the unexpected.
- If you feel inspired, suddenly sing and dance.
- Start quoting words from your favorite movie or book
- Share surprising facts about yourself with others
- Surprise people with your ability to play an instrument, speak a foreign language, or show card tricks
- So completely random. Interrupt your friend in the middle of a conversation to tell them what you had for lunch, or to quote a funny fact about your favorite movie.
Step 3. Be a clumsy person
Weird people also tend not to be the most social creatures on earth. If you want to be weird, then you should try to be awkward whenever you can. The general rule is that people get weird because they don't follow social norms. One way they can go against the grain is by not interacting normally with a lot of people. This can come across as awkward, and you can do it easily. Here are some ways to be awkward:
- When someone approaches and talks to you, walk away without explanation.
- Retell the same story three times in one session and apologize afterwards, each time.
- Tell stories that are too personal to people you just met.
- Burp in public without apologizing.
- Stutters and mumbles a lot.
- Whenever there is a brief silence, shout, “Awkward!”
- Talk to complete strangers, even when it's obvious they're busy.
Step 4. Try some unexpected activities
If you want to be weird, then you can't just do what the people around you do in their spare time. While you don't have to try a new activity just because it's weird, you have to stay away from the flow if you want to be different. Part of being weird is a willingness to try new things that most people don't like. It can also mean trying out some fun and quirky and slightly unusual things. Here are some fun activities you can try and set yourself apart from the crowd:
- Learn magic tricks
- Write your own comic book
- Play ukulele or banjo
- Learn the art of face painting
- Learn a foreign language that is difficult to master
Step 5. Be extra hyper
While there are various ways to be weird, from the loner freak type to the quirky weird type, one way to be weird is to have that extra energy that most people don't have. This energy allows you to share interests, be more active than most people, and have a desire to share random facts and information with those around you. If you want to be weird, then one approach to take is high energy.
- When you are very passionate about something, try to speak quickly. One of the reasons people can be weird is because they don't talk the same way other people do.
- Don't be afraid to share your passion about something. Don't play it cool and approach a subject with less enthusiasm than you would like.
- If you want to pace yourself or be extra active, even if it means jumping jacks in the middle of a conversation, nothing will stop you.
Part 3 of 3: Try More
Step 1. Allow yourself to be distracted by the mundane
For example, tell your friend that the ceiling is annoying. Go overboard and say, "Like… sitting up there" in an awkward tone. Keep staring at the ceiling with wide eyes and show a truly fixated attitude. Ignore whatever friends or people around you are saying for a few minutes. The more ordinary the object that fascinates you, the better.
Step 2. Redefine the art of dressing
While you don't have to dress completely weird just to be different, you can start dressing in a way that makes you feel like you're not like everyone else. You don't have to wear a long coat or a bright pink dress with glittery high heels if you don't want to, but you should present yourself and wear a graphic T-shirt, brightly colored jeans, cute hair accessories, quirky makeup, or just something that makes you look and feel good. feel different but stay true to yourself if you want your appearance to immediately show that there's something different about you.
Style your hair in a whimsical fashion to match your outfit if you want. Use the stiffest hair gel you can find. Style your hair in a style that stands tall, or find a cool and whimsical hairstyle. It's all just a matter of imagination
Step 3. Name the inanimate object
Carry it with you at all times and talk to him as if it were your friend. Make sure you act like the object is really your friend and that anyone trying to say you're talking to the object is crazy. Put on a surprised, angry, or hurt expression when someone tries to show that you're not acting normal.
Step 4. Speak with a foreign accent
Compose your own words to say when speaking in a strange accent. When asked where you are from, say Alaska. More importantly, make the accent appropriate; don't just mumble. If it's very convincing, you'll really confuse people and make them think you're weird. Make sure you don't slip off that accent while you're around the person.
Step 5. Meditate in the middle of the hotel lobby
Sit down then cup your hands and close your eyes. You will be surprised by his reaction. If someone tries to stop you, ask them to shut up and say you're in the middle of an important meeting.
Step 6. Act strangely when eating
Get mad at a fancy restaurant because you want chicken fingers and apple juice. While waiting for the food to arrive, take a knife and fork and hold them in both hands, with the sharp edges facing up, pounding the bottoms against the table continuously (for variety you can enter your own drum notes or beats).
Step 7. Go around in a circle and talk to yourself
Then make weird sounds and shapes with your hands and jerk your head. This will definitely make you look weird. You should only do this if it feels good to you and doesn't feel like you just want to be watched.
Step 8. Make unique jewelry from any seeds, stems, leaves, or trash you can find lying around
Try selling them at school or giving them as gifts. Even if the jewelry is very simple and very bad, make it seem as if you really did it with great thought and effort.
Step 9. Walk like a float
Pretend as if you are floating on another planet. Be as dreamy and dreamy as possible, and it doesn't take long for people to think you're a total freak.
Step 10. Find weird nicknames for people
Even if they have short and boring names, think of something weird and magical! It's even better if the person clearly doesn't like the first name, or if you barely know them well enough to be able to give them a nickname. You can even try to come up with a nickname for yourself and keep trying, without success, to use it.
Step 11. Hum or sing at odd times
This is another way to be completely random and make people see that you are weird. It's most effective if you do it in a moment of silence or when someone has just told a serious or touching story. You can even try humming to yourself in the middle of a test until the teacher and other students around you notice what you're doing.
If humming or singing at odd times doesn't work, you can try a turkey-like swallowing sound when things are very quiet. This would be especially successful in the middle of a Thanksgiving event
Step 12. Smell the unexpected object
This is another way to instantly look weird. For example, you could go up to the wall, sniff, and say something random, like, Hmmm… peppermint.” You can also try smelling people's hair, although this will make them panic or come across as offensive. You can also smell yourself, if you want to make things awkward.
Step 13. Dance like a maniac without music in a public place and then walk away as if nothing happened
This is another way of showing that you are weird. Act like you've just had a dancing seizure and just want to let it go. If people find you funny or ask what you're doing, act like you really don't know what they're talking about.
Tips
- Don't try too hard; just do what everyone else doesn't.
- Staring at other people can put you in problem. To avoid this, look at the other person with most awkward face, for example, gawking like you can't control it so they'll find it weird rather than annoying.
- use imagination You-there are no rules for this, because anything is fine!
Warning
- Your parents may want you to see a psychologist.
- You may be gossiped about a lot.
- You might come across as trying hard, most freaks are really happy with themselves. So instead of changing just to be weird, try changing to be happy, and maybe you'll eventually achieve both.
- You have to get out of your comfort zone.
- You will be watched.
- You may be evicted from a public place.
- People will make fun of you.
- You can lose friends.
