When you like someone, it's only natural that you want to look good in front of them! Fortunately, there are many things you can do to look good, from grooming your body to wearing clothes that suit your shape. However, if you want to impress your crush, let him know your personality – don't be afraid to show confidence!
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Method 1 of 3: Showing Your Best and Feeling Confident
Step 1. Get regular sleep so you can get enough rest
Getting regular sleep can help you get a good night's sleep. So try to go to bed at the same time every night and wake up at the same time every morning. When you get enough rest, you will look refreshed, radiant, and energetic. That way, you will look attractive when you meet your crush in the morning!
If you can, try to go to bed at the same time every night, even on weekends. However, if you go to bed late, try to wake up according to the schedule so as not to ruin the sleep schedule that has been arranged
Step 2. Keep yourself clean every day
If you want your crush to be attracted to you, it's very important to make sure that your body is clean and well cared for. Every day, you have to shower, brush your teeth, and apply deodorant.
- You should also wash your face and apply a facial moisturizer twice a day. Choose a facial cleanser specifically designed for your skin type, such as a gentle cream cleanser for dry skin or a foam cleanser for oily skin.
- To keep your hands clean, trim your nails and clean the ends.
Step 3. Try wearing red to catch the crush's attention
If you are going to meet him, try to catch his attention by wearing flashy colors. For example, you could wear a fiery red top, or a neutral t-shirt with red accents for a more casual look. Red is a symbol of passion and love. So, this color can be a good medium to send a signal to your crush!
- You can still impress your crush even if you wear a color other than red, especially if you see him every day. Choose a color that matches your skin tone. For example, if you have warm skin, you might want to wear orange, yellow, and light brown. If you have cool skin, you may find it better to wear blue and green.
- Remember, regardless of your personal fashion sense, you will look attractive if the clothes you wear are not wrinkled and clean. In addition, choose clothes that fit your body. If your clothes are too tight, you will feel uncomfortable, while if they are too loose, you will look weird.
Step 4. Take the time to style your hair before meeting your crush
Although how you style your hair depends on your hairstyle and personal sense of style, you'll look more attractive if you take the time to look in the mirror every morning. If necessary, use a product like hair gel or spray to style your hair the way you like it. If you're in a hurry, at least use your fingers to straighten out the tangled hair.
- For example, if you have short hair, you can use gel to create a spiky hairstyle for a different look. You can also comb it behind your ear and spray it to make it look neater.
- If you have long hair, you can braid it or tie it up so it doesn't cover your face. You can also straighten your hair for easy styling, or use curling irons to create wavy patterns.
Disheveled hair?
Try wearing a scarf, headgear, or hat to cover it up!
Step 5. Wear accessories to show your sense of style
When you get dressed, choose at least one accessory to complete the look. Sometimes a simple touch can change your appearance significantly! For example, even if you're wearing a combination of jeans and a regular t-shirt, you can change your look by wearing large earrings, a neckband, a ring, or a thick belt.
- Choose accessories that reflect your personality. For example, if you are independent and rebellious, you can wear accessories like a rock star, such as a leather or canvas bracelet, a flashy belt, or a scalloped neckband.
- If you like to look glamorous, you might want to wear classic jewelry, such as pearl earrings, a large pendant chain necklace, or an expensive watch.
Step 6. Apply natural style makeup if necessary
You can wear a little makeup to hide blemishes or highlight the best parts of your face. However, remember that you want your crush to like you for who you are. So, even if you use facial makeup, make sure it looks natural and not excessive.
For example, for an everyday look, you can use a small amount of the shadow on the blemish and under the eyes, then thicken the eyebrows with an eyebrow pencil. Use your fingers to dab a little blush on your cheekbones, then add some mascara to your lashes
Step 7. Practice taking selfies to boost your confidence
When you have free time at home, take some selfies. Practice taking selfies from different angles until you find the best one. Looking at beautiful photos of your own face is a fun way to boost your self-confidence. So, you will feel more confident when you are around your crush.
- For a more aggressive approach, try sending your crush your best selfie. If you're not ready, send the photo where your crush will see it!
- If you decide to share your selfie on social media, choose 1-2 photos only. If you upload too many selfies, you will appear too narcissistic.
Tips:
A selfie is a great time to experiment with different types of clothes, hairstyles, and makeup!
Method 2 of 3: Getting Your Lover's Attention
Step 1. Smile and make eye contact when you see your crush
Even if you're talking to someone else, when your crush passes by, try to look at him or her to make brief eye contact. If this happens, smile at him, then continue with your normal activities. This will show that you're confident and comfortable, and will make your crush realize that you're paying attention.
- If you notice that your crush is staring at you, make eye contact and hold your gaze for a few seconds, then smile and look away.
- Smiling can make you feel happier. So, forcing yourself to smile may be necessary even if you're unlucky.
- Having a good sense of humor can also make you appear more attractive. If possible, tell a joke or funny story that will make other people laugh. Don't be shy about laughing when someone else tells a joke!
Step 2. Give your crush your full attention when he or she is talking
Show your crush that you care about what they have to say by being a good listener. Whenever you are around friends, crushes, or strangers, try to pay attention to the person who is talking. Use active listening techniques, such as answering "Yes?" or “Continue” to show that you are following the direction of the conversation, and repeat the main points of the conversation to show that you remember what was said.
- For example, if your crush says, "My aunt is having surgery on Thursday and I'm really worried about her," you could text her Thursday morning saying "Hey, I'm going to pray for the safety of your aunt's surgery today."
- Being a person who cares about other people – not just caring about your crush – will make you appear more attractive in the eyes of your crush.
Tips:
For a more aggressive approach, try leaning against your crush while you're chatting.
Step 3. Compliment your crush to make him smile
Whenever you get a chance, try to mention something nice about the person you have a crush on, whether it's their outfit, or their personality. If your crush notices that you like compliments, he or she may view you as a positive and kind person. In addition, focusing on other people's strengths will make it easier for you to realize your own strengths.
- For example, you could say, “Tasya, your presentation yesterday was really cool! You did a great job!”
- You can also say something like, "Hey Raka, I love your new haircut!"
Step 4. Share things you love and hate with your crush to show your personality
Sometimes, when you like someone, you tend to like to follow the things that person likes to impress them. However, you will appear more confident – and more attractive – if you have your own interest in something.
- If you hate avocados and your crush loves them, don't pretend to like them. However, show your courage to tell the truth. For example, you might say, "I don't like the texture of an avocado, but I like it when it's made into a drink with chocolate milk added!"
- If you have the same interests as your crush, try to focus on that, rather than anything else you don't like.
- It's okay if you don't want to open up too much. Don't feel like you have to tell everything about yourself. Being a little mysterious might make your crush even more interested!
Step 5. Hang out with your crush's friends to get to know them better
If you want to get your crush's attention, try hanging out with your crush's friends. Start a conversation with them in class, or sit down with them at lunch. Once you get to know them better, you will have more opportunities to meet your crush. So, the two of you will get closer.
- Do this if you really like his friends. If not, this method can hurt yourself, because his friends may annoy or badmouth you in front of your crush.
- Try not to give the impression that you want to date one of your crush's friends! For example, you may need to avoid excessive physical contact with them, especially in front of your crush.
Method 3 of 3: Keeping Your Head Cool in Front of Your Girlfriend
Step 1. Take a deep breath if you start to feel nervous in front of your crush
Even if you appear calm and confident on the outside, sometimes you may feel really nervous when your crush shows up. Whenever you feel a little nervous, count 1 to 4 while taking a deep breath, then count to 4 again while exhaling. If necessary, you can repeat this several times until you feel calm.
When you breathe deeply, it will send a signal to the body that everything is fine so that it will be easier for the body to feel relaxed
Step 2. Posing as cool as possible in front of your crush will make you feel more confident
For an attractive sitting posture, try to sit with your back straight, shoulders pulled back slightly, and head elevated. As you stand, place your feet in line with your shoulders, then push your shoulders back and stick out your chest while lifting your head. This will make you appear powerful and confident in front of your crush.
- If you appear confident, you will feel more confident. Adjusting your posture is a powerful way to do it.
- Showing open body language is another way to show that you are interested in your crush. For example, don't cross your arms and legs, because you'll look unapproachable.
Step 3. Use positive affirmations to help boost self-confidence
Spend some time thinking about what makes you special. When you've found what you're looking for, write it down, then read it over and over again aloud to yourself. This technique will increase your self-confidence, so that you appear more attractive in the eyes of others – including your crush.
- You can repeat the habit of giving positive affirmations every day in front of the mirror while getting ready, or use them when you feel nervous or weak, for example when you are around your crush.
- For example, you could say to yourself, "I'm smart and funny, today is going to be fun!"
