Being a "ignorant" woman means having self-confidence, acting according to a genuine personality and not being made up, and appearing "ignorant" without thinking about other people's opinions. But "ignorance" is not just about how to dress, but a way of life. If you want to know how to be a "cool" woman, just follow the steps below.
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Part 1 of 2: Being “Ignorant”
Step 1. Be a confident person.
If you don't believe in yourself, you won't be able to be a "cool" woman at all, even if you manage to steal Nicki Minaj's entire collection of "cool" outfits. The first step to being “ignorant” is to feel good about yourself. Everyone who meets you or talks to you briefly should be able to see that you love yourself and the people around you, and that you love who you are in the moment. If you exude confidence, people will believe that you know what you're doing when you end up dressing in a "cool" fashion and rocking on the dance floor.
- Show proper body language. Enter the room with your head and body held high, and show that you are ready for whatever comes your way.
- Wherever you are, show that you really enjoy your company. Don't keep checking your phone every few seconds or looking for someone you'd seem better to talk to -- you have to look like you really enjoy being in that place and in that situation.
- Don't spend time checking your makeup or clothes in the mirror. This will make you look dissatisfied with your appearance.
Step 2. Don't care about other people's opinions
If you're a really "cool" woman, you like who you are and how you look. You don't care if other people think you're too loud or don't look good. Be yourself and let the haters enjoy their hate. If you spend too much time following other people, imitating your friends' looks, or asking other people what they think of your appearance, all of this will make you look vulnerable and insecure.
There's a difference between ignoring other people's opinions and being mean or mean. You have to keep respecting other people -- you just have to stop trying to please them and stop trying to live up to other people's standards of beauty or behavior
Step 3. Love your own body
You can't possibly look great if you don't really like the look itself or are trying hard to cover up certain body parts. You don't need to have a perfect body to understand that every woman is unique and to find the parts of your body that you like and are most proud of (so you want to highlight them in your appearance). If you wear clothes that are too loose to cover your body, fold your arms across your chest, or in general are always trying to hide your truly amazing body, this all means that you will never be able to accept and love your own body.
Step 4. Love your own style
There isn't any particular outfit that can make you a "cool" woman. Being a "slow" woman means being comfortable with your own style, then wearing whatever clothes make you feel comfortable too. Find your own style, and have fun experimenting with different types of clothing that you're not used to. The most important thing is for you to show that you like the clothes you are wearing. Don't ask your friends if the outfit makes you look silly, or try to constantly fix your hair or dress all day thinking you look too much.
Step 5. Be calm with everyone
If you really are a "cool" woman, then this means you are a great person for being able to be calm and comfortable with anyone. You are not a woman who is trying hard to raise your social status in the community or just want to be friends with people who will make you look more attractive. The first characteristic of a "cool" woman is being able to start a conversation with anyone, comfortable when meeting new people, and can make almost anyone smile or laugh.
When you meet a woman, don't look her up and down, but be friendly while remaining calm. This will make you look more attractive in your "cool" style, because you don't appear nervous or scared or jealous of the person you've just met
Part 2 of 2: Dressing Up "Sluggish"
Step 1. Wear the right top
You can look cool by wearing any top, as long as it looks good on your body. You can wear a T-shirt with a “cool” image, a shirt that shows off your belly, a sleeveless t-shirt, or whatever feels comfortable to you. Even a jacket with a hood can be a great addition to your "cool" look. The following are some examples of the types of tops that you can wear to look “cool”:
- T-shirt. Try wearing a T-shirt with a specific logo or image, or a T-shirt that is really loose. You can also choose a T-shirt that is not too wide to reveal the stomach, but opens slightly (2.5-5 cm) at the stomach.
- Sleeveless shirt. Wear a loose sleeveless t-shirt if you're feeling sexy, or a sleeveless t-shirt with a neckline or regular sheer strap. You can also show off your tummy with a sleeveless t-shirt that is half-length and shows your tummy.
- Wear a small top that's only slightly bigger than a bikini, then layer it with a striking jacket.
- Wear a hooded jacket or sweater with a specific logo, for example, the “Adidas” logo.
- Dare yourself to wear a gold colored jacket with lots of pockets and zippers.
- Wear a leather jacket or "Letterman" style jacket. You can pair it with a sleeveless tight t-shirt.
- Sports team boss. Wear a sports top from a basketball player you admire with his name written on the back, or wear a sports top with the name (Michael) Jordan for a more “retro” look.
- Have more formal dresses and boost your look at parties.
- Have two or three pairs of long or half-length tights and a long top.
- Have a sleeveless or half-sleeved top and pair it with shorts. There's no style that's "cooler" than this!
- Dresses in gold, purple, black, red and green will look amazing.
- Try wearing a belt. If your t-shirt is very loose, just tuck the ends into your pants and put on a belt. This style would look great on anyone's body!
- Choose clothing branded “American Eagle”, “Hollister”, “Reebok”, “Nike”, “Rue 21”, “Bare Denim”, “Diesel”, etc. These brands have a collection of hooded jackets, shorts, T-shirts, printed t-shirts, tops, etc. perfect size fit.
- Wear a T-shirt with a certain band in it or with a funny message on it. Show off the tomboy style once in a while.
Step 2. Put on the right pants
You can wear a variety of pants for a "cool" style, from skinny jeans to basketball-style shorts. You can choose either one as long as it feels comfortable -- and looks great when paired with your top. Don't wear tight tops with super-tight pants, or loose tops with baggy cargo pants, because combinations like these will make your appearance look unbalanced. Here are some examples of pants you can try wearing:
- Loose basketball-style shorts
- Skinny jeans
- Anything that is brightly colored or looks flashy
- Tights
- Anything with animal skin pattern
- Super short mini pants
- "chachi" pants
- Loose warm pants, paired with a tight top
- Butt-sized mini pants
Step 3. Put on shoes that are stylish “ignorant”
You can choose shoes that look pretty and “safe”, or those that look downright silly and don't match your overall look. Just choose a style that really matches or even completely collides, while still looking "ignorant". In order to look “cool”, dress your feet up, or just look casual with regular sneakers. Here are some examples of the types of shoes you can wear for a “cool” style:
- Michael Jordan series high basketball shoes
- "Nike" brand sports shoes
- Sport shoes brand " Supra"
- "Adidas" brand sports shoes
- Shoes brand "Vans"
- Shoes brand " Converse"
- Sports shoes brand " Converse " in black and white
- Thick high heel shoes in black, silver or gold
Step 4. Have accessories in a “cool” style
From hats to jewelry, accessories can help add a "cool" look to your style and blend the overall look. The following are some examples of accessories that can enhance your “sloppy” appearance:
- Gold or silver round earrings
- Diamond earrings
- Black thick necklace
- Chain
- Metal plate shaped necklace pendulum (dog tag)
- thick ring
- Thick bracelet
- Bracelet with thorns
- Small nose earrings
- Pet hat that fits your head
- Accessories from certain sports teams
- upside down hat
- Bandana
- Super big glasses
- Watches branded "Burberry", "Adidas", etc.
Step 5. Put on makeup and hairstyles that look “cool”
Styling your hair and make-up can complete your "cool" look. You don't have to put on super heavy makeup or spend hours styling your hair to look cool. Just choose a simple but fun style. Here are a few things you can try to perfect your look:
- Use hairspray or mousse on your hair
- Wear lipstick or lip balm
- Create a smoky eye look on your eyes, using a dark or black eye pencil and eyeshadow
- Once in a while, have fun and dye your hair a bold color, like purple or bright red.
- Have a super short and stiff/sharp haircut, or even long wavy
Tips
- Don't overdo it and don't pretend to be a “cool” woman!
- Always stay calm and have fun.
- Keep in mind that being "ignorant" doesn't mean smoking weed or disrespecting other people. Doing the wrong things doesn't make you the right person.
- Act as if you naturally do.
- Don't think that because you are "ignorant" you can be mean to other people who are not "ignorant". As a "ignorant" woman, behave and act as usual.
- Try not to overdo it. Don't be mean, because this means you're being a bad person. Keep being nice.
- Don't say that you are now a "ignorant" woman, because this will only make other people distrust you. Just let them see the “ignorance” in you and comment on their own.
- Try to look good, be nice and keep performing. This will make you considered more famous. If you are famous, some people will think that you are attractive because of your extraordinary appearance, achievements and attitude. Remember, don't mind other people's comments!
- Be calm and don't worry about what other people think.
- Use everyday language when speaking, for example, "Yo, Bro, 'how are you? Where have you been?"
