In Japanese media, especially in anime and manga, a tsundere is someone (usually a girl) who pretends to be indifferent to other people, but actually has a soft side that is protective and affectionate. A tsundere's "insaneness" can range from selfish indifference, to rudeness and irritability. In Japanese media, tsunderes can be both male and female, and this trait is considered attractive. If you want to try acting like a tsundere read this article.
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Method 1 of 2: Having a Tsundere Appearance
This step is optional, but many tsunderes, especially girls, have a unique appearance.
Step 1. Wear expensive looking clothes
Usually, a tsundere is described as being spoiled and/or wealthy, so most have a neat and formal appearance. While there's no standard "dress code" for a tsundere, it's a good idea to choose clothes that look classy and expensive, such as a nice sweater and neat jeans, or a cute dress. Try to check the contents of your closet and determine the clothes that roughly match the appearance of a tsundere.
Some tsunderes dress like ordinary women, and some are more tomboyish. You don't have to wear super expensive clothes just to get a tsundere look. Many actually look normal
Step 2. Take good care of your hair
Most tsunderes have pretty hair. Learning how to properly care for your hair is essential to becoming a tsundere. Tangled, greasy hair actually makes you look more like an otaku than a tsundere.
As a rule, tsundere women have long hair, which is sometimes styled in a "two-tail" (ponytail on both sides of the head). You don't have to wear it, but it can be a nice touch to be a tsundere
Step 3. Consider dressing like a certain tsundere
If you have a tsundere character that you like, pay attention to her dress and hair style and try to follow suit. Try not to completely imitate the character because you are not cosplaying. Fortunately, many tsunderes have styles that are easy to follow. You can even try creating your own tsundere style!
Step 4. Try zettai ryouiki if you're wearing a skirt or shorts
The main characteristic of tsundere women is wearing thigh-high stockings combined with short skirts; In Japan, this style is known as zettai ryouiki. There are many "levels" of zettai ryouiki; tsundere women usually wear tiers A or B (thigh-high stockings, with shorts or short skirts). If you want to enhance your tsundere image, try to find out more about zettai ryouiki.
Zettai ryouiki is usually sexualized so if you feel uncomfortable, you don't have to. Don't force it if it doesn't suit your taste. You don't have to wear uncomfortable clothes just to look like a tsundere
Step 5. Make your school uniform look attractive
In general, anime focuses on the main character who is a high school student. So, try to make your uniform look as attractive as possible. Sew, hem, roll, or find a similar uniform for the best possible appearance.
If your school doesn't have a uniform, look for clothes that are similar in style. Besides making you look more like a tsundere, this style is also neater than just wearing a t-shirt and jeans
Step 6. Consider bringing a signature item
Some tsunderes (although not all) carry their own special items. This item can be a small book, cell phone holder, jewelry, or a large object that is impossible to miss and usually has a cute appearance. Try to determine the special items that you like and consider bringing them. Channel your creativity!
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Don't carry weapons!
Even if you're interested in carrying a wooden katana (samurai sword) like Taiga Aisaka from Toradora!, weapons can pose serious regulatory problems, especially at school. Choose objects that are not considered dangerous by others.
Method 2 of 2: Act like a Tsundere
Step 1. Develop a bitch in public
Of course, you shouldn't be cursing at the authorities so you don't get into trouble. However, a slightly aggressive attitude and a "don't mess with me" attitude will make the nature of a tsundere clearer. Don't be arrogant, but act as if your caste is above most people, except your friends.
- Don't be rude to people who don't know you. Don't call someone stupid just because he came to you to ask for directions. If you don't know the person, be polite while keeping a little distance.
- Usually, you can show your rudeness with sarcasm and ambiguously rude behavior.
Step 2. Be tougher with your crush
The typical behavior of most tsunderes is an attempt to hide their feelings for the person they have a crush on, by acting more harshly on them. Usually the tsunderes are selling expensive, and have a love-hate relationship that keeps changing. Try imitating it! Be a little rude to your crush (but don't overdo it to make him hate you), and alternate between likes and dislikes. This is the classic behavior of a tsundere.
- If your crush has a partner or likes someone else, be a little more rude to that person. Try to covertly tease him to convey your feelings without him realizing it. However, know that this attitude can eat up the master and make your crush hate you for being rude to the person he likes.
- If a friend asks you how you like your crush, answer it loudly (for example, say "You idiot! Who else likes [name]!").
Step 3. Show your soft side in private
When you are only with your crush or friend, reduce the harshness and show your soft and kind side. You don't need to completely get rid of your stubbornness, just reduce it 1-2 levels from usual. Show your sweet side, which he will often want to see. By showing your kindness in this moment, he will want more.
If your friend or crush is sensitive and doesn't like your cold side, take this moment to apologize. Make sure he knows that you really care about him, and tend to show it in a slightly different way. Express that you appreciate it (but do it in a subtle and perhaps a little ambiguous way)
Step 4. Adopt a passive-aggressive attitude towards anything
Tsunderes are known to face everything, both big and small, with a curt attitude. This passive-aggressive and somewhat resentful attitude is a great way to act like a tsundere. Ambiguous and curt compliments are usually quite powerful.
- Classic passive-aggressive sentences that a tsundere usually say include, "It's not that I [care about/likes/thinks of] you.", "I didn't do it for you! I did it because I wanted to!", "Fool!", and " Not like that!"
- If you're giving someone a gift, try saying "I think I should give something away, but you really deserve it."
Step 5. Cover your emotions in front of people you don't know well
When you're sad about something, express it as anger or frustration, or adopt an aloof and uncaring attitude. On the surface, blame the other person (for example, the teacher was a complete idiot.”), and don't share your feelings with strangers. Remember, tsunderes usually cover up their feelings by being harsh and rude; Try not to make your feelings too easy for others to read.
- Of course, you still need to have emotions; You are free to feel what you feel. Tsunderes only rarely show their fragile and emotional side to strangers. If you want to cry, go to a close, trusted friend.
- For your emotional health, don't really blame someone else for something or refuse to talk about your emotions to other people. If you know that what you did was wrong, admit it and find someone to share your feelings with.
Step 6. Reduce your irritation over time
Remember, if tsunderes never show their soft side, they are nothing more than jerks. Tsunderes also really appreciate people who really deserve it so be kinder to people you hang out with a lot, such as good friends and crushes. Show that you do care about them, and that your behavior is nothing more than a mask or defense mechanism.
Step 7. React when someone exhausts your patience
When a tsundere is provoked, he actually eats the bait and replies without hesitation. If someone bumps into you, say "You used your eyes, you idiot!" and grumbled. If someone pranks you, react loudly like a real tsundere. Raise your bitch one level than usual!
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Never physically attack another person.
The punches and attacks that you usually see in anime will only make you face the principal or the police. You can slap the other person's upper arm a little, as long as he doesn't pay too much attention to it.
Step 8. Try not to overdo it in acting like a tsundere
You're imitating the attitude of a tsundere, not bullying everyone else who talks to you verbally. Remember, tsunderes don't actually hurt other people; they just adopt the "I'm better than you" behavior. Do not bully or verbally attack others, especially if there is no justification for it. If you do, you will only keep other people out of your life.
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Never aim for someone else's weak point on purpose.
If you find that your friend or crush is self-conscious that they find it difficult to socialize, don't attack this topic. This can seriously hurt their confidence and possibly drive them away from you. After all, who wants to befriend a bully?
Step 9. Back off if you accidentally cross the line
People often overlook the fact that a tsundere can hurt other people's emotions or cross the line and attack sensitive issues. In the real world, people are much more vocal in expressing their feelings, in contrast to anime or manga. If you did hurt someone's feelings, apologize immediately and step back. You will be the center of attention, and you should try not to lose friends. Tsundere is not afraid to admit her mistakes and be kind. After all, the whole point of being a tsundere is revealing the good side of yourself to others.
Tips
- If you're looking for references to tsundere characters, check out anime like Toradora!, Hayate no Gotoku, Sugar Sugar Rune (both male and female), and the classic Kaichou wa Maid-Sama. For boys, try watching Nagi no Asukara because it has a male tsundere.
- Try to stay sincere. What makes tsundere complexes so interesting is that they hold back from being close to someone and the emotional fruit of being able to gain the respect and affection of a tsundere.
- Be strong and confident because you don't need a partner to be happy. At least, this is the mentality you are looking for. You are rude, curt, full of action, and you love every second of it!
- Be nice to your friends, but openly tell them to shut up while acting a little surprised if they say stupid things or make inappropriate jokes. Try blushing and frowning, and clenching your fists into fists.
- Don't be too extreme. Don't slap other people just because they accidentally bumped into you.
- Even though in anime or manga tsunderes often say the word "Baka" (which means stupid or idiot), don't imitate it. Most people will think you're tacky and immature, or just get annoyed and ignore you. Anyway, no one will take you seriously.
- Don't forget to take care of your hair and skin. While it may sound silly at first, it can help you in the long run. Don't forget that tsunderes have quality hair and near-perfect skin because they are always cared for. Try doing the 10-step K-Beauty routine to beautify your skin and use a shampoo and conditioner that meets your hair's needs.
Warning
- You may find saying "baka" to be cute, but to other people this behavior will make it seem like you don't have a life other than anime, and this is not seen as good.
- Do not exaggerate. Most tsunderes have friends; Don't keep other people out of your life.
- Being a tsundere doesn't mean being rude and disrespectful to other people. While on the one hand the tsunderes are very competitive, on the other hand they are very nice and want to get along. tsundere is not the same as shy, psychopath, or arrogant.
