A very passionate kiss can be likened to a sensual dance. Lips, tongue, depth and speed, all must be in tune and move together, like a pair of harmonious dancers swaying beautifully on the dance floor. If you want to build sexual anticipation with a kiss, you shouldn't rush to do it all at once. You have to make your partner want further intimacy with every movement of your lips. Well, how can you do that? See Step 1 to get started.
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Part 1 of 2: Awakening Passion
Step 1. Find a comfortable place
If you want to make your kiss as sexy as possible, you have to put your lips together at the right place and time. No need to linger looking for the most perfect fit in the world, focus on finding a place that can provide enough privacy for the kiss, especially if you are kissing your partner for the first time. Make sure that you are alone, that there are no bright lights around you, and that there is a place to sit in case the kiss becomes more intimate.
So don't spend too much time looking for the perfect place. If you feel the atmosphere is right, you can even kiss your partner in the parking lot
Step 2. Soften your lips
Don't underestimate the effect that sexy, soft lips can have in a kiss. Your goal of making your partner go wild will not be achieved with chapped lips. Try to apply lip balm about 1-2 hours before the kiss, and moisturize your lips frequently before kissing so you can get the best kiss. But don't apply lip balm too close to kissing, because your partner will be able to feel the stickiness on your lips.
When applying lip balm, don't let your partner see it. This will make your intentions a little too clear
Step 3. Be a little flirty
If you want to build sexual anticipation, you have to flirt with your partner first, making him want the kiss even more. Take a moment to be playful, to make intense eye contact with your partner and then look away, to playfully touch your partner on the arm, shoulder or back, etc. You can even lean into him and then pull back, so you can be sure he's thinking about kissing you.
You can also tease him by sitting next to him holding his hand or playfully kissing his cheek. Any physical touch can carry the temptation to go further
Step 4. Wait for the right moment
The build-up of sexual tension can be intense, but smacking your lips at the wrong time or kissing someone when you least expect it will only lead to a very awkward and uncomfortable moment. When the mood is right, you'll know. The world around you will be silent, and the only thing on your mind is how much you want to kiss the person in front of you.
- When you're ready to kiss, you and your partner should end the conversation slowly and get ready to pay attention to each other.
- You may find that the person you are about to kiss becomes increasingly nervous or agitated because he or she is also anxious to initiate a kissing session. Don't worry, both of you will feel relaxed once you both kiss each other.
Step 5. Start slowly
Start slowly with small, gentle kisses on the lips. Then you can combine it with a gentle touch, whether holding hands, or the back of the head, or the face. Eyes, cheeks and hair are all erogenous zones and will respond strongly to a passionate kiss. If you immediately attack with a passionate kiss, your partner may not be ready to respond to the steps you take. Wait for your partner to match your pace before you start anything new.
Even if you want to have a deeper or more aggressive kiss, you need to stay in control. That way, you'll build anticipation even further
Part 2 of 2: Warming Up
Step 1. Flirt with your partner with the tip of your tongue
Trace the lower lip or the inside of the partner's upper lip with your tongue. This movement is sensual but can cause a tingling sensation. Explore the partner's lower lip and suck the lips with your lips, do it gently and slowly, then do the same with the partner's upper lip. You can even play around a bit here. When your partner is expecting the next kiss, pause for a moment, then continue with a sensual kiss that is worth the wait.
If this is your first time kissing your partner in a French kiss or using your tongue in any role during a kissing session, you should take it very slowly. Of course, you don't want to surprise your partner by using your tongue too quickly
Step 2. Use your tongue to explore your partner's mouth even further
Synchronize your movements and find the same rhythm as your partner. Use your tongue when your partner uses it and return to tongueless kissing when your partner does the same. Just follow the rhythm, surely in an instant both of you will be swept away in a sensual flow. You and your partner should use the tongue in more or less equal portions, otherwise your partner may still feel a little scared. It's your job to take this kiss further.
Step 3. Vary between sweet and sexy kisses
Just lightly bite your partner's bottom lip and pull it toward you before releasing it and launching another passionate kiss. You don't have to stick to just one style during a kissing session, and switching from sweet and soft to sexy and more aggressive will make your partner even more passionate about kissing you, and for all the sexy things that lie ahead of you.
Step 4. Create the right blend
Don't kiss your partner in the same old style all the time. Most people tend to tilt their heads and kiss to the right. Do something a little crazy and try going left for something different. Try a more aggressive kissing style and pair it with a softer, sweeter style. This trick can be a bit tricky at first, because the key to making a sexy kiss is to maintain a steady rhythm, and you don't want to break the beat by changing kiss styles too often. However, there's no need to worry about uncertainty for a second or two if you can eventually drive your partner wild by changing your kissing style!
Step 5. Try a few light bites
When you kiss your partner, gently bite his lip and see how he responds. If you want to play it safe, try a light bite first and increase your bite to a firmer one if your partner likes what you have to offer. It could be that your partner actually feels aroused and excited by your kissing skills who dare to take spontaneous risks.
Step 6. Flirt with your partner
A little flirtation can bring success in building sexual anticipation. One way is to kiss your partner, and just when things are really hot, stop, make intense eye contact, make your partner think how much he wants you, and then bring your lips closer to kiss him again. If you do this trick once or twice during a kissing session, it will throw your partner out of control.
Also, it's okay if you want to take a break (and not just do it to flirt with your partner). Even the world's greatest kissers need an occasional break
Step 7. Don't be afraid to use your hands
Kissing is not just a matter of bringing lips together. In fact, if you're kissing with your hands hanging at your sides or lying on your lap, you're missing out on a full-body experience and your partner may feel like they're making out with an inanimate object. However, there is no need to keep your hands busy stroking your partner's body to make him more passionate. Just use your hands to touch your partner's back, arms, hair, or neck, and you'll add an extra sensation of passion to your kiss.
Using your hand to trace your partner's neck when you kiss him will only make him go wild
Step 8. Make your partner want more
In building sexual anticipation it is important not to give it all too soon or too early. Whether you're using the kiss as a way to build anticipation for something you're going to do soon, or just to make your partner feel more excited in general, you shouldn't move on to the next stage too soon for anticipation to build properly. Do not immediately switch from kissing to the bedroom because it could be that your partner has not really built his passion to go to the next stage. Kiss at least a few minutes before you start taking this sensual interaction further, if you want your partner to be even more passionate.
