In the past, the word cute was synonymous with things like kittens, puppies, dolls, and cartoon teacups. However, nowadays we also often use the word cute to describe attractive people with certain characteristics. Everyone has a different opinion about what makes someone cute and attractive. However, in general, you can learn how to be cute from the opinions of the authors in this article.
Step
Method 1 of 2: Act Positive
Step 1. Act positively
People always enjoy being around cute people, because they spread joy to other people. A cute person must be able to make others feel comfortable and accepted, and the warmth he radiates must be felt by everyone around him. If you want to increase your positive attitude, there are several things you can do:
- Smile. Don't look silly when you smile; smile like you normally smile. Be cute and happy, but don't overdo it!
- Laugh sincerely. Laugh to make you feel good, laugh to make others entertained, and laugh with other people. Be careful not to overdo it. Most people find excessive laughter annoying, not cute.
- Have fun. Everyone likes people who are fun, sociable, and friendly. When you're hanging out with other people, you can joke around or play a fun game.
Step 2. Be calm and shy
Sometimes being shy isn't a bad attitude. It gives you a mysterious aura. If you're shy but open, people will keep asking you all kinds of questions and want to get to know you more. People who are shy but sweet and carefree are very attractive. Remember that you can maintain your friendliness and positive aura while remaining calm and shy at the same time. Here's how:
- Speak softly. You should still be able to speak your mind clearly, but your voice should not be so loud that it can be heard from other rooms. If you speak softly, people will come to you to hear what you have to say, and this will make you appear cuter.
- Be plain. Don't be too vulgar or engage in conversation about inappropriate topics. Cute people usually feel uncomfortable with inappropriate aspects of life.
- Don't dominate a conversation. You can show your wits and speak your mind, but cute people will still give other people a chance to talk too.
- Learn how to make your cheeks blush. If you blush from embarrassment or surprise by certain topics, you're going to look really cute.
Step 3. Be friendly
Cute people may be a little shy, but they are always friendly to people they know and people they just meet. Cute people are always open, and people always want to get to know them better. Here's how to be friendly and cute:
- Care for others. Attractiveness comes from excitement, energy, and fun. This can be demonstrated by engaging other people in conversation, paying attention to what others have to say, and showing genuine concern for the other person's interests.
- Make an effort to really listen to the other person. Active listening is very important if you want to be an attractive person.
- Give praise. Everyone likes someone who sees the good in other people and makes them feel good. It can also be a good conversation starter (“Where did you buy those shoes? That's great!”) However, you have to be sincere; say in a normal tone, not too excited and loud.
Method 2 of 2: Look Cute
Step 1. Make sure you have a cute face and haircut
Your face is the first thing other people see, and it can be very useful for making people look cute. If you want to be cute, you have to be diligent about washing your face and shampooing as often as you need to, and remember to always look clean, healthy, and shiny. Here are examples of some of the things you can do:
- Wear minimal makeup. While a little bit of pink eyeshadow and lipstick can help you look cute, you should still try to look natural. Be careful how much or how little makeup is appropriate in certain situations, especially if you are a man.
- Make sure your hair is soft and looks natural. Your hair will look cute if you don't straighten it too often or apply too many products that make it look greasy. Let your hair dry naturally and flow down to your shoulders or tie it in two pigtails.
- Use a small amount of blush on the cheeks. When your cheeks blush naturally, you can look even cuter.
Step 2. Wear cute clothes
You don't have to completely remodel your wardrobe just to look cute. Having a few cute items and wearing them the right way is enough to help you look cute. Here are some tips for wearing cute clothes:
- Use pastel colors. Colors like light purple, pink, and blue can make your appearance seem softer and cuter.
- Wear a cute skirt instead of trousers – you will look and feel much more attractive and feminine.
- Don't wear high heels. Just wear sandals or cute clogs. Use cute colored nail polish on your toenails.
- Wear a cute cardigan over a white tank top.
- Wear comfortable clothes. Cute people never look uncomfortable in their own clothes. Wear clothes that are comfortable and fit your style.
- Don't wear provocative clothes. It's okay to show your shoulders or calves, but don't wear clothing that's too tight or revealing, as that will make others think it's okay. Showing a bra strap or cleavage and wearing a skirt that is too short or too tight is not something cute.
Step 3. Have cute body language
Cute body language can help show your cute side. The important thing is not to overdo it, but to move smoothly and cutely. Here are ways you can achieve cute body language:
- When you are standing, support on one leg, alternating between the left and right legs.
- When you sit down, bring your feet together and place your hands on your lap.
- Play with your hair.
- Use eye contact. Eye contact is one way to touch another person directly. Eye contact shows your concern for the other person and your efforts to bring this person close to you and keep them there. However, don't forget to look down from time to time to give the impression that you are also a little shy.
- Don't touch the person you're talking to too aggressively, but remember to gently touch their shoulder or knee once in a while. This will make you look really cute.
- Cover your mouth when you laugh. Covering your mouth with your hand when you laugh will show your sweet, cute, and slightly shy nature.
Tips
- Don't use a shrill, cutesy, and contrived voice. People will know that your behavior is unnatural, and you should avoid this.
- Don't become obsessed with cuteness. Some people feel like they have to be happy and excited all the time, but then they feel like they can never be sad. They are always the shoulder on which their friends cry, and are always victims of carrying the burden of their own problems as well as those of others.
- Be friendly to everyone. Smile, it brings joy to other people.
- "Cute" doesn't mean "diva".
- Take care of your posture.
- Don't think that being cute is the same as faking it in front of other people. This cute attitude should come naturally. Your cuteness can come from within and radiate outward.
- When you look at someone, lower your head slightly and look them in the eye. Give them a small smile.
- Try not to scream. Use a calm but firm voice when talking to other people.
- Use nail polish in cute colors (like pink or mauve), but don't overdo it. A little lip gloss may be enough.
- When speaking quietly, make sure that your voice is not too low. The person you are talking to should be able to hear you clearly. Clear and subtle is the key.
- Don't use too much makeup!
- Play with the hair with your fingers.
- Never be someone you are not, because people will label you "fake". Be yourself. By being yourself, people will feel more comfortable around you because they know they can be themselves around you too.
- Use minimal makeup, or none at all, because the secret to being cute is to use as little makeup as possible. People will still think you're cute without makeup.
- Remember, it's also a matter of perspective. People have different opinions about what is cute or attractive. This article is based solely on popular opinion.
- Be an innocent person.
- Wear colorful things, and try to be polite and smile at everyone!
- Don't be quick to anger, even if you're having a fight with a friend or sibling. You can show that you are angry, but immediately quell your anger.
- Don't change yourself too much.
- Wear clothes with beautiful patterns and bright colors like pink. This can be very influential.
- Don't feel like you have to do everything at once. Just relax.
