Everyone wants to feel attractive. You deserve to look and feel great too. Fortunately, there are various steps you can take to become an attractive person in the eyes of others. This means, every woman can be an attractive woman figure. The best way to make yourself more attractive is to show confidence. However, you can also design the perfect look for yourself. Also, make yourself appear more dynamic and attractive by highlighting your personality. Lastly, don't forget to take care of your body and mind.
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Method 1 of 4: Showing Confidence
Step 1. Stand up straight to maintain good posture
A positive posture shows confidence and comfort in yourself. To stand up straight, straighten your spine and slightly pull your shoulders back. After that, lift your chin and look straight ahead.
If you have had bad posture all this time, practice standing up straight in front of a mirror. Over time, the muscles of the body will be trained and you will get used to standing up straight
Step 2. Use open body language, such as leaning forward and eye contact
Smiling also makes you appear more confident and open. In addition, when standing, make sure your arms are not folded and are left at your sides. This form of body language can attract the attention of others so that you appear more attractive.
Don't force yourself to smile if you don't want to. However, a smile usually makes other people see you as a more attractive person
Step 3. Show a positive attitude
One of the things that makes you appear more attractive is positivity. To appear more positive, try to look on the bright side of things, even when you don't feel optimistic. Also, encourage others and share the positive things that are happening in your life.
- For example, you may be anxious about an upcoming group presentation. Instead of showing your anxiety, you can say, "It's been a pleasure working with everyone, and I'm excited to share information about our products today!"
- If someone is sad, you can say, “I know you're going through a tough time, but I believe you can get through it. You got through tough times before, and those problems made you stronger.”
- While chatting with friends, talk about your recent accomplishments, funny things your pet has done, or life goals you're pursuing.
Step 4. Try new experiences to show others that you are an attractive person
Take risks and step outside your comfort zone to show that you are an attractive and dynamic woman. This makes you appear more attractive. Prepare to try new things by visiting new places and inviting friends to do different activities.
For example, visit a karaoke center to sing, take a dance class, try bungee jumping, enjoy sky diving, sign up for a local theater audition, or try rock climbing
Step 5. Be grateful and show your uniqueness
Take the time to get to know yourself so you can see the impressive things about yourself. Make a list of your talents, accomplishments, favorite things, life goals, and other aspects. You have unique aspects that make you special, and they deserve to be shared with the world.
Don't compare yourself to others as this will make you forget the things that impress you
Method 2 of 4: Designing the Best Appearance
Step 1. Choose a hairstyle that is easy to manage or wear a beautiful scarf
Hair plays a role in framing your face, so styling it can make a big difference to your appearance. Styled hair can change your appearance significantly, so it's a good idea to style your hair every day. Look for a hairstyle that matches your hair texture, styling time limit, and personal preference.
As an alternative, you can create a stylish appearance with a beautiful veil
Step 2. Choose clean, well-fitting clothes that make you feel proud or great
You don't need expensive or trendy clothes to look attractive. Just choose clothes that fit your body size, and not clothes that are too big or wide. Also, wear clothes that you feel are cool to wear because feeling happy can make you look better.
- Choose clothes that reflect your sense of style. For example, you can wear floral clothes if you are a feminine girl, or leather clothes for a more unique or trendy style.
- Red can attract attention, so this color can be a great choice if you want to stand out!
Step 3. Use makeup if you want to highlight certain parts of your face
For example, eye shadow and shadow can make the eyes appear more prominent. Meanwhile, your smile will look more charming with a light colored lipstick. If you have blemishes or wrinkles on your face that you want to hide, use foundation and a blemish mask to get the look you want.
Natural makeup is generally considered more attractive. However, still create a look that you like because the most important thing is that you stay who you are
Step 4. Use a unique perfume that makes your body smell good
An alluring scent is one of the things that makes other people see you as an attractive person. In addition to attracting the attention of others, fragrance also shows that you are able to take good care of yourself. In addition, the sweet body aroma also indicates the cleanliness of the body that is maintained.
If you don't have a favorite scent or perfume, ask for a perfume sample from a beauty store or counter. After that, try spraying these samples on your body because your body chemistry can affect or change the smell of the perfume
Method 3 of 4: Highlight Personality
Step 1. Demonstrate a friendly and welcoming attitude when interacting with others
People will be more attracted if you are friendly with them. Smile or greet others when you pass. Also, memorize some of the questions you can ask to start a conversation with other people. Offer help if someone seems to need it.
- To appear friendly, all you have to do is say hello to the other person and smile at them.
- If you're not sure what form of questions to ask, you can say, "Has there been a good movie lately?", "What are your plans for the weekend?", or "How have you been this week?"
Step 2. Engage in fun activities that you enjoy
You will appear much more attractive while having fun. In addition, the existence of hobby activities that are undertaken make you more interesting and fun. Exciting activities or hobbies make you a more attractive person and appear more attractive in the eyes of others.
- For example, you could join a band, play bowling, write poetry, go to a concert, or join a recreational sports team.
- If you don't know what activity to do, try a few different activities until you find the one that works for you.
- As an added bonus, you can also boost your confidence while doing what you love!
Step 3. Highlight your unique side
Differences make you appear more seductive and attractive. Therefore, highlight what makes you different from others. Maybe you're obsessed with popular culture-themed desserts or you love recycling soda cans into jewelry. Whatever you do, show your uniqueness!
To be unique, you don't have to do something no one else has tried before. Therefore, don't feel pressured to do things that no one else has ever done. For example, collecting typewriters is unique. However, remember that you are not the only person who enjoys doing it
Step 4. Show genuine interest in the other person
People will be attracted if you care about them. Ask questions about themselves and listen to their stories. When they share something with you, show appreciation by understanding and listening to their story, and giving positive feedback.
For example, let's say someone tells you about their vacation. You can respond by saying, “Wow! Your vacation sounds great! Thank you for sharing your travel recommendations with me.”
Step 5. Instead of criticizing yourself, talk about yourself in a positive way
Your attractiveness or positive image will disappear if you criticize yourself often. Instead of talking about your bad or lacking self, highlight the great things that you have. Also, share your best life moments or stories. Habits like these help others see the best in you.
- For example, don't tell others when you're having a bad day. Instead, focus on the good things. You can say, "I'm proud of myself that I made it to work 5 minutes early this morning."
- Other than that, accept compliments sincerely, and don't "reject" or blame other people's words. If someone says, “You look great today!”, respond, “Thank you so much! I also want to say the same to you!”
Method 4 of 4: Taking Care of Yourself
Step 1. Keep yourself clean by showering every day
Keep your body clean by showering with soap and warm water at least once a day. To keep your body smelling good, use deodorant, antiperspirant products, or body powder to fight sweat and body odor. In addition, use lotion every day to keep skin smooth and soft.
If you sweat a lot, try to shower more often or use cleansing wipes to keep yourself clean
Step 2. Follow a skin care routine to prevent premature aging and blemishes on the skin
Wash your face with a mild soap in the morning and evening. Continue the treatment by applying facial lotion or cream. In addition, treat unique skin problems with products such as eye cream for wrinkles or eye bags, acne cream for blemishes, and lip balm for dry and chapped lips.
- Never sleep with make-up on because it can damage the skin.
- Ideally, use a lighter moisturizer during the day and a heavier cream at night.
Step 3. Eat a healthy and balanced diet
Fill half your plate with vegetables, a quarter of your plate with low-fat protein, and the other quarter with starch or wheat. Enjoy fresh fruits and vegetables as a snack whenever you feel hungry between meals. In addition, make sure you drink 8-12 glasses of water per day to maintain body fluids.
- If you tend to overeat at mealtimes, try eating smaller portions. This pattern makes you feel that you are eating more food.
- Do not stop eating the type of food you like because it will only make your mood worse. Instead, consume these types of foods in a limited way and look for healthier alternatives to make foods that don't fit into your healthy diet.
Step 4. Exercise for at least 30 minutes every day to improve your fitness
Choose a sport that is fun to keep you excited about. For example, you could try walking, jogging, dancing, aerobics, group fitness classes, kickboxing, or swimming. Find the type of exercise that's right for you!
Don't feel pressured to always exercise or lose weight. You can still be attractive, regardless of your weight. Just focus on improving your health in a sustainable way
Step 5. Get regular beauty treatments at home or spa
Beauty treatments such as face masks, massages, baths, and pedicures can make you feel more beautiful. This treatment can be the right step to feel more attractive. If you are worried about the budget needed, do your own beauty treatments at home as a more affordable option. However, spending a fortune on going to a spa and pampering yourself once in a while is still fun.
You don't need a lot of money to do your own beauty treatments at home, so don't let your budget get in the way of pampering yourself
Step 6. Relieve stress to keep your mood up
The presence of stress is a normal part of life, but in excess it can be dangerous. In addition to disturbing your skin condition and appetite, stress can also affect your mood, making it difficult for you to be an attractive person. Get rid of stress by doing the following calming activities:
- Talk to friends.
- Play with pets.
- Soak in warm water.
- Journal writing.
- Work with coloring books.
- Take a walk in nature.
- Watch funny movies.
- Meditate for 10 minutes.
Tips
- Focus on the things that make you feel good and happy, not the things that other people want from you. In addition to making life more cheerful, it also makes you feel confident.
- If someone makes you feel less attractive, don't spend a lot of time with them. He doesn't deserve to be on your mind and is probably dealing with his problems with his own image.
- Everyone's opinion on things that are considered attractive is different so it doesn't matter if someone disagrees with your opinion.
