Pleasing a woman requires a combination of modesty and unusual acts of kindness and love. Follow the steps below, and pretty soon any woman you're in a relationship with will see yourself as one of the good guys.
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Method 1 of 4: Be a Good Speaker
Step 1. Express your feelings
Some men underestimate how important it is to express their feelings to women. In most cases, men prefer to use actions rather than words to express their feelings. If that sounds like you, then you need to know that women need to hear "I love you" from time to time, so decide when to express those feelings. If you're having trouble saying those words, try writing a note or using a card to let him know how you feel.
- The good news: it turns out that men are often the first to express their feelings of love in a relationship. Research shows that it only takes men 88 days to express love to their partner (compared to women who take 134 days) while another study says men say "I love you" first 70% of the time.
- Pay attention to your timing. women prefer to hear "I love you" after sexual intercourse than before sexual intercourse. Maybe they'll be a little disbelieving when they hear those words say before having sex because they're wondering if you said "I love you" just to get more action.
Step 2. Be a good listener
Everyone-not just women-wants to be heard. If you know how to listen, your female partner will really appreciate it, and the relationship between the two of you will grow. Try these steps to become a better listener.
- Eliminate distractions. That might mean turning off the football match on tv or ignoring the messages that just came to your phone. Try not to interrupt unless the question is important to you in order to understand the situation. Giving your woman full focus will show that she matters and that you appreciate and are interested in what she has to say.
- Read non-verbal cues. Gestures, facial expressions, and eye movements are all important. Don't just listen with your ears, but also with your eyes so you get a greater understanding of what he's feeling.
- See things from his point of view. Your girlfriend or wife may be upset about something that never bothered you, or she might be describing a scenario you couldn't imagine if you were in it-but you have to try. Put yourself in his shoes to try to understand what he is saying more clearly. Even if you don't agree with his reaction or opinion, keep an open mind and let him know that for any disagreements you will always be by his side.
- Refrain from solving problems. When a woman is talking about a problem she is having, a man's first reaction is to jump in and try to solve the problem. The urge comes from a nice place, but that's not what women want. He just wants to be heard, so refrain from rescue action with a solution to the situation. If he asks you what he thinks he should do, then you can offer suggestions, but don't be offended if he does something else. [Image:Treat a Woman Step 4 Version 2.jpg|center|550px]
Step 3. Ask her how she feels
In most cases, you can find out how the woman in your life feels, but sometimes, especially when the relationship is new, you need to ask. Researchers in a study published in the journal PLOS conducted an experiment to distinguish between male and female eyes, showing that men are twice as difficult to guess a woman's feelings as men's. They also take a long time to interpret a woman's eyes.
Step 4. Fight fairly
Even close partners will have differences of opinion; what matters is how you talk to women during the argument. Do not call names or make threats or use physical threats. When the fight ends, don't shy away from hurting her feelings; meet your woman. Don't interrupt her feelings by being defensive or trying to stop the fight by hurting her. We all need validation for our feelings.
Method 2 of 4: Showing Respect
Step 1. Act like a real man, treat him fairly, don't open the door, this will show him that you are weak
This doesn't mean being rude!, just don't treat him less than a man.
Step 2. Be Polite
women like to hear the words "please" and "thank you". Even if you've dated a few times or been married for a long time, don't lose your manners. Show the same concern as you show others.
Avoid using obscene words. Never use offensive words or offensive slang to your partner's woman, even if you're just joking. If you respect him, make sure your language reflects that
Step 3. Do not change or cancel plans
If it's an emergency or change is inevitable, you can of course cancel a date. but make sure you give notice as soon as possible, give a good explanation, and apologize.
Step 4. Be on time
If you are running late, call as soon as possible to let him know. Everyone's time is precious, and being somewhere when you say you're coming is a courtesy. Avoid the urge not to call because you are afraid your woman will be angry. He might get angry, but he's likely to be even more angry if he doesn't contact her.
Step 5. Treat his family well
Even if he says that he is not close to his family, always respect them and avoid criticizing them. Family ties can be strong, and parents and siblings can influence the decision to date or break up with a man.
If a woman has children, then you need to be friendly to their children and make an effort to get to know them. Women are quick to say goodbye to men who mistreat their children. Don't overdo it and try to be a parent or discipline the kids; leave that to your partner's woman
Step 6. Avoid jealousy
Being jealous of her boyfriends, coworkers, and exes for no apparent reason will tell a woman that you think she is a liar and someone with low morals. It's not a message you want to pass on to someone you care about.
Step 7. Help at home
If the two of you live together, do chores around the house. You are both responsible for housework. Don't expect him to always do the work for you. One way to win a woman's heart is to hold a vacuum cleaner in one hand and a box of detergent in the other.
Method 3 of 4: Making Him Feel Special
Step 1. Celebrate a special occasion
Make sure you have a card and gift ready for her birthday, or for Christmas or Valentine's Day. Marking these and other occasions with love and appreciation is a great way to make a woman feel special. Remember that right or wrong, his family and friends will ask what you gave him or how the two of you celebrated. Don't force your female partner to lie on the spot or admit that you went through the incident without a confession.
Step 2. Celebrate your anniversary
Anniversaries are like mini time machines - they allow both of you to relive important events (wedding day, first date, etc.). Show your female partner that you appreciate the event and the things that followed by doing something special on your anniversary. If you can afford it and your wife or boyfriend loves it, go and do something extraordinary. But what can mean the most is a card or a conversation that can reminisce about the good times and the development of your relationship and your happiness.
Step 3. Give a well thought out gift
A gift that comes from the heart is one of the most appreciated gifts. Set aside time and thought to choose what your partner will like or make your own gift. When you invest time and effort into giving a gift, he can't help but feel touched.
Step 4. Give flowers
Not all women want flowers, but most will really appreciate a bouquet, especially if it is given for no particular reason. Bring flowers on your next date or have them delivered to your home or work if that's appropriate. A card that says "I'm thinking of you" is enough to put a smile on his face.
Step 5. Tell your friends about your partner
if he is important to you, your friends should know about it. This doesn't mean you have to constantly talk about him (and never discuss what's going on in the bedroom with your friends), but making it clear that he's an important part of your life will make him feel special rather than make him. feel like someone you want to hide or keep away from your friends.
Method 4 of 4: Making Love
Step 1. Understand that the little things mean a lot
While big romantic gestures may have their place, it's the little things that show a woman how much they mean to you. Calculation actions like bringing him a cup of coffee in the morning or adding air to his car tires are very real things to say "I love you" without having to utter a single sentence. So people are consistent. Show him one day in a way that you're thinking about him and trying to make his life a little easier and happier.
Step 2. Send a message
Write a quick note, text or email to let him know you're thinking about him. If he's going to an important event, such as a job interview, presentation at work, send a message of encouragement and support.
Step 3. Give praise
You may not need to answer the question, "Do these pants make my butt look big?" if you are quick to compliment your partner's woman on her appearance. Dispel any insecurities by saying nice things about the parts of his body that he might not feel good about, and don't forget to compliment the things you find most attractive about him. Don't underestimate the impact of saying "You look beautiful"–it says it all.
- If you are asked the question "Do these pants make my butt look big?", the answer that is always correct is "No."
- We all like to be recognized for the things that make us special, so compliment your woman for who she is. Is he creative, charming, funny? Do you admire his achievements and attitude towards life? Tell him! And make sure you look into his eyes while doing that.
Step 4. Follow the directions
At first, let the woman set the pace for your physical relationship. No woman wants to feel pressured to have sex before she is ready, and everyone has a different time to feel ready. Let him know how you feel, but back off (without frowning) if he wants to wait before having an intimate relationship.
Step 5. Push for foreplay
Physiologically, experts agree that foreplay is an important part of sexual health. In fact, A study conducted in Australia found that most women are more aroused by the idea of foreplay than sex itself. Holding, touching and petting your partner, playing games or talking dirty. If you're not sure what your female partner likes, ask. Do it outside the bedroom. It's easier to have that conversation if you're not just going to have sex.
Step 6. Pose a question
If you love her, you're ready to settle down and you know she's the woman, then make a commitment. If you are planning to propose marriage, make sure you mean it. Buy a ring if you can afford it, get down on your knees and tell him you can't imagine life without him and ask if he wants to honor you by being your wife.
Tips
- Don't make promises and then break them.
- Take him to a romantic event and somewhere really special if you're in a relationship, or a special night out if you're just on a date.
- Acknowledge her appearance when she looks good. Tell her she looks beautiful.
- Tell him how it feels to have him as your boyfriend, and no one else in the world but him to spend time with.
- Tell him regularly that he's important to you, he's special to you, and he's beautiful.
- Make her feel that she is the most beautiful woman in the world.
- Don't criticize (unless it hurts you). Look for the good stuff.
- Don't miss the steps on the romantic level. Some of the best moments are those that lead to sex.
- Give a gift if you see something he might like (don't wait for a special moment).
- Try to involve him in tasks that are difficult for him, such as getting him to fix your old stereo, repair and clean your car, etc. This will give him the feeling of being your best friend.
- Help her project, whether she helps your project or not! But keep in mind that you don't want to have a selfish boyfriend, if you've done everything you can to help him, expect him to do the same for you. He will also be happy to do something for you.
Warning
- Don't swear at him or his family members.
- Don't over-praise and try to be with him all the time, or he'll think you're fake. But don't ignore him too often or he'll turn to someone else who pays more attention to him. A woman needs to feel wanted.
- When he's upset, pay attention to him.
- Don't obsess over him 24/7-Women need their own space.
- Remember that all women are different. Never say things like, "I bought you flowers. You should like them. You're a woman!" or "You better like what I bought you. I paid a lot of money for it."
- Don't make promises and don't keep them. You will lose him.
- Don't compare her to other women.
- Do not lie. You will lose his trust and he will not know what to believe.
- Treating women well is one thing. Sacrificing self-respect and dignity is another. Maintain your confidence and self-esteem. If you talk about your feelings about your self-worth and dignity. someone who values himself can be more attractive.
